Oliver Burkeman on Modern Time Management

Ryan Holiday is one of the world’s foremost thinkers and writers on ancient philosophy and its place in everyday life. He’s a sought-after speaker, strategist, and the author of many best-selling books. In this episode, Eric and Ryan discuss his book, Courage is Calling: Fortune Favors the Brave But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you! Enrollment for the Spiritual Habits Group Program is now open through October 12. Click here to learn more and signup! In This Interview, Eric and Ryan Holiday Discuss Everyday Courage and … His book, Courage is Calling: Fortune Favors the Brave The 4 cardinal virtues that a good life depends on Courage, both physical and moral, is the willingness to put yourself at risk How fear gets in the way of courage Learning to get specific with our fears Courage is also about sharing our vulnerabilities with others The importance of just getting started How courage requires making decisions Determining and gaining clarity on our personal values Stoicism and how it encompasses the core virtues Similarities and differences between Buddhism and Stoicism Heroism goes beyond courage, doing something for the greater good or greater than oneself How it requires courage to have belief and hope that things can change for the better His courage to open a bookstore in the midst of the pandemic Ryan Holiday Links: Ryan’s Website Twitter Instagram Facebook Feals: Premium CBD delivered to your doorstep to help you manage stress, anxiety, pain, and sleeplessness. Feals CBD is food-grade and every batch is tested so you know you are getting a truly premium grade product. Get 50% off your first order with free shipping by becoming a member at www.feals.com/wolf  If you enjoyed this conversation with Ryan Holiday, you might also enjoy these other episodes: How to be Fearless with Jessica Hagy Conscious Leadership with Eric Kaufmann See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

12 Okt 202157min

Kristoffer Carter is a spiritual teacher at the intersection of consciousness and business. He is a frequent speaker, author, and founder of This Epic Life, a website and podcast devoted to conscious living.   In this episode, Eric and Kristoffer discuss his book, Permission to Glow: A Spiritual Guide to Epic Leadership. But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you! Enrollment for the Spiritual Habits Group Program is now open through October 12. Click here to learn more and signup! In This Interview, Eric and Kristoffer Discuss Permissions to Glow and … His book, Permission to Glow: A Spiritual Guide to Epic Leadership Developing a conscious awareness of our internal experience How a meditation practice strengthens our ability to listen to the inner voice The “frenemies” within us Surrendering the ego and having trust in others How he brings spirituality into his work with corporate leadership training  Giving ourselves permission to claim our own power “Permission to Chill” and pausing to see things as they are The 3 phases of meditation “Permission to Feel all the Feels”  “Permission to Glow in the Dark” and befriending the darkness “Permission to Glow in the Light” and connecting with others Kristoffer Carter’s Links: Kristoffer’s Website Instagram Facebook Twitter Linked In Novo Nordisk – Explore the science behind weight loss and partner with your healthcare provider for a healthy approach to your weight management. If you enjoyed this conversation with Kristoffer Carter, you might also enjoy these other episodes: Kristoffer Carter (2014) Tasha Eurich on Growing Self-Awareness Transformative Mindfulness with Shauna Shapiro See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

8 Okt 202158min

Dr. Rick Hanson and Forrest Hanson are hosts of the popular podcast, Being Well. Rick is a psychologist who writes and teaches about the essential inner skills of personal well-being, psychological growth, and contemplative practice, and together they address many of these issues on their podcast. In this episode, Eric and Ginny discuss how to be well and experience psychological growth with Rick and Forrest. But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you! Enrollment for the Spiritual Habits Group Program is now open through October 12. Click here to learn more and signup! In This Interview, Eric, Ginny, Rick, and Forrest Discuss Learning How to Be Well and … Their podcast, Being Well The “dreaded experience” and how we organize our lives to avoid our fear, shame, vulnerability How growth comes from facing and leaning into our dreaded experiences Limiting beliefs and how our self-conception is 6 months out of date Understanding that our brains are forecasting machines Rick’s experience in a body massage skills workshop Pausing to take in the positive experiences that come on the other side of facing the dreaded experiences The assumptions that Forrest must be perfectly adjusted being the son of a psychologist Nature versus nurture and how we all have wounds to deal with, no matter our upbringing The upper reaches of potential  Becoming comfortable with the experience of admitting fault is how we free ourselves Asking where the forces of control are in our lives Distinguishing between our internal and external forces How our circumstances can be unfair, and yet our healing is our responsibility We have a moral responsibility to decide which “wolf” we will feed  The hope in knowing that all storms will pass  Dr. Rick Hanson and Forrest Hanson Links: Rick’s Website Rick’s Facebook Forrest’s Website Forrest’s Instagram Forrest’s Facebook Being Well on Instagram Best Fiends: Engage your brain and play a game of puzzles with Best Fiends. Download for free on the Apple App Store or Google Play.    Peloton: Now you can get a Peloton bike for $400 off! And of course, the bike is an incredible workout, but did you know that on the Peloton app, you can also take yoga, strength training, stretching classes, and so much more? Learn all about it at www.onepeloton.com.   If you enjoyed this conversation with Dr. Rick Hanson and Forrest Hanson, you might also enjoy these other episodes: Dr. Rick Hanson (2018) Dr. Rick Hanson (2015) Being Human with Krista Tippett See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

5 Okt 202156min

Luke Burgis is an entrepreneur who has founded and led multiple companies. He is currently Director of Programs at The Center for Principled Entrepreneurship at the Catholic University of America. He is also the founder and Director of Fourth Wall Ventures, an incubator that he started to build, train, and invest in people and companies that contribute to a healthy human ecology.  In this episode, Eric and Luke discuss his book, Wanting: The Power of Mimetic Desire in Everyday Life But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you! Enrollment for the Spiritual Habits Group Program is now open through October 12. Click here to learn more and signup! In This Interview, Luke Burgis and I Discuss Mimetic Desires in Everyday Life and … His book, Wanting: The Power of Mimetic Desire in Everyday Life Human desires and how they apply to the wolf parable Mimetic desire refers to how we imitate the desires of other people How particular modeled desires come from a sense of lack The importance of understanding that our desires are driven by imitation Learning to exercise more freedom in what we desire Desire is the energy of movement toward or away from something Anti-mimetic desire is having the ability to not engage in what you desire The differences between thin and thick desires The paradox of desires and values: “Do we desire what we value or do we value what we desire?” Recognizing the hierarchy of our values and evaluating our desires accordingly A fulfillment story is sharing a personal story with someone else about something in your life that gave you enduring joy Understanding the social nature of our desires Luke Burgis Links: Luke’s Website Twitter Instagram Facebook Calm App: The app designed to help you ease stress and get the best sleep of your life through meditations and sleep stories. Join the 85 million people around the world who use Calm to get better sleep. Get 40% off a Calm Premium Subscription (a limited time offer!) by going to www.calm.com/wolf If you enjoyed this conversation with Luke Burgis, you might also enjoy these other episodes: How to Find Zest in Life with Dr. John Kaag Finding Zen in the Ordinary with Christopher Keevil See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1 Okt 202156min

Najwa Zebian is an activist, author, speaker, and educator. Najwa recently launched a digital school, Soul Academy, and a podcast, Stories of the Soul.  Her work has been featured in the New York Times, Glamour, Elle, Huffington Post, and more. She’s well known for her TEDx Talk “Finding Home Through Poetry“ In this episode, Eric and Najwa discuss her new book, Welcome Home: A Guide to Building a Home For Your Soul. But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you! Enrollment for the Spiritual Habits Group Program is now open through October 12. Click here to learn more and signup! In This Interview, Najwa Zebian and I Discuss How to Build a Home for Your Soul and … Her book, Welcome Home: A Guide to Building a Home For Your Soul. Her search for the feeling of home within herself Learning to see herself through her own eyes and not other’s eyes The feeling of being loved needs to come from within How to balance being at home in yourself with your relationships with other people Identifying your “guest list” who you’d welcome into your home Being at home in yourself allows for the best connections with others Being worthy of love is not based on pleasing others or working hard for it Self-acceptance is about knowing who you are and not focusing on what other people think Changing the question from “why can’t I have that” to “why don’t I have that”  The self-fulfilling prophecy of what you believe is what you will live Self-accountability and choosing your actions Forgiveness is not a one-step thing, but a constant process of choosing to let go The activities of the blank canvas mirror and the unveiling mirror Finding clarity and asking yourself “what’s next?” Choosing to speak to yourself kindly Najwa Zebian Links: Najwa’s Website Twitter Instagram Skillshare is an online learning community that helps you get better on your creative journey. They have thousands of inspiring classes for creative and curious people. Sign up via www.skillshare.com/feed and you’ll get a FREE one-month trial of Skillshare premium membership. If you enjoyed this conversation with Najwa Zebian, you might also enjoy these other episodes: Finding Grace with Eiman Al Zaabi Intimate Conversations with the Divine with Caroline Myss See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

28 Sep 20211h 3min

Carol S. Dweck, Ph.D., is one of the world’s leading researchers in the field of motivation and is the Lewis and Virginia Eaton Professor of Psychology at Stanford University. Her research has focused on why people succeed and how to foster success.  She has held professorships at Columbia University and Harvard University, has lectured all over the world, and has been elected to the American Academy of Arts and Sciences. Her work has been featured in such publications as The New Yorker, Time, The New York Times, The Washington Post, and The Boston Globe, and she has appeared on Today and 20/20.  In this episode, Carol and Eric discuss her book, Mindset: The New Psychology of Success. But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you! In This Interview, Carol Dweck and I Discuss Fixed and Growth Mindset and … Her book, Mindset: The New Psychology of Success How in the growth mindset we believe in our ability to grow and change In the fixed mindset we become afraid to not know or to fail Listening to and accepting what our minds think Learning to talk back to our default mindset Recognizing that we have a choice of our mindset How we can have a fixed and growth mindset in different areas of our lives A growth mindset doesn’t say that there aren’t differences in skills and ability How people with the fixed mindset are not inspired by role models The mindset approach can be used in regards to personality That teenagers that are taught the growth mindset are less likely to become depressed Learning to use the growth mindset In a growth mindset we can see criticism as feedback, as a way to change Relationships grow better in a growth mindset Carol Dweck Links: Mindset Works Twitter Instagram Talkspace is the online therapy company that lets you connect with a licensed therapist from anywhere at any time at a fraction of the cost of traditional therapy. It’s therapy on demand. Visit www.talkspace.com or download the app and enter Promo Code: WOLF to get $100 off your first month. If you enjoyed this conversation with Carol Dweck, you might also enjoy these other episodes: Brandi Lust on Growth via the Present Moment Emma Seppalah See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

24 Sep 202132min

Jonathan Fields is a father, husband, award-winning author, executive producer, and host of one of the top-ranked podcasts in the world, The Good Life Project. He also speaks globally to groups and organizations and his work has been featured widely in the media including The New York Times, The Washington Post, Oprah Magazine, and many others.  In this episode, Jonathan and Eric discuss his book, Sparked: Discover Your Unique Imprint for Work that Makes You Come Alive.  But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you! In This Interview, Jonathan Fields and I Discuss How to Discover Your Sparketype and … His book, Sparked: Discover Your Unique Imprint for Work that Makes You Come Alive The 10 impulses that underlie the drives that humans have Why the words “life purpose” and “passion” often lead us down the wrong path How very often in life there’s not A “right” answer How to find out your Sparketype The difference between primary, shadow, and anti sparketypes Eric’s Sparketype How to align your work with your Sparketype (without blowing up your life!) How to figure out the answer to “what am I going to do with my life?” How to step into the important work of self discovery Jonathan Fields Links: Jonathan’s Website Twitter Instagram Upstart: The fast and easy way to get a personal loan to consolidate, lower your interest rate, and pay off your debt. Go to www.upstart.com/wolf Peloton: Of course the bike is an incredible workout, but did you know that on the Peloton app, you can also take yoga, strength training, stretching classes, and so much more? Learn all about it at www.onepeloton.com If you enjoyed this conversation with Jonathan Fields, you might also enjoy these other episodes: Jonathan Fields (2016) Jonathan Fields (2014) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

21 Sep 202154min

Dr. Miles Neale is among the leading voices of the current generation of Buddhist teachers and is a forerunner in the emerging field of Contemplative Psychotherapy. He is a licensed psychotherapist in private practice, an international speaker, and a faculty member of the Tibet House (US) and Weill Cornell Medical College.   In this episode, Miles and Eric discuss his book, Gradual Awakening:  The Tibetan Buddhist Path of Becoming Fully Human But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you! In This Interview, Dr. Miles Neale and I Discuss Gradual Awakening and… His book, Gradual Awakening:  The Tibetan Buddhist Path of Becoming Fully Human How a person’s mythology is held in the unconscious with the framework that was formed in childhood Shadow work is diving deep into the unconscious or the inner child The process of going from understanding our behavior to changing it  How processing emotions need to be included in behavior change The importance of establishing a new framework in the complex inner work Becoming fully human is complex and requires commitment The gradual and direct paths to awakening experiences How awakening requires a new framework within the psyche The importance of understanding the complexities of psychedelics The paradigm of the current wellness movement and materialism How we can miss the power of many transformative techniques  Aligning ourselves with the greater good Dr. Miles Neale Links: Miles’s Website Instagram YouTube If you enjoyed this conversation with Dr. Miles Neale, you might also enjoy these other episodes: Awakening in Life with Ryan Oelke Spiritual Awakening with Adyashanti See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

17 Sep 20211h