895. Finding the Freedom in Disappointing Others w/ Shauna Niequist

Feeling like you've hit your rock bottom? 3-Time NYT Bestselling author @GlennonDoyle can relate. After a severe alcohol addiction, a crippling fight w/ bulimia, and a broken marriage, she's reinvigorated herself with yet another lauded book "UNTAMED" - where she teaches women everywhere including me, how to finally listen to that inner voice and chase the life we actually want to live. There's a reason Oprah Winfrey is producing a scripted film based on her life. Glennon believes that women are tamed to shrink and disappear, rather than embrace the wild, beautiful lives that live inside each and every one us. Really, her message is simple: "Disappoint as many people as you can to avoid disappointing yourself." RESOURCES: GLENNON DOYLE: @GlennonDoyle UNTAMED BOOK: https://www.amazon.com/Untamed-Glennon-Doyle-Melton/dp/1984801252 GLENNON'S CHARITY: https://togetherrising.org/ SUZY BATIZ EPISODE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/turning-bad-sh-t-to-good-sh-t-secret-to-success-suzy/id1320060107?i=1000432243760 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/better-together-w-maria/support

13 Jul 20201h 42min

This episode is of the BEST and most important conversations I’ve EVER HAD on my show!  Your emotions do NOT define you.By changing your language from “I am stressed” to “I FEEL stressed,” Harvard Psychologist Dr. Susan David teaches us how to face life’s very real challenges with courage.  Tune in for simple and POWERFUL tools that will change your life! RESOURCES: Dr David's Socials: @SusanDavid_PHD Dr David's Website: https://www.susandavid.com/ Dr David's Emotional Agility Quiz: http://quiz.susandavid.com/s3/eai --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/better-together-w-maria/support

9 Jul 20201h 36min

Overwhelmed? Not where you want to be in your life?! Bestselling author of "Get S**t Done" Erin Falconer BLEW MARIA'S MIND today when she stressed the importance of checking in with ourselves. Erin's revolutionary techniques to productivity will CHANGE YOUR LIFE: -take stock of what you ACTUALLY want -limit your goals to three major focuses -throw off the expectations of perfection You can literally do a 180 on your own life!!! This is truly one of my favorite conversations I've EVER had on this show, and if you know 3 people in your life that need to hear this message, tag them in the comments below. Subscribe on YouTube and join us everyday LIVE at 11am - link in BIO! RESOURCES: Erin's Socials: @ErinFalconerErin's  Website: www.pickthebrain.com Erin's Book: https://www.amazon.com/How-to-Get-Sh-t-Done-audiobook/dp/B078K259JY/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=erin+falconer+get+shit+done&qid=1594243812&sr=8-1 (edited) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/better-together-w-maria/support

8 Jul 20201h 24min

Craving more happiness in your life? Today, I featured NYT bestselling author and happiness expert @GretchenRubin to discuss the practical "emergency toolkit" methods to increase your happiness; did you know "smelling the roses" is scientifically proven to increase your happiness?  Also, did you know that clutter doesn't necessarily equal disorganization!  You HAVE to watch today's episode to find out why! I know there are people in your life who NEED a happiness boost right now, so mention them in the comments below to change their day! RESOURCES: Gretchen's Socials: @GretchenRubin Gretchen's Emergency Playlist:  https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4OJtnTLct2v1YiKryA7iGB Gretchen's 4 Tendencies Quiz: https://quiz.gretchenrubin.com/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/better-together-w-maria/support

8 Jul 20201h 27min

Looking for some good fitness accountability in Quarantine? The Tone It Up app, co-founded by my guest Karena Dawn, offers you easy at-home workouts, and we discuss a TON of them today's episode of Better Together. We also discussed the growing popularity of CBD, and, she teases the power of CAULIFLOWER in smoothies!? Who knew! Share this post with 5 friends that you know are OBSESSED with smoothies!  But first, we feature our #GoodNewsMonday story courtesy of @GoodNews_Movement: a montage of a hardworking Lebanese essential worker, as a tribute from his proud, beautiful daughter. RESOURCES: Karena's Socials: @KarenaDawn  Tone It Up Website: www.toneitup.com Altwell Website: www.altwell.com TikTok Trump Imitator: @TheReal_NRP Booty Bands: https://www.google.com/aclk?sa=l&ai=DChcSEwjKt_n-tbnqAhVeGK0GHQGqCbsYABACGgJwdg&sig=AOD64_0irpXPPpWnWtWwostZZ51AMQWGiA&q=&ved=2ahUKEwj4hfP-tbnqAhVOsZ4KHQ87CJsQ0Qx6BAgREAE&adurl= Cauliflower Smoothie Recipe: https://www.toneitup.com/recipe/this-secret-ingredient-is-going-to-transform-your-smoothie/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/better-together-w-maria/support

6 Jul 20201h 7min

In anticipation of 4th of July, I'm thrilled to feature @ChefMarcMurphy on my show, where he helped us make the world's BEST Watermelon/Feta salad you've ever had! Up your food game this Saturday! But first, we discuss 4th of July trivia. How many total hot dogs do YOU think are consumed across the country every July 4? Comment below! RESOURCES:  Marc Murphy's Book: https://www.amazon.com/Season-Authority-Confident-Home-Cooking/dp/0544315553/ref=asc_df_0544315553/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=311990507415&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=15934127926158328&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9031149&hvtargid=pla-570552813978&psc=1  Marc Murphy's Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/food-360-with-marc-murphy/id1458545350  Marc Murphy's Grilled Romaine Recipe: https://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/grilled-romaine-3362675  Marc Murphy's Watermelon/Feta/Mint Recipe: (simple, just combine those ingredients!)   Become a member of the Better Together community through Patreon! Patreon.com/BetterTogetherWithMaria  Join our Facebook group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/432608110738691/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/better-together-w-maria/support

2 Jul 20201h 5min

Video: https://youtu.be/2ThtkEYFt8I Whether it's your kids or your spouse, you may be one of the many people losing their minds in lockdown. The surprising reason for this might be that you aren't PLAYING enough. Bestselling interpersonal psychologist Dr. Amanda Gummer says that by getting active, re-focusing your energy, creating space for forgivable mistakes, and fostering a space to laugh, play is one of the best ways to maintain positive mental health in lockdown, and not just with your kids! RESOURCES: AMANDA'S WEBSITE: www.goodplayguide.com GREAT "PLAY" RESOURCES FOR PARENTS: www.thegeniusofplay.org/playtoday --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/better-together-w-maria/support

1 Jul 202054min

Though WWE's Fire and Desire are at odds, my friend Sonya Deville has never been better. From her untouchable presence on Smackdown to her passionate inclusion messages during Pride, Sonya (or as I call her, Daria) is one of the most important and badass role models on TV right now.In this conversation, we talk about her early days as an extra on Burn Notice and her decision to come out as gay on national television. Plus a surprise caller shades Sonya LIVE on air, who Sonya accuses of being her arch-rival Mandy Rose... RESOURCES: MALIBU HARD WATER: https://www.amazon.com/Malibu-Hard-Water-Wellness-Remedy/dp/B0019HYC6G FOLLOW SONYA: @SonyaDevilleWWE FOLLOW MANDY(?): @WWE_MandyRose Become a member of the Better Together community through Patreon! Patreon.com/BetterTogetherWithMaria  Join our Facebook group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/432608110738691/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/better-together-w-maria/support

30 Jun 20201h 8min