3. The Brutal Truth of Overcoming Porn Addiction with Mari Paulus (30+ years experience working in addiction)

3. The Brutal Truth of Overcoming Porn Addiction with Mari Paulus (30+ years experience working in addiction)

Here it is. The answer I had been looking for. Even if this podcast had 0 listens and I'd spent hundreds of hours recording episodes, it all would have been worth it just to have met Mari.


Honestly, I feel incredibly grateful that Mari one day stumbled upon my podcast and enquired about being a guest. She has genuinely changed my life for good. I've listened to hundreds of people talk about the best approach towards quitting porn.


But, no one has helped me as much as Mari. She gets to the point. She's helped me understand that this is a compulsive behaviour and it's not going away through meditation or any other thing that improves my life. Yes, I will continue to meditate for one hour each day as this enhances my life massively, but that is not the long-term solution to quitting porn.


The solution to quitting porn is challenging, but worth it. It involves:

  1. Continuously identifying junkie thinking of any kind
  2. Having a specific script to use when urges occur


I am excited to bring Mari's 30+ years of experience to you.


If you like this podcast, then you can also get our FREE training that we have recorded together where we discuss similar themes covered in this podcast. www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com


Any reviews would be hugely welcome as I'd love to grow the podcast in 2024 and doing so requires your help.

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41. Porn Addiction Recovery - All or Nothing Thinking and Self-Deprecation

41. Porn Addiction Recovery - All or Nothing Thinking and Self-Deprecation

If you want to stay stopped correctly, without having to use willpower, join the email list and get the free training - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ In this episode, I talk about how I used to have all or nothing thinking, but totally denied the reality of addiction by thinking relapsing was okay. The reality is that engaging creates more desire. After 9 years in a porn addiction, I was lucky enough to meet Mari Paulus who taught me how to connect to my compulsive desires, think through them using a specific script, and change my addicted neural pathways. We are on a mission to empower the disempowered by creating Help is Here podcasts talking about the Beyond Compulsion™ method. There is tons to learn and so we have plenty of more episodes to share soon as we spread the message that permanent mental freedom is possible. ⁠⁠#pornaddiction⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#addictionrecovery⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠#foodaddictionrecovery⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#pornaddictionrecovery⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#nofap

7 Okt 20246min

40. "2 Days Without Porn is Success"

40. "2 Days Without Porn is Success"

If you want to stay stopped correctly, without having to use willpower, join the email list and get the free training - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ In this episode, I talk about my new perspective on what it means to quit porn addiction. After 9 years in a porn addiction, I was lucky enough to meet Mari Paulus who taught me how to connect to my compulsive desires, think through them using a specific script, and change my addicted neural pathways. We are on a mission to empower the disempowered by creating Help is Here podcasts talking about the Beyond Compulsion™ method. There is tons to learn and so we have plenty of more episodes to share soon as we spread the message that permanent mental freedom is possible. ⁠⁠#pornaddiction⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#addictionrecovery⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠#foodaddictionrecovery⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#pornaddictionrecovery⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#nofap

4 Okt 20249min

39. Is there anything to "Learn from relapses" ?

39. Is there anything to "Learn from relapses" ?

If you want to stay stopped correctly, without having to use willpower, join the email list and get the free training - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ In this episode, I talk about how I went wrong in my approach to quitting by porn by trying to "learn from relapses". This kept me stuck completely. After 9 years in a porn addiction, I was lucky enough to meet Mari Paulus who taught me how to connect to my compulsive desires, think through them using a specific script, and change my addicted neural pathways. We are on a mission to empower the disempowered by creating Help is Here podcasts talking about the Beyond Compulsion™ method. There is tons to learn and so we have plenty of more episodes to share soon as we spread the message that permanent mental freedom is possible. ⁠⁠#pornaddiction⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#addictionrecovery⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠#foodaddictionrecovery⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#pornaddictionrecovery⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#nofap

2 Okt 20248min

38. Overcoming Low Confidence in a Porn Addiction with Mari Paulus

38. Overcoming Low Confidence in a Porn Addiction with Mari Paulus

If you want to stay stopped correctly, without having to use willpower, join the email list and get the free training - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ In this episode, we talk about how the addicted part of people's mind will keep them stuck in addiction through self-deprecation. This leads to low confidence and the cycle of porn and feelings of failure go around and around. After 9 years in a porn addiction, I was lucky enough to meet Mari Paulus who taught me how to connect to my compulsive desires, think through them using a specific script, and change my addicted neural pathways. We are on a mission to empower the disempowered by creating Help is Here podcasts talking about the Beyond Compulsion™ method. There is tons to learn and so we have plenty of more episodes to share soon as we spread the message that permanent mental freedom is possible. ⁠⁠#pornaddiction⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#addictionrecovery⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠#foodaddictionrecovery⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#pornaddictionrecovery⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#nofap

30 Sep 202427min

37. The Exhausting Reality of My Porn Addiction

37. The Exhausting Reality of My Porn Addiction

If you want to stay stopped correctly, without having to use willpower, join the email list and get the free training - ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠ In this episode, I talk about how I used to run on the self-improvement treadmill to try and quit porn and how exhausting this was. After 9 years in a porn addiction, I was lucky enough to meet Mari Paulus who taught me how to connect to my compulsive desires, think through them using a specific script, and change my addicted neural pathways. We are on a mission to empower the disempowered by creating Help is Here podcasts talking about the Beyond Compulsion™ method. There is tons to learn and so we have plenty of more episodes to share soon as we spread the message that permanent mental freedom is possible. ⁠⁠#pornaddiction⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#addictionrecovery⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#nicotineaddiction⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#foodaddictionrecovery⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#pornaddictionrecovery⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#nofap

27 Sep 20248min

36. 3 Big Mistakes I Made Trying to Quit Porn

36. 3 Big Mistakes I Made Trying to Quit Porn

Hey sorry if you listened to this the first time round and noticed a problem with the editing. It's updated now. Free training available at www.beyondcompulsion.com Please learn from my 3 mistakes. The addicted part of the mind is as smart as you. But, we can outsmart it. After 9 years in a porn addiction, I was lucky enough to meet Mari Paulus who taught me how to connect to my compulsive desires, think through them using a specific script, and change my addicted neural pathways. We are on a mission to empower the disempowered by creating Help is Here podcasts talking about the Beyond Compulsion™ method. There is tons to learn and so we have plenty of more episodes to share soon as we spread the message that permanent mental freedom is possible. ⁠⁠#pornaddiction⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#addictionrecovery⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#nicotineaddiction⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#foodaddictionrecovery⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#pornaddictionrecovery⁠⁠ ⁠⁠#nofap

26 Sep 202418min

35. Listen to This Before Relapsing with Porn

35. Listen to This Before Relapsing with Porn

If you want to stay stopped correctly, without having to use willpower, join the email list and get the free training - ⁠https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/⁠ In this episode, I talk about how junkie thoughts are any excuse, rationalisation, justification to continue engaging in your compulsive behaviour. The addicted part of the mind is as smart as you. But, we can outsmart it. After 9 years in a porn addiction, I was lucky enough to meet Mari Paulus who taught me how to connect to my compulsive desires, think through them using a specific script, and change my addicted neural pathways. We are on a mission to empower the disempowered by creating Help is Here podcasts talking about the Beyond Compulsion™ method. There is tons to learn and so we have plenty of more episodes to share soon as we spread the message that permanent mental freedom is possible. ⁠#pornaddiction⁠ ⁠#addictionrecovery⁠ ⁠#nicotineaddiction⁠ ⁠#foodaddictionrecovery⁠ ⁠#pornaddictionrecovery⁠ ⁠#nofap

23 Sep 202412min

34. Getting Out of The Constant Conflict of Porn Addiction with Mari Paulus

34. Getting Out of The Constant Conflict of Porn Addiction with Mari Paulus

If you want to stay stopped correctly, without having to use willpower, join the email list and get the free training - https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/ In this episode, we talk about the normalisation of addiction throughout society and how the Beyond Compulsion™ method can provide hope and direction to those currently struggling through a completely different approach to what is usually talked about. After 9 years in a porn addiction, I was lucky enough to meet Mari Paulus who taught me how to connect to my compulsive desires, think through them using a specific script, and change my addicted neural pathways. We are on a mission to empower the disempowered by creating Help is Here podcasts talking about the Beyond Compulsion™ method. There is tons to learn and so we have plenty of more episodes to share soon as we spread the message that permanent mental freedom is possible. #pornaddiction #addictionrecovery #nicotineaddiction #foodaddictionrecovery #pornaddictionrecovery #nofap

19 Sep 202443min

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