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Taking the road less traveled and deciding to remain childfree can be a daunting decision for couples looking to build a business together--after all, there'll be no one to automatically look after the business when important decisions have to be made at home. But don't let that stop you!Besides plenty of challenges, there are also numerous pros and cons to being childfree as a couple running a business. Through hard-earned wisdom from those that decide to make this choice, some surprising truths have been revealed: it's not just about having more time and more money; it's about finding purpose and joy in what you do together. With some guidance plus loads of grace on your journey to making this choice, you're sure to make it work for the both of you!Let David and Elle tell you their story. Over a decade in love and business, they share all their best pieces of advice, some family and friend anecdotes, and suprising truths about how to be at peace with this decision and keep moving forward. A must-listen for people who are really contemplating having kids while starting or running a business.

4 Apr 20231h 22min

Being a hot girl on social media these days doesn’t come without its ups and downs. (Trust me, I know! *hair flip*) JK :POn the bright side, a "hot girl" typically has a huge following and can use their social media as a platform to easily get attention, which then, when used correctly, can turn into sales.On the down side however, while a hot girl may be receiving attention from followers who view them as eye candy or "online celebrities", it may not always translate into real growth and success in their business. Believe me, I've seen hot girls do amazing 7-figure launches, and I've also seen some make huge flops. (Hey, same for men, too!)The gap between popularity and creating something of value is far too wide for outwards beauty alone to bridge. This is why I sat down and chatted with Des Dobreva, our resident "hot girl" to talk about what it's like to build her business using social media. Get ready for the ruckus as we....Define what a "hot girl" is and how we also perceive them as business ownersDiscuss how she used her looks to her advantage to start her online business journey Tell stories about what it's like to come from a developing country, then do business in more developed countries, and people back home using your looks to invalidate what you doTalk about good and bad "hot girl experiences" on social mediaLearn about one of the best lessons about posting on social (note: this ONE THING specifically separates being a senseless word vomit vs. being elegantly vulnerable)It's easy to either get triggered or get inspired by some hot girl on social media. At the end of the day, good business beats everything else, and in the internet age, feedback and results are easy to prove.Either way-- if I was made to choose between being hot or not, I'd still choose to be hot. ;) Follow Des' adventures at www.desdobreva.com and on Instagram @desdobreva.

29 Mar 20231h 1min

As entrepreneurs, let's stop lying--- we're here to MAKE MONEY. Making money can feel like a personal journey that's filled with highs and lows, though. We might start businesses to build wealth, but when it comes down to it, knowing how to use money in smart and effective ways, plus knowing how to act, and feel around money is an art form...and a lifelong process of learning.That's why I'm so grateful for any lessons- mistakes, heartaches included- I've learned along the way. Sneak peek:ONE activity you could do that will drastically change your relationship with money The real way to know if something is an investment or a gamble What I really think of side hustlesHow to spend mindfully - one important mindset shift that you would always rememberMoney is a reflection of your mental stateIn this podcast episode, I dig into some of the biggest money milestones I've achieved and the principles I imbibed that got me there. This isn't just about managing money - it's about understanding the sometimes complicated relationship we have with money and paving our own path towards our own version of "money success".Follow me on Instagram @karlastefan if you want more money-related convos.

20 Mar 20231h 7min

As great as entrepreneurship can be, it can also take a mental toll if you're not intentional about taking care of yourself. Burnt out brains don't do anyone any good and mental health problems like depression and anxiety can prevent you from achieving the very success you seek. You should plan regular mental check-ins with yourself, schedule time out to do activities that bring you joy and make sure that your mental well-being comes first before all else! There's no shame in prioritising your mental health – it's crucial for turning those entrepreneurial dreams into a reality.Here are my Top 15 tips, activities, and principles that help me keep my mental health in tip-top shape. :) I've spent years in collating this, so I hope it helps you!If you've got more recommendations, let's chat; find me on Instagram @karlastefan.

13 Mar 202343min

The Law of Attraction is a popular belief that suggests that like energies attract like results. It's often described as "what you put out into the universe, you get back". In general, people tend to think of the Law of Attraction as a simple means of getting what they want; they just have to put out positive energy and their desires will be fulfilled. Although this idea can be empowering in some ways, there can often be more to it than what we initially think. So I sought out one of the world's best contemporary experts in The Law of Attraction to talk LOA with me- Andrew Kap! His perennial best seller, “The Last Law of Attraction Book You’ll Ever Need To Read” offers readers a never-before-seen understanding of the topic — that no other “LOA” book has ever been able to do — by going the extra mile of finally addressing WHY people who get excited about trying it still can’t manage to get in the habit of using these methods for just five minutes a day.With over 100,000 copies sold, the book has enjoyed continued success, including THOUSANDS of five-star reviews, #1 Best Seller status in multiple categories on Amazon, and a growing YouTube channel devoted to it.Listen and soak in all the LOA goodness! See ya.

6 Mar 20231h 8min

Are you a good "first date"? I won't even wait for your answer because I know it's a YES in your head, haha. I'm just teasing ya. Today's a good day to talk about it though! Nowadays, first dates can come from both traditional and online dating. Whether it's a swipe right or an intro from your Grandma, here's a cheeky convo to steer you in the right direction. With me is Yury, a guy I respect a lot in business. Used to be a "serial dater" (like me), but now happily coupled up! We talk about how to be a great first date, memorable first dates we've had (good and bad!) and a few politically incorrect jokes in between. Tune in and share with all of your single friends.

27 Feb 20231h 10min

In July 2021, I moved to Playa del Carmen, Mexico because it was "somewhere new, and a timezone where I can run my business easily". [Context: I serve mostly US/ Canada clients in my subscription-based outsourcing company - www.proximityoutsourcing.com.]Plus, I was in a new relationship and I wanted a "fresh start".That relationship quickly ended though, and I was stuck with a 90-day lease. I decided to ride it out because we prepaid for rent and I ended up writing the best love story ever: living in Playa del Carmen. In this podcast episode, I hung out with fellow expat and entrepreneur Max Royale, and we talked about the things we love about living in Playa del Carmen. Being away from US, the people, speaking a new language every day, the fresh, organic, hormone-free food, the bright turquoise waters, over 300 days of sun, the walking culture, and the right balance of entrepreneurial hustle and wellness biohacking. Grab a cup of coffee, tea, and get comfy. Let us tell you about this home we love so much.

20 Feb 20231h 23min

Dating someone with a large age gap brings a unique set of challenges. Perhaps the biggest issue is navigating through the complex social norms and expectations that age differences create when dating. When you add business dealings to the equation, it can be even more challenging. After all, age gaps don't just come with age-related differences in tastes and expectations, they also come with different approaches to working, differing levels of experience and knowledge, and contrasting levels of authority. It's no wonder age gaps in dating have been proven to be harder to bridge if business is involved! And in this tea-worthy episode, we sat down with Paulo and Chris to discuss the complexities of it all. How your differences make for space for curiosity and learning about each other What do you think of age gaps in general? Was your belief always like that or did something change along the way?The greatest challenges about "switching hats" - when to behave like a business partner, and when to behave like a loverGeneral beliefs about working with your partner/ loverThe BIG ADVICE - what to really think about and sort out before starting a business with your life partnerHow do people change their values along the way?Bonus question: how did you navigate with the cultural differences too? (Chris is from USA and Paulo is from the Philippines)Hope you loved this episode, and learned a lot about doing life your business partner, or doing business with your life partner. Whichever way it goes, stay true to your values and goals! ***Share this episode and tag Paulo (@iamjohnpau) or I (@karlastefan) on Instagram or Facebook to get a chance to win candles from LeMnl.com. Raffle open to US residents only.

13 Feb 20231h 11min