Justice Schanfarber on using kinky sex for shadow integration.

Justice Schanfarber on using kinky sex for shadow integration.

Today I'm joined by Justice Schanfarber, a certified Hakomi Therapist and couples counsellor specialising in sex and relationships. He's the author of two books, and several articles - some which have been published by The Huffington Post and The Good Men Project - and read by over ten million people in two hundred countries, and has been translated into six languages.

In this interview we are discussing his book CONSCIOUS KINK FOR COUPLES: the beginners guide to using kinky sex and BDSM for pleasure, growth, intimacy, and healing.

You'll learn:

  • What inspired Justice wrote this book
  • What Justice means by "conscious kinky couples"
  • The importance of examining our sex lives and relationships
  • How to use kink for shadow integration
  • 3 lessons we can all learn from conscious kinky couples
  • Ritual sex vs spontaneous sex vs maintenance sex
  • 3 important things to consider when exploring S&M or D&S dynamics
  • What Erotic humiliation entails
  • how to navigate the psychological challenges of stepping into a D&S relationship
  • How to tolerate the tension of having multiple, and sometimes contradictory, self-identities, desires, callings and parts.
  • Justice's highly recommended Kink & BDSM resources
  • The value of making distinctions between sex, intimacy and eroticism

Enjoy!

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