132: When the Tools Don’t Help You Feel Better or Make Progress

132: When the Tools Don’t Help You Feel Better or Make Progress

Safety is necessary in order for relationships to be repaired after pornography use.

Many women default to using an emotional wall to keep themselves safe after they discover their husband's pornography use.

You've all heard about and have tried the tools – journaling, meditation, prayer, reading, etc.

But what if you try those things and you don't actually feel any better? What if you're not making progress, despite using all of the tools that you've learned about.

In this episode, I share with you exactly how to find closure and resolution as you're working on yourself and your marriage.

Most people leave out one key step that actually helps them to feel better.

So in this episode, I go deep into sharing what you can do to make the tools work for you.

For therapy with Sam:

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Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

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255: 3 Ways to Help Her Heal From Betrayal Trauma

255: 3 Ways to Help Her Heal From Betrayal Trauma

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

9 Jul 24min

254: How to Quit Porn: Increase Your Ability, Not Your Effort

254: How to Quit Porn: Increase Your Ability, Not Your Effort

If you've been trying to quit pornography but keep finding yourself falling back into the same cycle, the problem may not be your commitment—it may be your capacity. In this episode, I explain why las...

2 Jul 17min

253: Rebuilding Trust Gets So Much Easier When You Do THIS

253: Rebuilding Trust Gets So Much Easier When You Do THIS

When porn is discovered in a marriage, trust gets shattered. And most couples have no idea how to rebuild it. The check-ins feel like interrogations. The conversations go nowhere. And she still doesn'...

25 Jun 11min

252: Why Talking Through Her Triggers Never Seems to Help — Here How to Do It Correctly

252: Why Talking Through Her Triggers Never Seems to Help — Here How to Do It Correctly

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

18 Jun 19min

251: Why He Goes Quiet When She Brings Up the Past — And What Actually Helps

251: Why He Goes Quiet When She Brings Up the Past — And What Actually Helps

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

11 Jun 20min

250: When Willpower and White Knuckling Urges Fail, Do This

250: When Willpower and White Knuckling Urges Fail, Do This

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

4 Jun 15min

249: 7 Things To Have In Your Plan to Quit Pornography Before 2026 is Over

249: 7 Things To Have In Your Plan to Quit Pornography Before 2026 is Over

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

28 Mai 18min

248: Pornography Addiction Destroys Her Self Image. Here's How to Rebuild It

248: Pornography Addiction Destroys Her Self Image. Here's How to Rebuild It

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

14 Mai 19min

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