134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

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It can be very discouraging when there is a mismatch between husband and wife, and how they view their progress.

If hey husband thinks he's making strides towards creating safety and rebuilding trust, but the wife doesn't agree, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and lose hope.

This episode, I share three specific things you can do to get on the same page together with your partner and create safety.

There are some activities that move the needle more than others. So in this episode I talk about the ones that matter most so you can focus your efforts on those.

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167: Managing Urges and Triggers vs Being Free From Them

167: Managing Urges and Triggers vs Being Free From Them

When a man struggles with porn pornography use, it can cause a lot discouragement and fear for both him and his wife. So many women live in constant anxiety that the other shoes going to drop and they...

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166: Success Story: Mike Finds Freedom after 30 Years of Struggling to Quit Porn

166: Success Story: Mike Finds Freedom after 30 Years of Struggling to Quit Porn

Mike struggle with pornography for 30 long years. The feelings of hopelessness and anxiety debilitated him at times because no matter what he did to quit, it just didn’t bring him the freedom he was s...

17 Okt 202444min

165: Why He Turned To Porn or Someone Else and Not His Wife - Explained

165: Why He Turned To Porn or Someone Else and Not His Wife - Explained

When pornography use is discovered in a relationship, it obviously has such a huge impact on a wife. Understandably, she takes it very personal. It makes her question everything about the relationship...

10 Okt 202419min

164: Live Call:  Overcoming Inadequacy, Shame, and Procrastination

164: Live Call: Overcoming Inadequacy, Shame, and Procrastination

Have you ever struggled with feelings of an adequacy or not being accepted? And has that been a trigger for you in the past that has led you down the path towards pornography use? If so, you’re not al...

3 Okt 202446min

163: How to Soften The Pain of Betrayal Due to Pornography Use

163: How to Soften The Pain of Betrayal Due to Pornography Use

I once worked with a woman who was completely overwhelmed because her husband continued to struggle with pornography use. She was at her wits end. She felt like a ball of anxiety always waiting for th...

26 Sep 202420min

162: The Blueprint For When A Husband Can’t Break The Cycle of Pornography Use Every Few Weeks Or Months

162: The Blueprint For When A Husband Can’t Break The Cycle of Pornography Use Every Few Weeks Or Months

It's very discouraging for both a husband and wife when a man gets stuck in the cycle of falling back into pornography. Use every few weeks or months.  In this situation, a wife feels continual anxiet...

19 Sep 202419min

161: 3 Relationship Pillars to Help Create Connection and Security

161: 3 Relationship Pillars to Help Create Connection and Security

When pornography use is discovered in a relationship it undermines the very foundation and security. It often creates suspicion, fear, uncertainty, and a total lack of security and connection. After h...

12 Sep 202422min

160: What If He Secretly Returns to Pornography? How She Can Know, And 5 Ways He Can Rebuild Security

160: What If He Secretly Returns to Pornography? How She Can Know, And 5 Ways He Can Rebuild Security

One of the biggest fears that women have in this process is that her husband will return to pornography since she won't know about it. She’ll bring down her wall, start to trust him again, and then th...

5 Sep 202420min

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