134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

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It can be very discouraging when there is a mismatch between husband and wife, and how they view their progress.

If hey husband thinks he's making strides towards creating safety and rebuilding trust, but the wife doesn't agree, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and lose hope.

This episode, I share three specific things you can do to get on the same page together with your partner and create safety.

There are some activities that move the needle more than others. So in this episode I talk about the ones that matter most so you can focus your efforts on those.

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143: How to Avoid Pornography If Your Spouse Leaves Town or For The Day

143: How to Avoid Pornography If Your Spouse Leaves Town or For The Day

When a spouse is gone for the day or weekend and a man is all alone, it's a common trigger. In this episode I share 3 specific things you can do to make sure that those periods of being alone won't ca...

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142: Success Story: Todd is Free From Porn 2 Years Later (and here's how)

142: Success Story: Todd is Free From Porn 2 Years Later (and here's how)

Change is 100% if you have the right ingredients. In today's episode, I want to introduce to you a man who has found success, and 2 years later, he continues to to do well, have a strong marriage, and...

25 Apr 202453min

141: Why a Husband Avoids Initiating Conversations and How to Resolve It

141: Why a Husband Avoids Initiating Conversations and How to Resolve It

Initiating conversations can be very difficult for a husband to do. If his wife is in a good mood, he doesn’t want to bring up the pain all over again. If she's in a bad mood, he doesn't want to cause...

18 Apr 202425min

140: When Shame and "Self Pity" Dissolves Connection and Breaks Down the Conversation

140: When Shame and "Self Pity" Dissolves Connection and Breaks Down the Conversation

How do the conversations go when you talk about her pain? Do they end with you feeling closer or further apart? Do you feel hopeless and inadequate, not knowing what to say to help her feel comforted?...

11 Apr 202427min

139: When a Wife Brings Up Her Husband's Lack of Follow Through

139: When a Wife Brings Up Her Husband's Lack of Follow Through

Have you ever gotten into an argument with your spouse where you're talking about specific actions that he's committed to do but then doesn't follow through? For a wife, it can feel really frustrating...

4 Apr 202420min

138: The Top 3 Ways to Kill Your Chances of Having a Strong Marriage

138: The Top 3 Ways to Kill Your Chances of Having a Strong Marriage

"We've been spinning our wheels for 9 months... I'm in a worst place now than the day I discovered everything." A couple reached out to me a few hours before recording this episode. They were both dis...

29 Mar 202429min

137: How Long Does It Take to Repair A Marriage After Pornography Use?

137: How Long Does It Take to Repair A Marriage After Pornography Use?

This road to healing your marriage can be agonizing. So many people wonder how long will this take? They feel like they might not be able to hold on much longer.   The good news is that it’s actually ...

21 Mar 202419min

136: How Long Do We Need To Keep Talking About It?

136: How Long Do We Need To Keep Talking About It?

After the discovery of pornography use, it shatters the foundation of the entire relationship. Naturally, it becomes the center of most conversations as you try to resolve the issues and pain it cause...

14 Mar 202418min

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