134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

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It can be very discouraging when there is a mismatch between husband and wife, and how they view their progress.

If hey husband thinks he's making strides towards creating safety and rebuilding trust, but the wife doesn't agree, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and lose hope.

This episode, I share three specific things you can do to get on the same page together with your partner and create safety.

There are some activities that move the needle more than others. So in this episode I talk about the ones that matter most so you can focus your efforts on those.

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135: She Found Out He Was Hiding A Slip… Now What?

135: She Found Out He Was Hiding A Slip… Now What?

Couples can very easily get stuck when a husband has a slip up, acts like things are normal, and then his wife finds out that he searched for something and didn’t tell her. This can cause a wife to sp...

7 Mar 202421min

133: Narcissism and Pornography Use: Why They've Had It Wrong The Whole Time

133: Narcissism and Pornography Use: Why They've Had It Wrong The Whole Time

The idea of being in a relationship with a narcissist can feel overwhelming. After all, a “personality disorder” is a serious thing… But what if people slinging this diagnosis have been wrong the whol...

22 Feb 202430min

132: When the Tools Don’t Help You Feel Better or Make Progress

132: When the Tools Don’t Help You Feel Better or Make Progress

Safety is necessary in order for relationships to be repaired after pornography use. Many women default to using an emotional wall to keep themselves safe after they discover their husband's pornograp...

15 Feb 202419min

131: Emotional Safety in Marriage is Key: Here Are 3 Ways to Create It

131: Emotional Safety in Marriage is Key: Here Are 3 Ways to Create It

Safety is necessary in order for relationships to be repaired after pornography use. Many women default to using an emotional wall to keep themselves safe after they discover their husband's pornograp...

8 Feb 202421min

130: The Solution to Avoid Trading One Bad Coping Mechanism for Another

130: The Solution to Avoid Trading One Bad Coping Mechanism for Another

It's very easy for men to switch one bad coping mechanism (pornography) for another (food, video games, social media, TV, etc.). Some people might see those things as far less harmful, so they allow t...

1 Feb 202419min

129: How to Help Her Feel Secure Again in the Relationship After Pornography Use

129: How to Help Her Feel Secure Again in the Relationship After Pornography Use

In a relationship, having a strong feeling of security is so important. When pornography addiction or habit is discovered, it completely undermines the security that she feels. This causes lots of iss...

25 Jan 202424min

128: How to Overcome Feelings of Unworthiness and a Lack of Self Love

128: How to Overcome Feelings of Unworthiness and a Lack of Self Love

Lots of people struggle with feelings of low self worth, unworthiness, inadequacy and a lack of self love. Affirmations and being positive doesn’t seem to stick because we don’t actually believe the g...

18 Jan 202431min

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