134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't

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It can be very discouraging when there is a mismatch between husband and wife, and how they view their progress.

If hey husband thinks he's making strides towards creating safety and rebuilding trust, but the wife doesn't agree, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and lose hope.

This episode, I share three specific things you can do to get on the same page together with your partner and create safety.

There are some activities that move the needle more than others. So in this episode I talk about the ones that matter most so you can focus your efforts on those.

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102. How to Achieve Forgiveness Without Pressure and Forcing It

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100. Instantly Reduce Relapses With This Simple Tweak

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99. Get Unlimited Motivation to Overcome Pornography Addiction

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98. 3 Strategies to Overcome a Man’s Knee-Jerk Dishonesty With His Wife

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97. New Tools for When Communication Breaks Down (Part 2)

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