228. The psychology of limerence

228. The psychology of limerence

Limerance - the state of having undeniable feelings for someone who does not feel the same way - feels so much like love but can be so confusing, because deep down we know this person is probably not the one. Despite that we find it impossible to move on, impossible to disconnect or detach despite our best efforts because our affections for this person feel so permanently wired into our brain. Today we talk about why that may be, including:

  • The first ever studies into limerance
  • The 4 stages of limerance
  • The addictive explanation for limerance
  • Limerance, attachment style, fantasy and ADHD
  • What the long term emotional impacts of limerance are
  • How to recover + 4 tips for moving on

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125. The psychology of dating apps ft. Bumble

125. The psychology of dating apps ft. Bumble

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124. Moving to a new city in our 20s

124. Moving to a new city in our 20s

A lot of us in our 20s feel the urge to upend everything and move to a new city - maybe for work, for a partner or just for the pure adventure of a new experience and environment. So in this episode w...

8 Sep 202340min

123. A life update - healthy love, moving overseas, dealing with online criticism

123. A life update - healthy love, moving overseas, dealing with online criticism

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122. The pressure to be exceptional in our 20s

122. The pressure to be exceptional in our 20s

Increasingly, those of us in our 20s are facing an exceeding pressure to be exceptional and have a million accomplishments and accolades under our belt. If we are not successful, what are we worth? Ex...

1 Sep 202336min

121. Befriending your social anxiety

121. Befriending your social anxiety

Each of us deals with feelings of embarrassment, awkwardness and feeling social self conscious every now and then. But social anxiety can cause us a level of emotional, mental and physical discomfort ...

29 Aug 202336min

120.  Understanding your ego

120. Understanding your ego

In this week's episode we discuss the psychology of your ego and what its trying to tell us! Ego can feel nasty and entitled but it comes from a place of deep insecurity that we need to unpack before ...

24 Aug 202341min

119. How to make the most of your 20s pt.2

119. How to make the most of your 20s pt.2

Love, dating and friendships can feel like a black box in our 20s when we're trying to make the most out of our formative years. None of us have the answers or a guide to some of our biggest questions...

22 Aug 202350min

118. How to make the most of your 20s pt.1

118. How to make the most of your 20s pt.1

How do we actually make the most of our 20s? Career anxiety, feeling stuck, taking risks and managing our money (do we spend or save) are all big concerns we have in this period. So how do we manage t...

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