50 How You Create Confusion asking, ”Why Did You Do That!?” - but it Wasn’t a Question!

50 How You Create Confusion asking, ”Why Did You Do That!?” - but it Wasn’t a Question!

Hello Friends,

Today we celebrate 50 Episodes!

And, we continue the conversation from last time. Your child - No Doubt - does things that make NO SENSE to you!~ We are left scratching our heads in wonder or leaving you in a state of frustration! We ask "Why did you do that!?" half meaning "stop it!" and half authentically inquiring. Last time, we considered the power of the authentic, curious inquiry. Today, we discuss the detrimental power of using that question as a statement of correction, blame, sarcasm, or shame. Most of us experienced some of this as we grew up. We will discuss the outcomes and how you can identify and make empowering choices for yourself and your family.

Are we creating confusion when “Why did you do that?” is not actually a question?

Cheering you on!

Dinalynn Rosenbush

Contact Dinalynn: hello@thelanguageofplay.com

Celebrating EPISODE 50 special: 1 hour coaching sessions for $50 +Bonuses for the first 5 responders! Come join us at The Language Of Play so we can target what you want to work on!

Episodes Links:

Episode 49: Why Did My Child Do That?! and How To Ask. The Answer May Not Be What You Think!

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