Ep. 130: Fingering Is Weird, and other poems

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This week's theme song should be, "I (Kinda) Kissed A Boy (And I Liked It!)" Sasha is Billy's first gender queer guest on The Manwhore Podcast. Sometimes she's a girl. Sometime's he's a boy. Sometime's they are everything! The two discuss gender roles and labels as well as Sasha's journey of sexual and identity self-discovery. Billy might have tried to flirt with her. Oops. The sex party was fun. Next question, please. Sasha's father used to run a Russian mail order bride service. What?! Yes. We learn that "looking for a wife is like shopping for a car." Gross, but fascinating! Plus, Billy tires his hand at singing the popluar love ballad, "Lola." Jim Norton wrote a great op-ed piece for Time Magazine titled, "In Defense of Johns." Check it out! Get your very own Manwhore Podcast condom! Make sure you're subscribed to The Manwhore Podcast and then take a screenshot of yourself writing a review on iTunes (postiive or negative). Email the screen grab and your mailing address to manwhorepod@gmail.com for your very own FREE Manwhore Podcast condom! Thanks to Branson Belchie for the graphic design. Email your questions and comments to manwhorepod@gmail.com www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

13 Aug 20141h 7min

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This week's guest is group sex guru Jefferson. Jefferson is a sex educator, sex blogger, storyteller and organizer of New York City's Bukkake Social Club (it's like bridge, but with more semen). We talk about blowjobs, threesomes & orgies. He also gives Billy some tips before he goes to his first sex party this weekend!  Jefferson discusses what type of women want to be on the receiving end of a bukkake and how he juggles the consent of each individual person at an event. All while trying to maintain his erection!  Check out this awesome IndieGogo campaign for the pd.ID. The personal drink identifier detects if your drink has been drugged. These Canadians are trying to raise $100,000 to make this invention a reality and you should really support it. A $75 donation will land you your own early version of the product.  Check out Jefferson's live storytelling show series, Bare, in New York City, Philadelphia, Washington D.C. and more at barestories.wordpress.com. Follow him on Twitter at @OneLifeTakeTwo.  This week's episode is sponsored by pillows because I can't wait to go to sleep right now.  Email your questions and comments to manwhorepod@gmail.com.  www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6 Aug 20141h 15min

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Billy and Michelle record directly after completing a RandomActOfMuffdive. What is that? Go check out /r/RandomActsOfMuffdive for yourself! The two chat about the finer points of cunnilingus and Michelle gives Billy a live review of his performance! Plus, our guest shares some suggestions to the fellas out there wondering how they can better please their lady friends while going downtown. Hey frat boys: no more fingerblasting. Stop it! And stop trying to go in girls' butts without asking first. This isn't a porno. Billy wrote a very personal piece on xoJane.com about his struggles his body dysmorphia and disordered eating. "Guys may self-deprecate. We may not like our bodies as is. But we don't do eating disorders." Check out the article. This week's episode is sponsored by physical therapy, for those times you throw your shoulder out trying that crazy new sex position. Email your questions or comments to manwhorepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

30 Jul 20141h 2min

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Elexa's boyfriend of 8 years refused to have sex with her. Listen to why she thinks he couldn't give a lady what she wanted. It might be why she's struggled to claim that elusive female orgasm. My good friend Elexa got real, telling me why our brief dating history was as brief as it was. "I remember wanting to punch you in the face." Hear why she decided we'd "just be friends." Billy gets an opportunity to give her advice as well. What's proper long distance texting etiquette…if you're not a couple yet? Ever buy a dildo but it just didn't feel right? Now you can make your own customized 3D-printed dildo. Check it out at www.dildo-generator.com. Billy gives the low-down on buying jeans with a man-booty and curvy hips. This week's show is brought to you by bed sheets. Bed sheets: Wash them when you feel like it or when you can't get away with it anymore. Email your comments and questions to manwhorepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

23 Jul 20141h 4min

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Lee admits that Billy would be a great boyfriend, just not her boyfriend. She presses Billy about his polyamorous proclivities. But emotions can be toxic. Billy's feelings towards Lee caused a great Friends With Benefits situation to end. He was a little crazy lovesick. This Aussie native doesn't apologize for breaking his heart but she does apologize for giving bad blowjobs. Lee has vaginismus. Learn about this frustrating condition that kept her from having sex for years! Plus, we hear about Blendr. Never heard of it? Yea, that sounds about right. If you want to date Billy, you need to watch Chasing Amy. You also need to be able to handle his various faults, which he and Lee go over in detail. Have you read The Ethical Slut yet? Press pause. Go get it. Live a better life. This week's episode is brought to you by Starbucks, because they let me edit the show inside while it was raining without buying anything. Email your questions and comments to manwhorepod@gmail.com www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

16 Jul 20141h 21min

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This is a special episode of The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love. Billy interviews "Sherry", a legal prostitute in Amsterdam's historic Red Light District. They talk about the pros and cons of sex work. Sherry tells us about dating as a hooker and how working girls need love, too! Plus, she dishes about a few kinky clients! Billy went to a nude beach with a couple of friends and it didn't get weird. Seeing your friend's boobs makes for a fun weekend. Do you think prostitution should be legalized in the United States? Why or why not? Have you ever had sex for money? Chime in. For more information on sex work in the Netherlands, visit Advocacy Group for sex workers in the Netherlands or Sex Work Information Centre websites. Email your questions or comments for the show to manwhorepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

9 Jul 201447min

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Elle is a fellow NYU Fighting Violet who loves public sex and dating the older crowd. But recently, she's found herself on OkCupid exploring her bi-curious side looking for a lady to hook up with. This hottie sits down on The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love to trade sex stories and give young men pointers. Elle is in love with "Sergio" in Argentina. Buenos Aires steals yet another young American heart with a study abroad 'roadmance'. Billy recalls learning about Magnum condoms from Degrassi: The Next Generation from a CougarLife.com date. The Supreme Court ruled in favor of Hobby Lobby. Meanwhile, Americans still aren't quite sure what the store sells besides whackjob religious "beliefs". And thanks to the cranky men up on the hill, there's no better time to protest an abortion clinic than the present! That's legal now, too. How'd you lose your virginity? Elle's probably got ya beat! This week's episode of The Manwhore Podcast is sponsored by Narnia, where corporations aren't people but God is a lion. Email your comments or questions to manwhorepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 Jul 201458min

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Billy and Amanda get emotional and playful on this week's show. Amanda has been experimenting with casual sex, sleeping with men in hopes they will like her. She also continues to sleep with her ex-boyfriend (who Billy thinks is a total assh*le). If you still go out with your ex after breaking up, aren't you still "dating your ex"? Billy went to Coney Island's Mermaid Parade this past weekend. Slap the pasties on and let your freak flag fly! He saw quite a few pairs of boobies and phenomenally-costumed drag queens. Keep Brooklyn weird! Amanda expresses her love of playing with buttholes. Billy shows her something that blows her mind! Please don't drink and drive, sluts. Who would you marry from Orange Is The New Black? Boy Meets World? Amand and Billy debate. Plus a fun round of Cast That Porn! This week's episode is sponsored by air mattresses. An air mattress is a perfect chastity device for those who can't afford World of Warcraft. Email your comments and questions to manwhorepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

25 Jun 20141h 3min