Friend Crush with Amber Akilla25 Jan 2023

57 - do exes always come back and does it matter? (youtube ep)

let's talk about HEART BREAKKKK and the period between a break up and actually moving on - does your ex come back? does it matter if they do? sharing my own thoughts and feelings along with some comments i received on tiktok videos i've made on this topic.

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13:45 when they come back/ what you realize when they come back

18:21 importance of journalling in healing

20:33 minimum a year for someone to change

21:21 why do you wanna be w someone that needs to lose you

23:00 dating for association

26:45 they come back

27:00 you want to meet as new people

28:53 rebuilding your sense of self

30:25 when they're dating someone new and still slide in the dms lol

38:21 being on the same team

41:38 comments from tiktok

44:45 being intentionally single

1:00:00 take how people treat others into consideration

love and heartbreak embracing good and bad running from your emotions love and heartbreak are inextricably linked how do you really know someone grieving potential processing your grief building a new sense of self when they come back while dating someone new being vulnerable and learning to trust yourself lingering pain after breakups bad apologies being intentionally single and alone why do people change

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