#211 - Daddy Dom/Little Girl Complex: Connection or Controversy?

This week I am speaking with Clover, a FSSWer who is living with fibromyalgia. Clover opens up about how she got into sex work and how she is able to deal with such a painful, chronic illness. As we all know, sex work can be a very viable choice for those who live with a disability, due to its accessibility and flexibility with scheduling. Clover's disease causes a lot of pain to her so she's had to cancel on clients in the past before. She's advertised her illness on her booking site and because of that, she's felt that clients are more understandable if a last-minute cancelation must occur. In addition to that, Clover attracts many clients who also suffer from disability and shares with us some tips and tricks on how to better accommodate clients with disabilities. https://x.com/cloversquirts https://allmylinks.com/clover For the month February and March, I will be showcasing several small SWer owned and operated businesses in an ad in within these show notes. Please go and support your SW small businesses! The solution to health isn’t cutting out caffeine, sugar, alcohol or acidic foods–it’s adding an herbal remedy for balance. Be free of guilt!  Get 20% off all tinctures, teas, sprays, candles and bath salts using code ILOVESW.  Only at SW-owned apothecary: Soporificia.etsy.com Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠⁠

11 Feb 202459min

I've always wanted to do an episode on arrangements. Yes, I am very touchy when it comes to sugar babying and arrangements because I have thoughts on the topic (one day there'll be an episode this, I promise) so when Emily Monroe popped into my feed, I was like, "it's time". Emily is a FSSWer based in NYC and has had a ton of experience when it comes to both semi-exclusive and exclusive arrangements. While it may be the ultimate goal to exclusive, Emily heeds on how this might not be a realistic approach and to prepare yourselves for when it might potentially end. We go into red flags, what to look out for, ensuring that you have days off and time blocks "for you", and more essential things to think about when considering any type of exclusivity. Follow Emily at her links below: https://twitter.com/emilymonroenyc msha.ke/emilymonroenyc For the month February and March, I will be showcasing several small SWer owned and operated businesses in an ad in within these show notes. Please go and support your SW small businesses! Baelien Bling is owned and operated by a queer person of colour in Vancouver who advocates for the de-stigmatization of empowerment expressed through honouring their bodies and their sexuality. As an exotic dancer herself, Kosmic Kitty founded Baelien Bling looking to offer something new to the overlapping communities across the globe, but little did she anticipate how much hype would surround her new business with some of the most renowned dancers in the country representing her brand. BB is consistently growing with a beautiful team of people that are always striving to create new sexy, fun, and high quality products. - an array of offerings for all sorts of dancers, festival goers and fun-lovers. Micro bikinis, slingshots, jockstraps, bio-glitter, leather cat ears, stainless steel jewelry and much more! Follow them on IG: @baelien.bling Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠

4 Feb 20241h 16min

I'm honoured to bring on Jelena Vermillion onto the show this week. Jelena is an icon in the SWer advocacy space. She is also the founder and holder the largest SWer media archive in the world. You might be curious about what might be contained in the archive or what is SWer media archive. It houses a number of different media mediums such as zines, audio, articles, and more. Jelena shares with us on the podcast her story on how she got the funding for the archive (and it's an incredible story) and why she provides this for the community. Although she gatekeeps the access, she does stress that this is done solely for the protection of our community. Academics, researchers and writers often ask for access to the archive but questions their motivations. We also speak about Jelena's current projects and advocacy work in the episode as well. You can find out more about Jelena and the archive by listening in on the full episode. You can find Jelena online at her links below: https://twitter.com/isisintrepid https://instagram.com/isis_intrepid https://www.tappy.tech/JelenaVermilion Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠

3 Feb 20241h 17min

I've been really looking forward to bringing this duo on from Pashunfruit Collective,its founder, Jamila Kream, and Carly Hughes-Horvath, their social media coordinator and photographer. Both content creators and embedded in our industry in various forms, Jamila speaks specifically to her experience with bad OF management companies, taking way larger cuts and simply not knowing how to run business. After too many disappointing incidents, Jamila embarked on her own to create Pashunfruit Collective, an agency for online SWers. Jamila brought Carly, a reknowned photographer based in Vancouver onto her to help run social media for her businesses and for their photoshoots. Carly also shares with us her upcoming and first-ever art show which illustrates her journey from behind the camera to transitioning over and becoming a dancer. Follow Jamila and Carly below: https://instagram.com/pashunfruitcollective https://instagram.com/jamilakream https://instagram.com/carlyhugheshorvath Catch Carly's art show, "FEAR OF CROWDS", February 2-9 @ Fingerprint Gallery (663 Market Hill, Vancouver, BC) Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠

28 Jan 20241h 4min

Verrrrry excited to bring some of the local talent on the show this week! I am bringing on published alternative model, adult creator, feature entertainer and Suicide Girl, Sirene Rouge, onto the show this week! Sirene will be speaking to us about getting some work done abroad which I'm sure many of us might have considered but never have gone through with it. Sirene will be speaking to us specifically about getting rhinoplasty, otherwise more popularly known as a nose job, in Istanbul, Turkey. It's important to note that Sirene had done months of extensive research on a surgeon, comparative analysis on costs in North America vs. Turkey, as well as recovery. She gives us full transparency on this episode which will hopefully inspire some of you to make informed decisions on getting work done abroad. https://www.instagram.com/sirene_rouge_sg/ linktr.ee/Sirenerouge Sirene's surgeon in Turkey: Dr. Erdem Çağlar Stripped by SIA was nominated for a 2024 AVN Award for Favorite Adult Podcast! I would super appreciate your vote! You can vote up to 5x per day at the link below: avn.com/awards/voting/favorite-adult-podcast Sage Health is offering Stripped by SIA listeners with $15 OFF per test. Use the code STRIPPEDBYSIA to take advantage of this timely offer when booking online at ⁠https://www.mysagehealth.net/⁠ Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠

14 Jan 20241h 12min

I'm back, baby! I hope everyone had a restful last couple weeks off over the holidays. I'm recharged and excited to finish of Season 6 with some fantastic guests! This week, I am bringing on ex-AVN employee and adult creator, Amy Phelan of Sage Health. As we all know, testing is so imperative in our industry. It not only protects ourselves from sickly diseases and infections but it also protects other folks and keeps the industry safe. After many years working behind the scenes at AVN, Amy had an idea that would benefit the industry and that's when she got the idea for Sage Health. After speaking to talent, agencies and production companies, Amy strived to create a testing service that the industry needs. Sage has a 12pm the next day guarantee for results, discreet entrances, comprehensive testing compliant with all the major production houses and...gummy bears! Not only that but Sage Health is offering Stripped by SIA listeners with $15 OFF per test. Use the code STRIPPEDBYSIA to take advantage of this timely offer when booking online at https://www.mysagehealth.net/ 14614 Victory Blvd, Van Nuys, CA 91411 https://www.mysagehealth.net/ Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠

7 Jan 20241h 2min

Today, I am bringing on Lavender Grunge of The Loops SWA https://lavendergrunge.carrd.co/ https://www.instagram.com/grungeinfusion Fox Digital is an official partner of the show. Stripped by SIA listeners get 20% off! Message Anthony on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://foxdigital.design⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and mention the show to take advantage of big savings on your website. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠

17 Des 20231h 5min

***TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of sexual assault, voyeurisum.*** Excited to bring on renknowned BDSM model, Ariel Anderssen, onto the show this week to close out the year! Ariel is a freelance model, professional submissive and adult content creator based in the UK. She is also the author of her brand new book, Playing to Lose, an autobiography about her life. With over 20 years of experience, I bring on Ariel to speak about model safety and why it is so important to be prepared and be cautious when working with other photographers and videographers. Ariel goes into her humble beginnings as a model and shares her mistakes so you don't have to. Ariel goes on to provide her personal tips and tricks on ensuring her safety while working with other photographers and some red flags to look out for. This episode is a must-listen and contains lots of resourceful information that applies to our careers in the adult industry. https://twitter.com/ArielAnderssen https://www.arielanderssenauthor.com/ KinkyArielAnderssen@gmail.com Fox Digital is an official partner of the show. Stripped by SIA listeners get 20% off! Message Anthony on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://foxdigital.design⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and mention the show to take advantage of big savings on your website. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠

17 Des 20231h 14min