#211 - Daddy Dom/Little Girl Complex: Connection or Controversy?

Today I am joined by longtime industry veteran, Lucy Hart, formerly known as Lance Hart, in a conversation about Sex worker rights, our fight and the protection of our rights and freedoms. Lucy is an adult performer, director, founder of NiceFeelings.com and is very active in the BDSM and kink community. Lucy also sits on the board at the Free Speech Coalition (FSC) and Performer Availability Screening Services (PASS). The FSC is the entity that aims to protect sex workers from various issues that are common like banking discrimination, age verification and is always on top emerging bills that might affect sex workers. We speak about some of the issues, especially banking discrimination, which Lucy has experienced personally both as a sex worker and as a trans person. We also speak about her being a board director at PASS, the governing body in the USA that covers testing services in the adult industry. Lots of great discussion on this episode which I hope you all might learn a thing or two from! twitter.com/mamahartx lucysfunlinks.com nicefeelings.com Fox Digital is an official partner of the show. Stripped by SIA listeners get 20% off! Message Anthony on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://foxdigital.design⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and mention the show to take advantage of big savings on your website. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠

3 Des 20231h

It is contest week at the time of recording and also when this episode comes out so of course, I had to source and expert to speak about all things contest week. Now, what is contest week? Contest week varies from platform to platform and from various corners of the industry, but it gives SWers an opportunity to cash in on time-sensitive incentives, make more bank and be online more for their fans. I've brought on industry veteran, Bella Vendetta of Treasure Cams onto the show this week who shares her expertise on what's worked for her and her models. Bella has done almost everything in the adult world and now as studio owner of Treasure Cams, she sets up and helps her models be as successful as they can be. A lot of her models regularly rank during contest week so Bella gives us a little 4-1-1 on what has worked for them. You don't want to miss this episode - tons of great nuggets of wisdom included in our conversation. https://campsite.bio/bellavendetta Fox Digital is an official partner of the show. Stripped by SIA listeners get 20% off! Message Anthony on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://foxdigital.design⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and mention the show to take advantage of big savings on your website. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠

26 Nov 20231h 3min

As expo season draws to a close this year, we have it kicking right back up in January with X3 and the AVNs! I bring on longtime adult industry veteran and cam model, Sterling, onto the show to share her expertise on how to conquer adult expos. We break down the major four expos in North America; the AVNs, X3, XBIZ and EXXXOTICA. We go over who each event is for, what to prepare and what to expect at each event. We also go over safety precautions, cost breakdown if you are coming from out of state or out of the country, and how to determine if it might be worthwhile. https://twitter.com/SterlingXSM Fox Digital is an official partner of the show. Stripped by SIA listeners get 20% off! Message Anthony on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://foxdigital.design⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and mention the show to take advantage of big savings on your website. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠

19 Nov 202357min

I've got a great episode lined up for y'all today! This week, I'm bringing on adult porn actress, Mimi Oh, onto the show to speak about starting her adult career in the middle of her transition. Mimi shares with us what it's like to start her career with such timing (why midway throughout her transition and not wait til after?), socially transitioning and physically transitioning and gives many pointers on what's worked best for her in her transition journey. We also dabble into the topic regarding the lack of trans representation in studios and in the general porn scene and why she will never work for another American porn studio again and why she only work with Japanese studios moving forward. It's a very thought-provoking episode to gain some insight on what it's like to transition for those who are wanting to educate and empathize further and a great resource overall. twitter.com/ohdangmimi allmylinks.com/ohdangmimi Fox Digital is an official partner of the show. Stripped by SIA listeners get 20% off! Message Anthony on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://foxdigital.design⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and mention the show to take advantage of big savings on your website. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠

12 Nov 20231h 9min

We've got an interesting take on today's episode. I was inspired by a recent blog post by fellow content creator and FSSWer, McKenna King, on anon accounts. If you're unaware of what anon accounts are, they are anonymous accounts usually on Twitter/X which are used for sharing memes, satire, and overall, lightheartedness. On the flip side, it can be used to share some hard truths and vulnerabilities in the industry. Because our industry is so nuanced, we need a natural release, an outlet of some sorts. But McKenna brings up good point and something that I, myself, have also noticed: a lot of these accounts are spewing with toxicity. I've now witnessed anon accounts used to weaponize, bully and harass other members of our community. Although anon accounts are praised for their transparency and speaking truth, they may demonstrate other underlying issues, a lack support, loneliness in the industry and more. McKenna and I go into depth with this conversation and we think it's worth talking about or even a mere listen. https://www.onlymckenna.com/ twitter.com/yourmckenna Fox Digital is an official partner of the show. Stripped by SIA listeners get 20% off! Message Anthony on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://foxdigital.design⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and mention the show to take advantage of big savings on your website. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠

5 Nov 20231h 3min

***TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of underage sex work*** I have a highly fan requested episode this week on a very niche topic that I am excited to explore with you all! I am bringing on content creator and former sugar baby, Amina V, on the show this week to speak about her experience as a sex worker in Japan. Amina opens up the conversation with her story of how she got to Japan in the first place. She briefs us on what is known as being an "idol" in Japan - an interesting phenomena that is really prominent in Japanese, and even Korean culture. We then discuss her early entry into sex work as a minor and what she experienced as a sex work in Japan. The conversation was really eye opening, especially as myself and my listenership is predominantly North American based, so it was fascinating to hear about the scene in Japan. We briefly discuss eastern vs. western societal norms and cultures and how that might even find itself seeping into sex work over there. twitter.com/amina_io app.mintstars.com/@amina Fox Digital is an official partner of the show. Stripped by SIA listeners get 20% off! Message Anthony on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://foxdigital.design⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and mention the show to take advantage of big savings on your website. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠

29 Okt 20231h 2min

***TRIGGER WARNING - Mention of assault and attempted murder*** We haven't had an episode in a while that was fully dedicated to safety measures for sex workers so when this week's guest, Amy Taylor, contacted me to hop on the show with her compelling story, I had to give her the throne. Amy is a full service sex worker based in NYC who's had an extensive amount of experience in the biz. Amy is no stranger to starting out her career with some questionable decisions early on but through some sketchy incidences and close calls, including an attempted murder, she lives on and is here on the show this week to tell the tale and to warn other sex workers to keep their guard up. Amy has compiled an extensive list (and even more that we didn't have enough time to cover on the show) on common safety measures that she's adopted over the years and tips and tricks to keep us all safe. Safety is and always should be number one so this keep this episode in mind if you are starting out in the industry or if you're needing a bit of a refresher! https://amytaylor.com https://twitter.com/amytaylornyc https://instagram.com/amytaylornyc I was nominated for an Allyship Award and the 2023 Skripped Down competition, Canada's only by and for sex worker pole competition, happening on November 3rd. I was nominated for Philanthropist of the Year and would appreciate your vote! Please vote for me at the link below - your support would be greatly appreciated. Thank you! ⁠https://dh3lz6qrt6h.typeform.com/to/iqXjR1sM⁠ Fox Digital is an official partner of the show. Stripped by SIA listeners get 20% off! Message Anthony on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://foxdigital.design⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and mention the show to take advantage of big savings on your website. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠

22 Okt 20231h 8min

This is Part 2 of my conversation about breast augmentation! As we all know, a lot of us consider or have considered getting breast augmentation surgery. We've spoken about it at length last week on things to consider, doing your research, pre and post-op care and more with the lovely Caitlyn Brooks. But I wouldn't be the podcaster that I am without at least discussing the ugly side of the coin: we're talking about how breast surgeries can go horribly wrong. I invite creators and cam models, Maiia Bates and Joelle Rose on the show this week to speak about their respective experiences with how their expectations went in the other direction. Maiia shares her story of losing her biggest tipping fan and the lessons learnt from it whereas Joelle (or Joey, as we call her) warns us of the complications that may arise from breast implant surgery and being that 1% that has impacted her negatively. Both stories have great takeaway and lessons learnt and some very eye-opening firsthand accounts that demonstrate the very real reality that might happen to us. This episode is not to scare us but merely, to warn folks and and to seriously understand the consequences that might arise post-op. MaiiaBates.info twitter.com/real_maiia thejoeyrose.com http://allmylinks.com/joellerose twitter.com/joeyfuckinrose Fox Digital is an official partner of the show. Stripped by SIA listeners get 20% off! Message Anthony on ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://foxdigital.design⁠⁠⁠⁠ and mention the show to take advantage of big savings on your website. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com

15 Okt 202354min