Ep 227: The Three Biggest Problems In Relationships And How To Solve Them!

Start Your Transformation Now In this episode, we delve into the significant distinction between living a path with heart and merely existing or marking time until death. Many of us find ourselves caught in the routines of daily life, trapped in obligations, bound by debt, societal expectations, and the conditioning we've received since childhood. We explore the essential question: Why are you here at this time on the planet? Throughout our conversation, we dive deeper into the importance of aligning our lives with our soul's intentions rather than pursuing superficial external achievements. By focusing on our true purpose and spiritual growth rather than fleeting materialistic gains like status, money, or power, we can profoundly transform our experiences and fulfill our life's mission. We also reflect on the enlightening conversations with my brother-in-law, Don Xavier, a true shaman. His deep spiritual insights and genuine connection to the spiritual realms have not only enriched my understanding but also opened new pathways to spiritual awakening. Don Xavier's teachings underscore the significance of spiritual authenticity and the impact it has on our personal evolution. The episode challenges you to assess whether you are merely passing time until death or actively engaging in a life filled with passion and purpose. It's a prompt to recognize that living a fulfilling life isn't about accumulating wealth or status but about nurturing a soul-driven existence that transcends the physical and enriches our spiritual journey. Listen, apply, enjoy! Transformational Takeaway: By questioning how deeply we connect with our path, we can navigate our lives with intention and profound heart, ensuring that our time here is not only well spent but deeply fulfilling. To embody this, regularly reflect on whether your daily actions align with your core values and the legacy you wish to create. This mindful practice will help you make more meaningful decisions and lead a life that truly resonates with your soul’s purpose. Mentioned Resources: Join the Transformational Coaching Program Conversations With God by Neale Donald Walsch The Seat Of The Soul: An Inspiring Vision of Humanity’s Spiritual Destiny by Gary Zukav Many Lives, Many Masters: The True Story of a Prominent Psychiatrist, His Young Patient, and the Past-Life Therapy That Changed Both Their Lives by Brian L. Weiss Disclosure: Some of the links above are affiliate links, meaning, at no additional cost to you, I will earn a small commission if you make a purchase. Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

12 Jun 202443min

Start Your Transformation Now In this episode, I delve deep into the concept of paying the price for the life of your dreams, a topic that resonates deeply for anyone striving to achieve their highest aspirations. The discussion centers around the understanding that while many of us aspire to achieve great things, a significant gap often exists between our desires and our willingness to make the necessary sacrifices. I explore the reasons why many people fail to attain their dream life, emphasizing that it often boils down to a reluctance to “pay the price.” This price is not just monetary but involves a deep commitment to personal growth and the perseverance to push through challenges. Throughout this episode, I challenge you to consider what ‘paying the price' truly means in the context of your personal aspirations. It’s not just about financial cost but involves significant personal investment—time, energy, and dedication. I discuss the psychological barriers that prevent many from taking the necessary steps toward their dreams, such as fear of failure, discomfort with change, and the allure of comfort zones that hold you back from taking bold steps forward. We also delve into the concept of energy exchange. Everything, from the relationships you cherish to the personal successes you aim for, requires an input of energy. Understanding this concept is crucial for anyone aiming to transform their life. The episode draws parallels between physical laws of energy and personal effort, emphasizing that the results you seek in life are a direct outcome of the energy you invest. Transformational Takeaway: By comprehending the true cost of your ambitions—not just in monetary terms but in the currency of effort and energy—you can better prepare yourself for the journey ahead. It calls for a reflective look at how you allocate your resources and energy, encouraging you to align your actions with your deepest values and long-term visions. This alignment is what enables you to navigate through challenges and invest in a future that fulfills and resonates with your true purpose. Mentioned Resources: Join the Transformational Coaching Program Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

5 Jun 202442min

Start Your Transformation Now In this episode, I delve into the profound insights derived from a recent conversation with my brother-in-law, Don Xavier, a true sorcerer and shaman. We explore the significant shifts occurring on the planet and within humanity, focusing on how these changes are impacting us on both personal and global scales. Don Xavier highlights the accelerated pace of human evolution, explaining that changes that historically took centuries are now unfolding over mere decades. This rapid transformation is a crucial marker of our time and underscores the importance of understanding the spiritual and cosmic forces that influence our daily lives. His insights into the effects of external energies, such as solar flares, are particularly timely, emphasizing the necessity of maintaining our spiritual health amidst prevailing chaos. The conversation also delves into the idea of humanity advancing towards becoming multi-dimensional beings. This evolution challenges us to rethink our intentions and actions, urging a deeper comprehension of our roles in this transformative process. It invites us to align our spirits with these profound changes, embracing the opportunities for growth and understanding they bring. We also discuss the essential nature of these transformative times for personal and collective evolution. As we navigate through these turbulent changes, connecting deeply with our inner selves and the universe becomes crucial, fostering a transcendent connection that goes beyond conventional perception boundaries. Listen, apply, enjoy! Transformational Takeaway: Reflect on your purpose and presence on our evolving planet, considering how your actions can influence the significant global transformations unfolding around us. Commit to your spiritual growth in order to grasp the deeper implications of these shifts, which will help you navigate the turbulent times happening on the planet with clarity and purpose. This understanding will ensure your efforts align with the profound changes shaping our world and humanity. Mentioned Resources: Join the Transformational Coaching Program Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

29 Mai 202436min

Start Your Transformation Now In this episode, we dive deeper into the impact of economic uncertainty on our personal and emotional lives. Reflecting on a conversation with my brother-in-law, Don Xavier, from 2001, I share how the concept of peace of mind is essential for making sound financial decisions. We explore how fear and anxiety around money often stem from a lack of inner peace. When you are worried about money, it becomes difficult to make decisions, which contrasts sharply with times when you feel at peace and can handle financial matters effortlessly. We also discuss how a spiritualist should approach financial concerns, sharing stories from my life and those of people I know, including a friend currently undergoing a divorce and struggling with financial anxiety. Additionally, I recount how, growing up poor, I experienced intense fear around money, which I have since overcome through understanding and changing my mindset. This episode also highlights the importance of distinguishing between living from a 3D ego perspective versus a spiritual consciousness.  Listen, apply, enjoy! Transformational Takeaway: To achieve true financial peace, shift your focus from fear to abundance. Recognize that you are capable of creating prosperity, and understand that money is merely a tool, not a source of security. By aligning your thoughts and actions with abundance, you can transform your relationship with money and live a more empowered, stress-free life. Mentioned Resources: Sign up for the 9-Day Get Unstuck Challenge Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

22 Mai 202437min

Start Your Transformation Now In this episode, we dive deep into the impact of economic uncertainty on our personal and emotional lives. We discuss the stories we tell ourselves about economic stability, exploring everything from the effects of global financial shifts to personal anecdotes from individuals at various economic levels. We examine the pervasive anxiety surrounding potential economic downturns, discussing the implications of major economic shifts as countries like Brazil, Russia, India, China, and South Africa move away from the U.S. dollar. This episode features stories from a millionaire delaying his dream home purchase due to market jitters and an average person struggling with job security, illustrating how financial stress is universally experienced regardless of one's bank balance. We also debunk myths about money, particularly the notion that financial security ensures happiness. We use Tom Selleck’s concerns about maintaining his lifestyle despite his wealth as a case study to explore this misconception further. Listen, apply, enjoy! Transformational Takeaway: To live a more fulfilling life and have a deeper impact on those around us, examine the stories you tell yourself about money, financial security, and happiness and how they shape your emotions and decisions. Challenge yourself to let go of attachments that cause fear and anxiety. Instead, focus on aligning your actions with genuine intentions and being present in every moment. Mentioned Resources: Sign up for the 9-Day Get Unstuck Challenge Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

15 Mai 202433min

Start Your Transformation Now In this episode, I revisit the profound conversations I've had with Gary Zukav, unpacking the significant themes that emerged about health, sharing, and the intricate dance of reciprocity. Through these discussions, we gain invaluable insights into how our interactions and personal contributions can profoundly impact our journey and those around us. Gary and I touched on how true generosity goes beyond surface-level actions—it's about the intentions behind what we give and receive. I share personal anecdotes and observations about the subtle interplay between selfishness and selflessness, illustrated through my experiences and those of people close to me. These stories underscore the complexities of human behavior and the often unnoticed selfish tendencies that can coexist with a seemingly open heart. We also explored the evolution from 3D to 5D consciousness, delving into how this shift isn't just personal but a collective movement towards higher ways of being. We dig into the challenges and rewards of shedding lower vibrational emotions and behaviors to align more closely with this transformative path. Moreover, I delve into the broader implications of these personal and collective shifts, reflecting on global socio-economic changes and how they are mirrored in our personal growth journeys. The episode is a contemplation on the necessity of evolving beyond outdated structures and mindsets to truly embrace the new paradigms emerging around us. Listen and enjoy! Transformational Takeaway: Understanding the essence of ‘being’ is key to a fulfilling life and impactful interactions. Challenge yourself to make specific changes that elevate your state of being. Actively reflect on your journey and embody this essence to enhance your contributions to society. By doing so, you will deepen your relationships and your impact on the world. Mentioned Resources: Sign up for the 9-Day Get Unstuck Challenge The Seat of the Soul by Gary Zukav EPISODE 1: “Transforming Your Life From The Inside Out” Disclosure: Some of the links above are affiliate links, meaning, at no additional cost to you, I will earn a small commission if you make a purchase. Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

8 Mai 202439min

Start Your Transformation Now In my final interview with Gary Zukav, we engage in a thoughtful dialogue about navigating life's challenges and understanding the deeper aspects of our existence. We discuss our experiences and reflections on health, particularly dealing with the lingering effects of illnesses like COVID and the importance of listening to our bodies. Gary shares insights into how age impacts his physical capabilities but underscores that what truly matters is our intention and the impact we wish to make. This conversation also touches on the unique recognition Gary receives due to his long-standing presence in public life, such as being identified by his voice from his appearances on Oprah, illustrating the lasting impact of our contributions to society. We also explore the concept of being versus doing, emphasizing the need to focus on who we are in the moment and the intentions behind our actions rather than just the outcomes. Gary and I discuss the importance of authenticity and connection, reminding us that our true power lies in our presence and intentionality in every interaction. Listen and enjoy! Transformational Takeaway: To live more fulfilling lives and have a deeper impact on those around us, we must actively understand and embrace our roles as human ‘beings.’ This entails reflecting on our personal journey and finding tangible ways to embody the essence of being to enrich our interactions and contributions to the world. Mentioned Resources: Spend An Evening With Gary Zukav The Seat of the Soul by Gary Zukav Disclosure: Some of the links above are affiliate links, meaning, at no additional cost to you, I will earn a small commission if you make a purchase. Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

1 Mai 20241h 10min

Start Your Transformation Now In this deep dive episode, we revisit the enlightening conversation with Gary Zukav, focusing on the profound concepts of intention and being. Exploring the idea that we are human beings, not merely humans doing, the discussion emphasizes the importance of recognizing our true nature as beings rather than mere actors in the world. This shift in perspective challenges us to reflect deeply on our existence and the essence of our actions. The episode delves into the transformative journey of evolving from three-dimensional beings to multi-sensory entities, illustrating how this evolution profoundly affects our intentions and our experiences on the planet. The conversation underscores the significance of intention as a pivotal force in shaping our reality, urging us to consider not only what we intend but who we are when we set those intentions. This exploration highlights the interconnectedness of being and doing, showing how our state of being directly influences the outcomes of our actions. Listen & enjoy! Transformational Takeaway: Align more closely with your purpose on Earth, fostering a deeper connection to yourself and the universe. Mentioned Resources: Sign up for the 9-Day Get Unstuck Challenge Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

24 Apr 202425min