Ep 250: Creating and Changing Your Reality

Start Your Transformation Now Money, money, money, it’s on a lot of people’s mind these days.  Why?  The economy and FEAR!  I was inspired to do this episode based on some thinking I was doing this morning about how I’d emotionally handle all that is going on in the economy these days if I had not changed my thinking about money years ago.  You know, inflation, gas prices, supply chain, labor shortages and all the crap going on in the world. As a business owner, it all affect me but candidly, I take it all in stride because I know the economy will only affect me in relation to my thinking about it.  These days most people are caving into fear and worry and that is the exact place we do not need to go. I’ll explain in the episode.  I want to preface what is to come with this. Decades ago I was desperate for money and I was working hard day and night to make money, and I still found that I could not catch up or keep up.  All the while I was working hard, ironically, as I was fighting the economy in my own life I was reading tons of self-help and “money books.” You know, The Science Of Getting Rich, Think and Grow Rich, The Richest Man in Babylon and many books of the kind.  One day I was thinking, “How come I have read hundreds of books on money manifestation and why am I still so damn broke and struggling?”  Easy! I understood the information I was reading but was not living it. Why? Because I was afraid to trust the universe. I was even afraid to trust what quantum physics had discovered.  And what is that quantum physics discovery? Simple, all things in the universe vibrate, and thought is vibration. Vibration create your frequency, and to take it further, money is a thought frequenc,y and your money thoughts determine your money circumstances.  Honestly, even though I had read many things that applied to vibration, frequency, and money, I was afraid to trust it as I would have rather trusted my dollars for hours work mentality, which kept me working hard and broke.  In this episode I talk about how I made the leap and why it’s vital that you do too. Vibration and frequency are facts of quantum physics, and these properties affect your money.  Going further, your thoughts affect your vibration and frequency, hence, your thoughts about money affect your money situation and circumstances.  Plain and simple, if you want to change your money, you must change your thinking, and in this episode I talk about things that I did and ways we must change our thinking.  If you’re worried about money or struggling with it, this episode is a must for you!  Transformational Takeaway: To change your money circumstances you must change your frequency. Mentioned Resources: EPISODE 9: “How The Law Of Attraction Repels The Money And Abundance You Want” Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

27 Jul 202237min

Start Your Transformation Now This is a very special and also powerful episode. As you’ll hear I am interviewing Dr. Laurie Emery, PysD.  Dr. Emery is a coveted relationship expert, transformational coach, and also a former coach of mine. Her primary expertise and zone of genius is “Transformational Relationship Coaching.”  Candidly, I’d not even be doing this podcast had I not met her many years ago. She changed my life and when you listen to this episode carefully and over and over, you’ll find solid guidance that can completely shift your relationship with yourself and others.  What was just said in the last sentence is vital to a healthy personal relationship because your marriage, personal and intimate relationships are only as healthy as your relationship with yourself.  In this episode, we specifically talk about the three biggest problems in relationships and according to Dr. Emery these three things are:  A lack of intimacy  A lack of responsibility  A lack of commitment  In the headline, I talk about the three biggest problems in relationships and how to solve them, but solving them isn’t as task/process-focused as most people might think.  The solutions to the biggest problems come from our self-growth and us focusing on our own personal evolvement without us simply expecting our partner to change. Like I said, in my opinion, this is an exceptional episode.  Transformational Takeaway: To transform our relationships we first must transform our relationship with ourselves. Mentioned Resources: You can reach Dr. Laurie Emery, PsyD at her email: drlemery@gmail.com Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

20 Jul 20221h

Start Your Transformation Now You’ve heard the old phrase before, “If nothing changes then nothing changes.” But, things don’t change, we change (or not), and if we don’t change then nothing in our world changes. My observation from doing my work over decades is that people will give lip service to change and they will dream and plan and fantasize about it but few actually pay the price and do the work to create it! To change your circumstances…your money, relationships, health, and anything in your life you must change. When you change then these “things” also change because they respond to who you are and what you do. Life responds and mirrors you and your changes. And, as we all know, we must change but we don’t. Have you ever asked yourself why? There are several reasons but two, in particular, are both brain-based. One is Predictability and the other is Identity Confirmation. There is a part of your brain that operates from a predictability/certainty principle and a part of your brain that wants “Identity Confirmation.” These two brain-based functions keep you trapped in the behavior of not changing, which is totally against what you often think you want. You know that if nothing changes then nothing changes but you still don’t take change action. It’s not your fault, it’s your brain. The only way to create change is to actually use your mind to drive your brain. The only way to create change is to take action on your desired change. In this episode, I talk more about it all and some simple practical steps to start creating change in your life. Transformational Takeaway: A part of your brain will keep you in your same place in life. You have to override your brain by using your mind. Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

13 Jul 202237min

Start Your Transformation Now So, your first two thoughts are probably one, what is the human racket and secondly, how does that racket keep me trapped? (And, keep you struggling for money and prosperity?)  A racket is defined as “a fraudulent scheme, enterprise, or activity.”  And, we all are taught the “Human Racket” as soon as we pop out of the womb. We’re taught the rules of life and what life is and is not and what is possible and what is not based upon being from and living within the racket.  You read that right. We learn the rules of the racket by living in the racket which means we are trapped in the racket. And, the truth is, we don’t even know we are in the racket because everyone else around us is in it too…our parents, and schools, and teachers, and family, and socialization keep us trapped in the racket.  The racket is poison or death to our higher natures, selves and beings. The racket robs us of our power as cosmic beings, and let me tell you this, cosmic beings don’t play human rackets.  Have you ever considered this thought, “What did you give up to come to this planet?“ Most people think they are giving up their life when they leave the planet and the truth is that they are regaining their full power as a cosmic being.  It does not matter if you are “spiritual” or not. You are both physical consciousness and non-physical mind. And, all if this is covered by the laws and properties of physics.  The bigger point of this episode is that your higher self has abilities that dwarf the abilities of your physical being, and one of those is manifestation. You have the power and ability to manifest just about anything you want and in any amount, and…to make that happen, if you have to quit playing the human racket.  The human racket works from finite resources, limitations, boundaries and concrete linear thinking based upon your physical senses.  The higher function of “you” works from no such limitations, and you cannot work from your highest self while living from the lower function of your being. Transformational Takeaway: Any time I think or hear limiting thoughts, my first thought is, “That’s in the racket, and the racket is an illusion, it’s not mine and does not pertain to me. I am a free mind and not bound by the illusion of limitation.” Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

6 Jul 202217min

Start Your Transformation Now In truth, you have no limits. You may have certain physical limitations but I’ve seen people with what are perceived to be huge limitations do unbelievable things.  In this episode, I talk about how the concept of “go beyond your limits” was introduced to me. We are often told we have limits but how often do you think, “OK, I might have current limitations, and let me go beyond those?  In shamanism, there is a quote that I love and it’s “When the warrior stops talking even the craziest of tasks becomes possible.”  You may initially think that this episode is about self-talk but it’s really not, it’s about quieting and taming your mind that drives your self-talk.  The reality is that the only reason you cannot go beyond your perceived limits is because you think you cannot and in that moment is when your brain-based programming, subconscious programming, and mental chatter are stopping you.  We must stop the mental chatter, the “monkey brain.” But how?  You’ll never stop your brain and fully quiet your mind, however, you can tame them both and that gives you a better opportunity to silence them as much as possible.  In this episode, I explore seven ways that I have used and learned over the years and I have practiced many of them for decades. I give you a lot of choice and variety as different things will work for different people. We all process information differently and have different abilities, likes and preferences.  You’ll obviously know of at least three to five of them and then a few you may not have heard about or thought of. So, listen and then experiment with what works for you.  As I said above, the key to going beyond your limits is taming your mind and brain and honestly there is no better time than now and you’ll find the applications endless: Better health, wellness, focus, peace of mind, joy and maybe even doing things you have never done before.  Transformational Takeaway: To quiet the mind you first have to tame the mind! When you tame your mind you can start going beyond your limits. Mentioned Resources: For more information on Heart Math and to visit their website, visit the link below. https://www.heartmath.com Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

29 Jun 202228min

Start Your Transformation Now We all understand the concept of organization and things that we think we need to do in the world: Organize the office, clean the garage, organize the pantry, organize the files and the list goes on and on, right?  However, how many of us think about the concept of organizing ourselves, and what do I mean by “organizing yourself?”  I mean this in a spiritual way, and have you ever thought about that? What does it mean to “organize yourself spiritually?”  Working with a shaman for decades I used to think he did things to assist me and one day I realized that he led me to organize myself internally because when I do that things start to work fluidly in life.  What this means is to align yourself with your higher mind, function, and purpose and if you cannot organize your thinking and behavior around that you cannot align yourself with higher mind, spirit, Divine force, the quantum field, etc.  The definition of organization is: Arrange into a structured whole; order. Now ask yourself, is your life spiritually organized? And, specifically in regard to your life/spiritual prioritizations? An important point to recognize is that organization takes prioritization and do you have your spiritual thoughts and behaviors organized in a hierarchy of values? What’s at the top of your value ladder? Spiritual evolution or 3D human things? Are you a “Spiritual Weekend Warrior” and prioritizing when it is convenient for you? Transformational Takeaway: When you organize your thoughts, behaviors, and actions with the higher callings of your soul/spirit, that will be priceless for you. Mentioned Resources: The Kybalion by Hermes Trismegistus EPISODE 33: “AYNI – The Reciprocity Of Life” EPISODE 35: “AYNI – The Reciprocity Of Life Part 2” EPISODE 163: “AYNI – The Reciprocity Of Life – Part 3” Disclosure: Some of the links above are affiliate links, meaning, at no additional cost to you, I will earn a small commission if you make a purchase. Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

22 Jun 202229min

Start Your Transformation Now I go a few different directions in this episode. I talk about “Doing the work” in life and tie that into “What Makes Me Matter.”  When we come to what makes us matter, we metaphorically set ourselves on fire, and life becomes amazing.  Most of us fall short when it comes to doing the work and things that need to be done in life because nothing has set us on fire to do what is necessary to create the outcomes we desire.  When I had my stroke after heart failure, it was a lot of “work” healing and getting back to great health, and I do mean a lot of work! But, I did all the work necessary because I know that I matter in life. What I do professionally matters, I matter, my life matters – I am a person who matters. Read on, I’ll explain.  One of the obstacles to doing the work in life is that we hit resistance and we stop and this is exactly when we should push through and persevere.  Resistance keeps us from everything we want in life!  Resistance comes in the form of fears, overly analytical rationalizations and the environment we live in.  And, until we cut through all this head garbage we’re not going to bust through resistance, and when we don’t do that, we almost never do the great things in our life that bring us the greatest joy.  This episode is all about what matter you matter in life and a simple way to discover that. It’s the approach that I take and live from.  Transformational Takeaway: It’s vital that we come into the knowing of “why we are here,” and when we do that, what makes us matter becomes clear. And then…life becomes extraordinary! Mentioned Resources: https://adoptaplatoon.org/ Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

15 Jun 202246min

Start Your Transformation Now Have you ever wondered how truly powerful your mind is?  We all hear different stories about the “Power of the Mind” but have you experienced that in your own life?  Personally, I used my “mind” to heal from a stroke and heart failure, all of which happened in a single year, 2020. And, as I was healing I was searching Youtube for inspirational videos and stories.  I had never even taken so much as a prescription until my ordeals and I was wondering and searching for, “How do I heal myself beyond what modern medicine says I can do?  I came across a video by a man named Bob Cafaro and it was titled, “The Psychology Of Beating An Incurable Disease.” The title sucked me in immediately and the video did not disappoint. As a far of matter, it was the single most impactful video that I watched.  Bob healed himself from an incurable disease, Multiple Sclerosis. You read that right. He headed himself 100% using the power of his mind.  I’m ecstatic because I’m visiting with Bob in this episode and he shares the specific activities that healed him. Before I talked to him, I was blown away because as we were talking, he shared how he “did the impossible,” literally.  So, how does the interview apply to you and help you live a better life? Easy, if you’re in any way physically ill listening to this podcast episode can do one of the most important things you ever do and if you’ve never been in such circumstances, Bob demonstrates the power of doing the impossible. Transformational Takeaway: The only place where things are impossible is in your mind. Mentioned Resources: Bob Cafaro’s Website: http://bobcafaro.com Let's Connect:  Instagram Facebook YouTube LinkedIn  LIKED THE EPISODE? If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people. Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you! Thank you for listening!  With Gratitude, Jim Fortin

8 Jun 202259min