241. Are we our own worst critic?

241. Are we our own worst critic?

Sometimes the loudest critic, our biggest hater is not someone we know, it is ourselves. We are the ones who are the first to judge ourselves, to shut ourselves and our ambitions down, to say the nastiest things. In today's episode we break down why we are our own worst critic, including:

  • How we learn self criticism in childhood
  • The evolutionary component to criticism
  • The role of the super ego
  • The role of comparison
  • Why no one is really looking at your that closely
  • How to embrace radical self compassion and acceptance
  • How to use cognitive diffusion, and much more

This episode is a rerun whilst Jemma is recovering from an illness. We will be back on Friday with a brand new episode.

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89. Maintaining your identity in a relationship

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88. The psychology of dreams

88. The psychology of dreams

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87. Should you quit your 9-5?

87. Should you quit your 9-5?

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86. Perfectionism and academic anxiety

86. Perfectionism and academic anxiety

Perfectionism is on the rise amongst young people, and in this episode we break down exactly what it means to have perfectionist tendencies. We examine the theories of personality, our upbringing, lin...

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85. 'Daddy issues' and dating in your 20s ft. Violet Benson

85. 'Daddy issues' and dating in your 20s ft. Violet Benson

This Friday we sit down with the wonderful Violet Benson, host of the podcast Almost Adulting, also known for her famous meme account, Daddy Issues, as we discuss everything dating in our 20s, specifi...

27 Apr 202337min

84. Loneliness is not your enemy!

84. Loneliness is not your enemy!

This week we break down the psychological, biological and evolutionary underpinnings of loneliness and break down some of the stigma around feeling lonely in your 20's. This decade is full of a number...

25 Apr 202339min

83. The psychology of 'lucky girl syndrome'

83. The psychology of 'lucky girl syndrome'

On this episode we break down the science and psychology of the internet and TikTok sensation of "lucky girl syndrome". We explore the ideas and theories behind self fulfilling prophecies, confirmatio...

21 Apr 202332min

82. The psychology of emotional unavailability

82. The psychology of emotional unavailability

This week we are discussing the science and psychology of emotional unavailability and breaking down the misconceptions and myths about emotional unavailability in our 20's, particularly when it comes...

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