THIS Is What it Actually Takes to Have a Happy Relationship | Tom Bilyeu on Women of Impact
Women of Impact9 Feb 2022

THIS Is What it Actually Takes to Have a Happy Relationship | Tom Bilyeu on Women of Impact

The truth about happy long lasting relationships and marriages is that most times, couples don’t know how they survive, but in hindsight they can see what worked and what didn’t. Tom and Lisa have been thriving together for over 20 years. Through many trials and errors they have found the secret to building a healthy and lasting relationship. Lisa takes Tom through several topics they formulated 26 hardcore questions around that keep the love strong and the relationship focused on what matters. In their experience, thriving together has looked like telling each other hard truths, handing over their insecurities and vulnerabilities to each other in exchange for a beautiful shared life experience. SHOW NOTES: Desire | Tom shares why understanding your partner’s changing wants over time is critical [0:55] Perfect Day | Toms reveals what a perfect day would be if Lisa was down for anything [4:31] Speak Up | The importance of letting your partner know what makes you happy [6:00] Setup for the Win | How to set your partner up for the win and being happy[10:34] Trust | Tom discusses what total trust looks like for a healthy thriving relationship [12:33] Broken Trust | Tom and Lisa discuss ways to open up again after trust is broken [18:57] Insecurities | The importance of never using your partner insecurities to hurt them [23:17] Irreversible | Lisa shares 3 major things that can’t be taken back in healthy relationship [26:21] Hard Truth | Asking your partner the one trait they want in a partner, you don’t have [32:00] Reconsidering | Ask the hard question, what would make you reconsider the relationship [41:10] Disruptors | Lisa and Tom break down how to pattern interrupt big arguments [44:29] Check out the deals from our sponsors: Athletic Greens: Go to https://athleticgreens.com/lisa and receive a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 free travel packs with your first purchase! InsideTracker: insidetracker.com/womenofimpact Blinkist: Go to https://blinkist.com/woi Try it FREE for 7 days and save 25% off your new subscription. Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Seduction Isn’t About Sex - It’s About Power: How to Influence Anyone Without Losing Yourself | Chen Lizra (Fan Fav)

Seduction Isn’t About Sex - It’s About Power: How to Influence Anyone Without Losing Yourself | Chen Lizra (Fan Fav)

This is a fan fav episode. Seduction is talked about being manipulative. The art of seduction is usually sexually charged with a lack of connection and one motive, to get what you want at someone else’s expense. Well, I have to tell you after talking with Chen Lizra, the social entrepreneur of seduction and empowerment, it’s abundantly clear that influence and seduction have more to do with confidence, self-worth, and pride for all that you are and what you bring to the table. Now, that’s a tool every woman can use in her tool belt.  We talk about the misconceptions tied to seduction, why it's a powerful skill in the boardroom that doesn’t have to ever be sexually charged, and what to do if you’re feeling blocked from tapping into your seduction. Later, we get into the truth about attraction and why those butterflies we feel meeting someone aren’t a sign of love at first sight, it’s a big fat red flag for this and after watching this episode with Dr Laura Berman, you’ll never think about those butterflies the same again. Original air date: 6-7-23 Follow Chen Lizra: Website: ⁠https://www.powerofsomaticintelligence.com/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/ChenLizra⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/clizra/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/clizra⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

12 Sep 53min

Lisa Bilyeu's Confidence Playbook: Dating, Business & Badass Boundaries (Fan Fav)

Lisa Bilyeu's Confidence Playbook: Dating, Business & Badass Boundaries (Fan Fav)

This is a fan fav episode. Welcome to the Women of Impact podcast. I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu, and I do this show because I know what it’s like to not believe in yourself and feel like you have to settle and be grateful for whatever life you’re living. Bullsh*t homie! Each week I get so excited to share valuable insights and lessons with you that have been the key to building my confidence and shaping my path to success. But let me be clear, this podcast isn't about me, it's about how we all wrestle with self-doubt, fears, and insecurities. But the great news is that you get to choose growth and purpose over everything to create the life you desire. In today’s episode, we'll explore: *Strategies for building genuine relationships with other empowered women *Aging with confidence and navigating the dating scene like a total badass *The mindset required to start a business that goes beyond just having a business plan and an Instagram account Original air date: 10-27-2023 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11 Sep 39min

Why Smart Women Stay in Toxic Relationships (And Ignore the Red Flags) | Dr. Anna Machin

Why Smart Women Stay in Toxic Relationships (And Ignore the Red Flags) | Dr. Anna Machin

Craving love can connect us—or leave us vulnerable to harm we never saw coming. In this episode, I (Lisa Bilyeu) sit down with evolutionary anthropologist Dr. Anna Machin to peel back the science behind why we’re drawn to love, why it can blind us to red flags, and how manipulators like narcissists and psychopaths use our own biology against us. With fascinating research, actionable advice, and hard-earned empathy, Anna breaks down not only how we get trapped but also the precise path out—so you can reclaim your confidence, trust your instincts, and invite in the healthy love you deserve. SHOWNOTES How love can biologically blind you to manipulation—and what to do about it The “dark triad”: What makes narcissists, psychopaths, and Machiavellians so dangerous in relationships Why our brains shut down red flag detection at the euphoric start of falling in love The addictive chemistry of love: Oxytocin, dopamine, serotonin, and beta-endorphin explained How emotional abusers isolate you and make you question your reality The real science behind jealousy, what it signals, and when it turns toxic Understanding attachment styles and why anxious-preoccupied types are more vulnerable What makes leaving so hard (hint: withdrawal and isolation) and how to rebuild your life afterward The crucial role of friends, support networks, and self-trust after an abusive relationship Hope after heartbreak: Why real, healthy love is still out there for you FOLLOW DR. ANNA MACHIN:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr_annamachinWebsite: https://www.annamachin.comBook: “Why We Love: The Definitive Guide to the Most Fundamental Need” (available at major retailers) CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠⁠ BIOptimizers: Code IMPACTNOW for 15% off ⁠⁠⁠https://bioptimizers.com/impact⁠⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠⁠⁠ Macy’s: Upgrade your glam at ⁠⁠⁠https://macys.com⁠⁠⁠ SleepMe: Visit ⁠⁠⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠⁠⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

10 Sep 55min

She Survived the Unthinkable: How She Found Her Voice After Years of Abuse | Kimberly Shannon Murphy PT 2 (Fan Fav)

She Survived the Unthinkable: How She Found Her Voice After Years of Abuse | Kimberly Shannon Murphy PT 2 (Fan Fav)

This is a fan fav episode. Feeling Trapped? Find Your Voice, Stand Up & Never Be Pushed Around Again | Kimberly Shannon Murphy Prepare for an emotional rollercoaster as we delve into the chilling experiences of Hollywood stuntwoman, Kimberly Murphy. I want to warn you up front, this episode is emotionally heavy and may be triggering for some of you. Join me as we sit down Kimberly Murphy, whose story of resilience and healing will leave you in awe. She has jumped out of a building, hung from a helicopter, and tackled Brad Pitt! Her career and affinity for putting herself in painfully dangerous situations comes sadly from an abused 2 year girl crying out for help. In part one of this two-part episode, we unpack her harrowing journey from childhood abuse through physical violence and emotional manipulation. Kimberly's story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of transformation. Despite the scars of her past, she has turned her life around in such an epic way, battled unhealthy relationships, and emerged as the badass woman she’s become. My hope is for the woman that really needs to hear what is possible to find what she needs and take away the valuable lessons about self-worth, growth, and the power of resilience. By tuning in, you'll gain insights into the effects of trauma and the healing process, empowering you to face your own challenges head-on. Check out Kim’s book, Glimmer: A Story of Survival, Hope, Healing: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Glimmer-Story-Survival-Hope-Healing/dp/0063228262⁠  So, are you ready to embark on this transformative journey? Hit that play button, and let's dive in! And if you haven't already, be sure to subscribe and leave a review for more empowering content and knowledge to help you level up your life! Original air date: 7-6-23 Follow Kim Murphy: YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@StuntwomanKimberlyShannon⁠  TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@kimberlyshannonmurphy⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/kimberlyshannonmurphystunts/⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

9 Sep 47min

She Survived the Unthinkable: How She Found Her Voice After Years of Abuse | Kimberly Shannon Murphy PT 1 (Fan Fav)

She Survived the Unthinkable: How She Found Her Voice After Years of Abuse | Kimberly Shannon Murphy PT 1 (Fan Fav)

This is a fan fav episode. Feeling Trapped? Find Your Voice, Stand Up & Never Be Pushed Around Again | Kimberly Shannon Murphy Prepare for an emotional rollercoaster as we delve into the chilling experiences of Hollywood stuntwoman, Kimberly Murphy. I want to warn you up front, this episode is emotionally heavy and may be triggering for some of you. Join me as we sit down Kimberly Murphy, whose story of resilience and healing will leave you in awe. She has jumped out of a building, hung from a helicopter, and tackled Brad Pitt! Her career and affinity for putting herself in painfully dangerous situations comes sadly from an abused 2 year girl crying out for help. In part one of this two-part episode, we unpack her harrowing journey from childhood abuse through physical violence and emotional manipulation. Kimberly's story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of transformation. Despite the scars of her past, she has turned her life around in such an epic way, battled unhealthy relationships, and emerged as the badass woman she’s become. My hope is for the woman that really needs to hear what is possible to find what she needs and take away the valuable lessons about self-worth, growth, and the power of resilience. By tuning in, you'll gain insights into the effects of trauma and the healing process, empowering you to face your own challenges head-on. Check out Kim’s book, Glimmer: A Story of Survival, Hope, Healing: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Glimmer-Story-Survival-Hope-Healing/dp/0063228262⁠  So, are you ready to embark on this transformative journey? Hit that play button, and let's dive in! And if you haven't already, be sure to subscribe and leave a review for more empowering content and knowledge to help you level up your life! Original air date: 7-5-2023 Follow Kim Murphy: YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@StuntwomanKimberlyShannon⁠  TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@kimberlyshannonmurphy⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/kimberlyshannonmurphystunts/⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

8 Sep 44min

Golden Girl Energy: How to Keep Your Brain Sexy, Sharp & Strong at Any Age | Live w/ Dr. Amen (Fan Fav)

Golden Girl Energy: How to Keep Your Brain Sexy, Sharp & Strong at Any Age | Live w/ Dr. Amen (Fan Fav)

This is a fan fav episode. Hello, homies! Lisa Bilyeu here! Have you ever dreamt of hitting a 100 years old and still remembering why you walked into the room? Or better yet, still be cracking jokes and doing pushups like it's nobody's business? Well, you're not alone! We're diving headfirst into brain health, exploring adult ADHD, and tackling the truth about how marijuana use has affected my brain health. Without a healthy brain, achieving our grandest goals, spotting narcissists, and dodging toxic relationships become a whole lot trickier. So, if you're ready to join me on this journey and start facing your own hard truths, hit that play button. “Genetics are the bullet but your lifestyle is the finger on the trigger” -Dr. Daniel Amen If tearing up the dance floor and not misplacing your car keys at a hundred (or now) sounds like your cup of tea, then this episode is for you! Don't forget to drop us a rating or review, and share your wild plans for your Golden Girl years. Original air date: 12-29-2023 Check out Lisa’s Adult ADHD Diagnosis and Candid Conversation with Dr. Amen: ⁠https://youtu.be/DieG5aetBL0?si=eaDSzAet0mZjbj8R⁠ Follow Dr. Daniel Amen: Website: ⁠https://danielamenmd.com/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@AmenClinic⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/doc_amen/⁠   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

7 Sep 33min

If You’re Scared to Be Alone—READ THIS: Why Staying Single Might Save Your Life | Case Kenny (Fan Fav)

If You’re Scared to Be Alone—READ THIS: Why Staying Single Might Save Your Life | Case Kenny (Fan Fav)

This is a fan fav episode. Relationships can be really fun and exciting, and they can also get a bit messy, awkward and questionable. Even after investing years of your life. Pop quiz for the ladies still searching for the right relationship and for the ones questioning the relationship they’re in now, and you have to be totally honest. Have you chosen the wrong relationship because it beat the idea of being alone? At least you weren’t the single friend, or the one that walked away first. Can you think of someone you dated that clearly only happened because you lowered your standards enough? Has the thought of starting over and walking away from a relationship that obviously had no future kept you in an unhealthy, unhappy, and unfulfilling relationship way past the expiration date? If you answered yes to any of these questions and smirked thinking about your friend, sister, or cousin that would be a HELL YEAH to one or more of these questions, then you’re in for a treat. Today’s guest, Case Kenny, is one of the most influential voices of reason for millennials, an internet entrepreneur and the host of the podcast, New Mindset, Who Dis? Case is talking with Lisa and shares why being alone isn’t just 1000% better than settling for the wrong person, it’s freaking dangerous! Irrational fear of being alone and the stigma that comes with it jeopardizes you being your happiest most vibrant self. Original air date: 4-1-23 Check out Case Kenny’sBook: That’s Bold of You: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Thats-Bold-You-Thrive-Vibrant-ebook/dp/B0BRHYQTZK?ref_=ast_author_dp⁠  Follow Case Kenny: Website: ⁠https://newmindsetwhodis.com/⁠   Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/thecasekenny⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/thecasekenny/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/case.kenny/⁠  CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ BIOptimizers: Code IMPACTNOW for 15% off ⁠⁠https://bioptimizers.com/impact⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠⁠ Macy’s: Upgrade your glam at ⁠⁠https://macys.com⁠⁠ SleepMe: Visit ⁠⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

5 Sep 1h 15min

Inside the Male Brain: Why Men Do What They Do & What Women Need to Know | Dr. Andrew Huberman PT 2

Inside the Male Brain: Why Men Do What They Do & What Women Need to Know | Dr. Andrew Huberman PT 2

Continuing their illuminating conversation, Lisa Bilyeu and Dr. Andrew Huberman return in Part 2 to unravel even more of the mysteries behind male behavior, relationships, and the neuroscience that underpins it all. Picking up where Part 1 left off, this episode transitions into the hot-button topics of jealousy, male self-worth, and the unique pressures that men face today. Andrew breaks down the pitfalls of toxic jealousy, the motivation behind “more money, more muscle” mindsets, and why so many men struggle with overwhelm and self-destructive coping strategies—including the often-taboo subject of porn. The duo also tackles emotionally charged terrain like shame, vulnerability, and why crying means something so different for men than it does for women. Through honest stories and raw admissions, Andrew shares what helps men build resilience, manage emotional pain, and ultimately open up to healing in partnership. Lisa and Andrew don’t shy away from the cultural shifts facing both men and women, unpacking the future of relationships, marriage, and what it takes to foster genuine intimacy. If you want the real story on male mental health, the role of partnership as a catalyst for growth, and practical advice for creating safer, more compassionate connections—this part is a must-listen. SHOWNOTES 26:33 - Jealousy: Growth vs. Destruction in Men 29:52 - Struggling with Overwhelm: Addiction, Porn, and Escapism 33:58 - The Trap of Pornography: Dopamine & Motivation Gone Wrong 38:41 - Why Women (and Lisa) Love True Crime: The Evolutionary Perspective 41:18 - The Ultimate Fears: Men Fear Shame, Women Fear for Safety 44:55 - The Pressure of Perfection on Men & Changing Gender Dynamics 49:39 - Navigating Career, Motherhood, and Social Judgement as Women 53:09 - The Need for Reflection: Mentors, Elders, and Self-Inquiry 56:59 - What Men Really Want in Partnership: Challenge vs. Comfort 59:28 - Emotional Catharsis: Purging Shame and Vulnerability Safely 1:03:00 - Healing the Divide: Compassion, Understanding, and Moving Forward FOLLOW ANDREW HUBERMAN: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hubermanlab/ Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/hubermanlab YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@hubermanlab Website: https://www.hubermanlab.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ BIOptimizers: Code IMPACTNOW for 15% off ⁠⁠https://bioptimizers.com/impact⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠⁠ Macy’s: Upgrade your glam at ⁠⁠https://macys.com⁠⁠ SleepMe: Visit ⁠⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

4 Sep 53min

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