The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics30 Jan 2023

Meet Mistress Harper the Sensual Sadist

Mistress Harper joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika for some fetish fun and kink conversation. Ms Harper describes herself as: sensual, sadistic, smartass and badass. That’s a great combo!

Ms Harper is active in the face to face fetish scene. She talks about the difference between distance domination on the phone and face to face kink play. Each one has some unique attributes but there is overlap which makes both very fun.

Are you curious about what goes on in the mind of a Sadistic Mistress or a Mean Mistress doing rough BDSM? Ms Harper gives her insight on sadism, pain, arousal and how she thinks of her role as a Domme during intense BDSM scenes.

Ms Olivia asks if Mistress Harper had any worries about enjoying pain play. This leads to a discussion about consent in BDSM and negotiation in fetish scenes.

A casual mention of a bullwhip leads to questions about how to learn how to be a Mistress who can literally crack her whip. Ms Olivia shares her experience of trying to learn to use a bullwhip.The ladies come up with a wicked Giantess scene featuring a whip with the tiny man attached to the cracker at the end of the whip. Oh noooooooooo poor tiny man!

The “how did you get into sex work” question is always fun and Ms Harper shares how she got into phone sex.

Ms Erika brings up someone who wants to learn to be more submissive to his wife and have HER be more Dominant with him. All three ladies have lots to say about how to talk to your partner about your kink, fetish or BDSM desires.

Chastity is a favorite topic, so there is a long conversation about chastity training, dos and don’ts about chastity training, advice about chastity cages, keyholding and long distance chastity.

This episode is full of BDSM advice, sex education, stories and laughter about quirky things about sex work.

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