The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics22 Mai 2023

Sissy wants wife to be dominant like a Mistress

Hosts Ms Olivia and Ms Erika respond to emails that ask some version of: “How do I get my wife to be my sissy Mistress?”

This is a common question. Some of the discussion is about sissy specific issues and some advice will apply to anyone who is a submissive trying to change a partner who isn’t already into kink, fetish or gender play.

The first question to consider is: “Does your wife or girlfriend WANT to be your Mistress?”

If you think she might be open to being your Domme, then this episode is all about how to talk about your sissy desires with her.

What is a FLR or female led relationship?
How does feminization and/or sissification work in a female led relationship?
What happens in the rest of the relationship if he is her sissy cuckold and she is the Domme wife?
What is monogamy in a kink relationship?
How will a sissy perform in a cuckold relationship?
Will a cuckold sissy husband be expected to suck cock and sexually satisfy men?
Will erotic humiliation be part of your feminization or sissy play?
What to do if your partner is also submissive but may be willing to learn to be your Dominant.
Why BDSM negotiations are different with a Pro Domme versus non sex worker partner.
What is topping from the bottom and why is this a bad thing?
How to communicate your needs when you are a submissive.
How do you both go back to your “regular” life when sissy play time is over?

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