BDSM Consent is Sexy with Dr. Betty Martin

BDSM Consent is Sexy with Dr. Betty Martin

Dr. Betty Martin joins the ladies to talk about BDSM consent and the conversation touches on so much more.
Meet this fascinating person who has been a chiropractor for years and is now a sex and touch coach, certified Surrogate Partner, Sacred Intimate, Somatic Sex Educator and author of the book: The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent.

The conversation includes:

Issues of consent for sex workers and other touch professionals
Why getting a “yes” isn’t enough, consent needs to be about mutual agreement
How to apply to Wheel of Consent to Distance Domination and phone sex
How the role of context and meaning makes all the difference with experiences.

Dr. Betty brings up the 3 minute game popular in the BDSM world. That’s where 2 (or more) people take turns saying, “What do you want me to do to you for three minutes?” and “What do you want to do to me for 3 minutes?” Ms Erika asks how to use the Wheel of Consent with Distance Domination as an online Femdom Mistress.


The ladies all talk about the value of working with a lot of clients as a sex worker. Experience and skill level really matters with all kinds of intimate experiences including distance domination and phone sex.


Dr. Betty talks about her transition from chiropractor to sex coach to, now, self defined sex worker. Learn what a sacred intimate does.


The ladies have a candid conversation about sex worker and who does sex work. Ms Erika tears up talking about her close relationship with a disabled man who thoroughly enjoys erotic humiliation at the hands of a Mean Mistress.


Ms Olivia says she thinks of sex work as a calling and a passion.

The ladies cover a lot of topics, have a bunch of laughs and, hopefully, inspire you to think about the role of sex workers in your own lives.

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