162 - Kidnapped

Before I start my talk today I just want to make it clear that I don't think that anyone should kidnap anyone else and use them for any reason. My intention with this video is to get into the minds of men that kidnap women and keep them in their basements and homes as slaves and servants. Why would a man abduct a defenseless woman and keep her in his house and destroy her life to get his sexual and psychological needs met? I think deep down inside a man like that he is deeply wounded and unable to trust women and that's why he's doing it. In 2006 in Austria a woman named Natascha Kampusch escaped from a man that abducted her and kept her in a cellar he built under his house. So what drives a man to do such things? Usually I talk about the dark side of female nature and avoid talking about men raping women and being bad to them. But I believe that the reason men do such cruel things to women might have to do with emotional cruelty that and neglect they themselves experienced from women in the past. And through the kidnapping and use of women do they start to become more empathetic and start the healing process. I know you probably think I'm crazy at this point but please bear with with me. I'm sure most of you have have heard of Ariel Castro the man that kidnapped, locked up and had sex with three girls in his house in Cleveland. He held those three women in his house for about ten years before they were finally found. He even had a daughter with one of those women. Ariel Castro started getting sloppy a year before he was caught. He was feeling sorry for the daughter that he had with Amanda Berry. He was starting to worry about sending her to school so that she could get proper social interaction with kids her own age and friends. He was a kidnapper and rapist with a kind heart for his own child. Yet he was still an unfeeling and cruel monster to the women that he had abducted. It's almost like he wanted to get caught because he didn't seemingly have the courage to go to the police and turn himself in. It's almost like he made peace with his own issues or he felt sorry for his daughter and that made him empathetic. Like he was willing to sacrifice his own freedom for the love he had for his daughter because subconsciously he was sabotaging himself. I'm just saying that there are more complicated issues at play that drive a man to kidnap, rape, confine and possibly kill a woman. Part of it might be related to the way that women have treated such a man during his life. I couldn't really find any information about how Castro's mother treated him. But I did find out that he had anger issues and other men caught him beating his wife. Castro was a man with no remorse and hurt his own wife but seemed to love his own daughter. It's almost like the only sympathy he felt for women was sympathy for his own daughter, daughters or children. I believe he was a man that cared deeply for the love he had for his own children but not the mothers of his children.

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