204 - Long Distance Relationships

Last weekend I was out with some friends and I met a guy named Gary who was in a long distance relationship. He spent fifteen years in long term relationships and now he's in a two year long distance relationship. The woman he's dating makes more money then he does and lives in the United States. And he's up here in Canada. Over that entire two year period he's only seen her a handful of times in real life and they plan on seeing each other in the next few weeks. She's going to come up here for them to spend time together. I told him that she should meet some of his friends and family when she's up here so that he can have a second or a third set of eyeballs to get a second opinion about her. All of my friends sitting with us that night agreed this would be the way to go. But something about the story he told me about her didn't seem to add up and got my spidey senses tingling. She's about five years younger then him and owns many expensive cars, an expensive house and has a high paying career. She is extremely successful by conventional standards of wealth. But he doesn't match up to her earnings potential and wealth and she's offering to invite him to come down live with her and get his green card. But he works up here and it's not a good idea for him to drop his job and career and move down there. My suspicion is that he's part of her male harem and he doesn't even know it. Although he re-iterated to me that they spend their evenings talking on the phone and share their day equally I'm not 100% sure I believe that. He could be one part of a greater gaggle of guys that she has in her roster. I could easily be wrong but it's hard to have a functioning distance relationship without sex, affection and close proximity. She works surrounded by wealthy and powerful men all around her and yet she's in a long distance relationship with him. How many stories have we heard about soldiers leaving for Even Terrence Popp over at Redunkulis Dot Com says that over ninety percent of the men that went over to Iraq with him were divorced after they got home from their tours. One of my favorite war movies of all time, The Thin Red line where a soldier goes to fight in the Pacific Theater and leaves his love back in America. You can only imagine what kind of trouble his wife gets into while he's away fighting the Japanese. This woman Gary is in his relationship with screams too good to be true on so many levels that it's sickening. This is the power of love. It blinds good men from seeing that women are capable of being liars and actors. And guess what his long distance lover does for a living? She's a lawyer. In the United States you have to be a great actor to be a successful lawyer. She could be lying to him while keeping a straight face on and he wouldn't even know it. After our discussion he had a lot to think about. I even told him about my YouTube channel and if he finds this video I hope he sees it as a warning that not everything adds up in his scenario. The warning sirens are going off in my head and they should be going off in his head too.

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