45. “She tells me that it’s my fault we can’t live the life we want to live”

45. “She tells me that it’s my fault we can’t live the life we want to live”

Sarah earns more than Andrew. They’re unmarried but imagine a future together, or would like to. The problem is that Andrew’s existing money scripts (and $65k in debt) have him frozen—unable to spend but also unwilling to seriously plan a way out. She wants to spend money on things like vacations, but he doesn’t feel like he can afford to spend. To make things worse, he feels terrible about money in general because that’s how his dad raised him—his presence looms over the conversation. We need to cut out the negative judgments and help Sarah see things from Andrew’s perspective. Then we can talk to Andrew about the mindset to overcome his past—and current—money issues. Connect with Ramit Website Instagram Twitter Facebook YouTube Linkedin If you and your partner have a money issue and you want my help, I occasionally select a couple to work with, free of charge. Apply for my help here. Produced by Crate Media.

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169. “We flew to Lisbon for Taylor Swift, but my $5 beer is the problem?”

169. “We flew to Lisbon for Taylor Swift, but my $5 beer is the problem?”

Annie’s 39 and Emery is 43. Although they have a high combined income, Annie makes 5x more than Emery. This leads to frustration over small purchases, like an extra drink at dinner—while they’re on va...

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168. “I’m going to die with student loans. Why should I count them?”

168. “I’m going to die with student loans. Why should I count them?”

Emi, 32, and Antonio, 29, have been married for six years and have struggled with debt for even longer. Credit cards, personal loans, student loans, refinancing—Emi has kept her head in the sand throu...

6 Aug 20241h 7min

167. “We took a loan to pay off our credit cards—and maxed them out again”

167. “We took a loan to pay off our credit cards—and maxed them out again”

Ashley is 29, Brandon is 30. They have been married for six years and have accumulated $261,000 in debt. Despite taking out a surrogate loan, they are still unable to have a baby. Ashley is desperate ...

30 Jul 20241h 4min

166. “I’m embarrassed—we hid $10,000 cash in our closet for 3 years”

166. “I’m embarrassed—we hid $10,000 cash in our closet for 3 years”

Christina is 37 and Noah 35. They’re married with one young son and another on the way. They earn a very high income, but their decisions are clouded by stress over money and over the future. Noah pla...

23 Jul 20241h 18min

165. “I make 10x my husband’s income. Will we ever feel like equals?”

165. “I make 10x my husband’s income. Will we ever feel like equals?”

Geena is 44 and James 39. They live in Brooklyn where she works as a corporate attorney and he’s a freelance musician—resulting in a 10x income disparity. They travel a lot, but do they invest enough ...

16 Jul 20241h 12min

164. “I stress over money—but we’re seeing Taylor Swift in France tomorrow”

164. “I stress over money—but we’re seeing Taylor Swift in France tomorrow”

Taylor is 39 and Steve is 42. They're married and live in New York City. Steve lost his job years ago, but has coasted without getting serious about his career. Taylor’s done the opposite—and now she’...

9 Jul 20241h 10min

163. “I work & watch my infant FT b/c we can’t afford childcare”

163. “I work & watch my infant FT b/c we can’t afford childcare”

James and Nicole, 42 and 44, just had a second baby—but they weren’t prepared for the additional costs associated with a growing family. They spend 90% of what they make and struggle to afford childca...

2 Jul 20241h 15min

162. “We panic over money—but spend $84K/year on travel and shopping”

162. “We panic over money—but spend $84K/year on travel and shopping”

Paul, 33, and Maddie, 29, joined us in New York City for a live-recorded episode. She is a high earner, but worries about lifestyle creep. He recently left his job, and they’re treading water on one i...

25 Jun 20241h 8min

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