45. “She tells me that it’s my fault we can’t live the life we want to live”

45. “She tells me that it’s my fault we can’t live the life we want to live”

Sarah earns more than Andrew. They’re unmarried but imagine a future together, or would like to. The problem is that Andrew’s existing money scripts (and $65k in debt) have him frozen—unable to spend but also unwilling to seriously plan a way out. She wants to spend money on things like vacations, but he doesn’t feel like he can afford to spend. To make things worse, he feels terrible about money in general because that’s how his dad raised him—his presence looms over the conversation. We need to cut out the negative judgments and help Sarah see things from Andrew’s perspective. Then we can talk to Andrew about the mindset to overcome his past—and current—money issues. Connect with Ramit Website Instagram Twitter Facebook YouTube Linkedin If you and your partner have a money issue and you want my help, I occasionally select a couple to work with, free of charge. Apply for my help here. Produced by Crate Media.

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161. “He hid $77k in CC debt from me—but can’t tell me what he bought”

161. “He hid $77k in CC debt from me—but can’t tell me what he bought”

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160. “My entire paycheck goes to daycare. Should I stay home?”

160. “My entire paycheck goes to daycare. Should I stay home?”

Live in NYC, Carlos and Amanda, 36 and 28, join the show to talk through a recurring issue in their relationship—her earning ability vs. the possibility of staying home with their kids. They recently ...

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159. “How can we raise 3 kids if she only makes $15k?”

159. “How can we raise 3 kids if she only makes $15k?”

Caleb and Alex are both 27. They have one young child and foster two sisters, both of whom they intend to adopt soon. As children themselves, Caleb and Alex were immersed in missionary work in South A...

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158. “We have $2M, why can’t we retire?” (Part 2)

158. “We have $2M, why can’t we retire?” (Part 2)

Rob and Adrienne are nearing retirement but worried about having enough. In Part 2, we dig into their Conscious Spending Plan to reveal a massively successful investment strategy that remains shrouded...

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157. “We spent $80,000 more than we made last year” (Part 1)

157. “We spent $80,000 more than we made last year” (Part 1)

Adrienne and Rob are 59 and 62, and they are overcome with worry over whether or not they’ve amassed enough wealth to live comfortably, and apply Rich Life principles, in their retirement years. Adrie...

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156. "We have 2 kids, 3 cars...but only 1 month of savings" (Part 2)

156. "We have 2 kids, 3 cars...but only 1 month of savings" (Part 2)

In the second half of this live-recorded conversation with Paul and Morgan, 37 and 33, we dig deeper into their Conscious Spending Plan to uncover three cars (for two adults), sporadic debt management...

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155. “We have $22k in cc debt—but I want to renovate the house” (Part 1)

155. “We have $22k in cc debt—but I want to renovate the house” (Part 1)

Paul and Morgan, 37 and 33, find themselves in a painful loop of arguments and unchecked spending, putting the future of their young family at risk. We hear about destination concerts, ongoing renovat...

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154. “We’re drowning in debt, but I drive a BMW”

154. “We’re drowning in debt, but I drive a BMW”

Kevin and Michelle, 32 and 30, joined me live in New York City earlier this year for our very first in-person interview. They have one young child and another on the way, but they can’t stop spending....

30 Apr 20241h 15min

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