Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 506 Okt 2024

Healing through Kink with Sexologist Lilith Foxx | Ep 62

In this episode, I sit down with Lilith Foxx, a BIPOC, queer, neurodivergent, kinky, and polyamorous marketing professional turned board-certified sexologist. Lilith, an AASECT-certified sexuality educator, professional speaker, coach, and diversity, equity, inclusion, and belonging consultant, shares her journey from tech marketing to becoming a prominent figure in the world of BDSM and sexual education. I delve into her personal experiences with BDSM, how it has empowered her, and her professional insights on navigating kink safely and consensually. Whether you're curious about BDSM, looking to explore your own desires, or seeking to understand the intersectionality of marginalized identities within alternative sexualities, this episode offers valuable perspectives and practical advice.

Timestamps:

(00:00) – Introduction

(00:32) – Meet Lilith Foxx: BIPOC, Queer, Neurodivergent, Kinky, and Polyamorous Sexologist

(01:54) – Lilith’s Journey: From Tech Marketing to Sexuality Education

(03:42) – Empowering Through Sexuality: Overcoming Assault and Embracing Kink

(04:41) – Kink is Not Therapy: The Importance of Mental Health Treatment

(06:09) – Reenacting Trauma: Psychological Risks and Rewards

(09:16) – Navigating Consent and Communication in BDSM

(12:45) – Understanding Kink and BDSM: Definitions and Misconceptions

(15:12) – Negotiating Boundaries and Consent in Kink

(16:03) – Starting Your BDSM Journey: Tips for Beginners

(19:05) – The Appeal of Pain and Masochism in BDSM

(22:40) – BDSM and Empowerment: Building Confidence and Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

(23:32) – Inclusivity in Kink: Navigating Disabilities and Marginalized Identities

(25:30) – Final Thoughts and Takeaways

Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.

This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.

Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:

Email: karen@taboototruth.com

Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast

Where to Find Lilith Foxx:

Website: https://lilithfoxx.com/

Instagram, @TheLilithFoxx https://www.instagram.com/thelilithfoxx/

Twitter (X): https://twitter.com/thelilithfoxx

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelilithfoxx

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