Already Friends10 Feb 2023

How to Develop Deep, Authentic Friendships, Red Flags in Community and The Five Friends You Need with Dr. Chelsea Shields (Part 2)

This is Part 2 of our conversation with award-winning anthropologist and TEDx Speaker Dr. Chelsea Shields. After working with clients all over the world to help them better understand how humans have evolved and what they’re socially influenced by, she has developed a theory about the five friends you need in life to contribute to your social safety net.

Ideas we discuss in this episode:

Finding a third place outside of social media
Code-switching and its impact on how we portray ourselves online
Why we struggle to be fully authentic online
Why you should utilize social media primarily for marketing
Red flags to look out for in unhealthy communities
Greens flags to look for in a strong, healthy, reciprocal community
What is social capital and being on the peripheral means.
Why you need to improve your social intelligence
How your own mental health affects long-term relationships
How to develop deep, authentic friendships
Why isolating after breakups isn’t the best solution
The importance of intergenerational friendships
The five friends you need in life

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