Ep 153: Erotic Poetry about her 63 Lovers, and Counting, Karla Linn Merrifield Shares Her Sensual Writings

Oral Stimulation! Listen and enjoy as erotica author Ruan Willow reads her sexy titillating yummy erotic stories. Ruan talks about sex with experts and sexperts. Chats focus on things to improve your sex life, including advice, tips, and erotica fiction. Ruan is sharing ideas to enhance your relationship and intimacy, your love life, and ideas for making romance bloom in your life. She also will be reading her erotic poems and prose and interviewing erotica authors. Celebrating sexuality and all things sex-positive, Ruan cares about your sexual health, both solo and with a partner(s)! Are you ready? Get ready. Let's do it ...Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow...let's go! 18+only. NFSW. Get podcast merchandise with Oh F*ck Yeah on shirts at the online store here: https://www.bonfire.com/oh-fck-yeah/  https://www.bonfire.com/oh-fck-yeah/ Copyright 2021-2022 All Rights Reserved Pink Infinity Publishing LLC Ruan Willow Connect with Ruan Willow across the internet, find her books, audiobooks, sex blog, and all the places she is published across the internet at: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Leave me a voicemail at: https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

21 Aug 202252s

Ep 182: Owning Your Sexual Self with Rachel Maine. Rachel is a Sex Therapist, Sex & Relationship Coach, and podcaster at Owning Your Sexual Self.  She's an amazing resource to help people have better sex, improved relationships, and more pleasure in their lives. She was fascinating and wonderful to chat with and I'm super excited to share her with all of you! We chatted about the masculine and feminine energies, including what they both are with examples, and why we should embrace both sides of them within ourselves. Yup. We have both! It's not a gender thing; it's an energy thing. We also talked about how sex toys and erotica are great tools to improve your sexuality of yourself and of that with your partner. They are an enhancement, a tool, not a replacement. We talked about how important communication is in relationships. We also addressed the fact that around 85% of women need clitoral stimulation to climax (and how sex toys can help with this too in positions where the clit is not getting enough stimulation to reach climax). Rachel talked about low desire and how to help with that, plus I loved her discussion of erotic blueprints and how knowing what category you fall into can help guide your sex life to flow more smoothly, and efficiently, and lead to more satisfaction and pleasure.  There's a website that offers how to help you determine which category you fall into: https://missjaiya.com/ We talked about the definition of orgasms and how there are different types and how important foreplay is ... and it's her favorite 'F' word! I love that! She also recommends women have an orgasm before penetration occurs since women can often easily have multiple orgasms. Other topics include sexuality, romance, psychology, self care, intimacy, health and fitness. To connect with Rachel Maine, please visit here: https://www.wellnesssexpertise.com/about and here: https://msha.ke/therachelmaine/?fbclid=IwAR0d5iYpmbKU0HUSRsKc3nO3I5RA6oqzWUm44X0x2gIuTS5J3s6HjhjeRFI Thank you for coming on my podcast Rachel! About Ruan, the podcast host: Connect with Ruan across the internet via https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow New NSFW Audiobook releases mentioned in the podcast (affiliate): Daddy Never Had to Use His Belt On Me Before: A BDSM Impact Play Spanking Story https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/9b69e62e-19ab-11ed-9d46-676ce26d62f8 Free book with free trial of Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/B0B8TLTBK8/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-318053&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_318053_pd_us The Lesbian Collection: Six Stories of Girl on Girl Shrinking and Growing https://amzn.to/3T1Jj75 Free book with free trial of Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/B0B9HXQV2R/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-318632&ref=acx_bt Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

19 Aug 202257min

Ep 181: Daddy Never Had to Use His Belt on Me Before: A BDSM Impact Play Spanking Story written by Benson E. Wolf, narrated by Ruan Willow. In this excerpt of the audiobook I narrated, you will get an intense storyline of a Daddy Dom/sub dynamic. This consensual type of spanking impact play should always be consensual. Talk about such an act and get consent before you do it. Many people love the power dynamics and role play components of a Daddy Dom/sub relationship. This is hardcore spanking with a belt. I thoroughly enjoyed acting out the parts of the sub Andrea, who gets spanked, and Daddy Dom Todd. Want to know more? Here's the book blurb: Andrea keeps making the same mistakes over again, but when Daddy Todd shows up to find out why his teaching colleague and friend didn't show up for work, she will have to submit to the spicy lesson plan that will leave a lasting impact on her...in the end. Is Todd prepared to use corporal punishment on this naughty cheerleading coach? When will she realize that this won't be a sexy funishment but punishment that will make her look back and feel the steam rise as her skin flushes many colors? The age gap between the two naughty friends will not stop Todd from making sure that her tail will tell naughty tales. ©2021 Benson E. Wolf (P)2022 Benson E. Wolf Want the whole audiobook? It's intense, steamy, hardcore BDSM impact play... so if this is your kink, you will love it! Link to purchasing the book on Amazon from anywhere in the world: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/9b69e62e-19ab-11ed-9d46-676ce26d62f8 To request a FREE advanced review copy of the full audiobook, click here: https://storyoriginapp.com/audiobookreviewcopies/3d7f3c6a-498a-430e-a2ba-fff3ea9e9f6b Please give us an honest review:) Connect with Benson E. Wolf here: https://www.bensonewolf.com/ Connect with Ruan Willow here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's Books and podcast merch:First-time swingers story Never Say, Never Swing https://books2read.com/u/4NjJPz and on Apple Books: https://books2read.com/u/mg7OR7 The Licking Sip Coffee Shop is now out! This is a naughty exhibitionistic, voyeuristic naughty tale where the baristas are topless and the steamiest stuff is not on the menu! https://books2read.com/u/bp8elJ Podcast merchandise! Get shirts, tank tops, and mugs with Oh F*ck Yeah on them right here: https://www.bonfire.com/oh-fck-yeah/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

16 Aug 202224min

Ep 180: Two Erotica Authors, Lucille Lewis & Ruan Willow, Chat about writing erotica, fantasies, sex, & the writer's life.  Listen to my chat with Lucille! We had so much fun! It's a girl's chat & you get to listen in! We discussed writing: how to do it, writer's block, story development, & using both our own sexual fantasies & those of others, in our erotic writing. She read an erotic poem, which was yummy! We chatted about the novel she's working on, which she is co-writing, plus her writing on Medium.  We discussed how erotica helps people explore and experience their kinks and fantasies & why it's so much more powerful, & personal, as compared to watching porn. We broached the topic of the negativity of many people in this world who view erotica as bad, those judgmental people are a part of the bigger problems in our sex-is-taboo sex-negative society. Erotica embraces sex/sexuality openly as a normal everyday thing, which it should be, & often is, even though our culture tries to pretend it's not. We chatted about how important it is to be a genuine person, a whole person, on social media. We talked about how real friendships can happen on spaces like Twitter, & how close & solid those friendships can be. We get to connect & make friends with like-minded people from all over the world we may never have met in our lives. We gushed about how unbelievably great, supportive, & amazing the erotic writing community is on Twitter. It's a very special phenomenon that constantly blows my mind in a very good way. Check out Lucille Lewis's work on Medium: https://medium.com/@looloubelle Follow her on Twitter: http://twitter.com/LoolouLewis Thank you for coming on my podcast Lucille! Want to join Medium?  Learn more through my affiliate link: https://medium.com/@ruanwillow/membership Connect with Ruan: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow New Audiobook: Daddy Never Had to Use His Belt on Me Before: A BDSM Impact Play Spanking Story (affiliate) worldwide access: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/9b69e62e-19ab-11ed-9d46-676ce26d62f8 Amazon US Store affiliate link: https://amzn.to/3vYOafe Podcast merchandise!  https://www.bonfire.com/oh-fck-yeah/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

12 Aug 20221h 1min

179: Lesbian Dressing Room Sex Date: A Story of Sexual Exhibitionism. The setup for this story is a polycule family, which is a polyamorous group of people who are in a relationship with each other and have sex with one another (usually in a long-term arrangement/situation). Once in a while, this family gifts each other a day of sex with others outside the polycule. In this story, the plan was that one of the women in the polycule family, Michelle, was to get a day of sex dates where she'd go from date to date all day long having enjoyable sexual relations that were designed with her tastes in mind. Michelle, a beautiful bisexual woman,  loved exhibitionism. This story was to be my chapter in an anthology. But that anthology has tragically been canceled. Why you ask? Here's why. And the story behind this is sad, but the story is fun, sexy, and celebratory of sexual openness and exploration and honors Michelle. This story was originally written for an anthology that was being created in loving memory of an erotica author who passed away from cancer. The proceeds for the book were to go to cancer research. Before her husband could get the book live, he was tragically killed. So the story was given back to me to do with as I pleased. I decided I wanted to still honor Michelle's memory and put my chapter out into the world. Michelle was an erotica author who went up and above over the top to support other erotica authors, to buy their books, and write reviews. Her erotica books are still on Amazon at: https://www.amazon.com/Michelle-Myer/e/B01MSDTQAU Check out her books! Her legacy of books is still there. I hope it stays in loving memory of her and all the support she offered up to the erotica writing community. What an amazing person she was! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life. love, Ruan All my links and books are accessible at https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Podcast merchandise! Oh F*ck Yeah right here: https://www.bonfire.com/oh-fck-yeah/ Get a copy of Ruan's Beach Getaway, an erotic romance MILF spicy age gap explicit tale: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 First-time swingers story Never Say, Never Swing https://books2read.com/u/4NjJPz and on Apple Books: https://books2read.com/u/mg7OR7 The Licking Sip Coffee Shop is now out! This is a naughty exhibitionistic, voyeuristic naughty tale where the baristas are topless and the steamiest stuff is not on the menu! Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

9 Aug 202246min

Ep 178: The Pegging Book and Male Prostate Orgasms with Authors Cooper S Beckett and Lyndzi Miller published by Thorntree Press.  The Pegging Book: A Complete Guide to Anal Sex with a Strap-On Dildo is the topic of this podcast episode. I was lucky to be able to chat with both authors in this interview/chat. They are both podcasters as well, check out their links below to find out more. Cooper S. Beckett is also an author of several books on his own. In this discussion about their manual to pegging, we chatted about pegging as an act, where the term came from and what it means. They gave their advice and tips for pegging, for sex toy products for pegging, and about male anatomy, including the prostate. The P spot for men/people with penises, is analogous to the female G spot. Cooper shared with us his amazing experiences with prostate orgasms! They both shared reasons why pegging is beneficial to both partners and to a relationship, and also to long term relationships. They talked about shame and fears associated with sexual butt play, and how some men inappropriately make the fragility of their ego their partner's problem and how we should all be more sexually open. We discussed if pegging is kinky, and the answer is, that depends on the person/couple/group. We touched briefly on if milking the prostate is healthy, why prostate orgasms are fabulous for men on psych meds, and why we should all masturbate daily. Yes! I love that! Lyndzi, who works in a sex shop as an assistant manager and an educator, shared with us why sex shops are so beneficial to everyone's sexuality, and it's not just for the reason that we can get toys! They shared about their upcoming launch party for the book releasing this October. The book will be coming out in ebook, paperback, and audiobook (which the authors are narrating themselves, woohoo!) Find the book here (affiliate): https://amzn.to/3Q5ye2S Find out more about the book here: https://coopersbeckett.com/pegging/ Cooper's podcast: https://www.lifeontheswingset.com/ Lyndzi's podcast: https://polyamoryuncensored.wordpress.com/ Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life. love, Ruan All my links and books are accessible at https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's books:My DEBUT LESBIAN NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains their taboo relationship and many explicit BDSM lesbian sex scenes: universal affiliate link to book  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1fd60b54-7493-11ec-b5c6-4712c13ec515 Book 2 in The Sex Challenge Series, The Grocery Store Sex Challenge (affil Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

5 Aug 20221h 1min

Ep 177: The Manwhore Podcaster Billy Procida is My Guest, We Chat About Sexual Adventures, Relationships, Sex Toys/Experiences, podcasting, and more! This is a fabulous episode where I enjoyed chatting with the host of the long-running podcast The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest. Billy is a comedian, podcaster, and sexual adventurer. He's on Only Fans as @callmebilly where he explores his sexuality and shares it. We chatted about dating, sexual adventures, new sexual experiences, and sex toys. We talked about his past hookups, which was the premise for him starting the podcast. On his podcast, he often talks about nonmonogamy, polyamory, dating, and other sex-positive topics. He does fun and outlandish sexual adventures on his podcast and loves connecting with guests, creating sexual tension, naked podcasting, and exploring his sexuality openly for himself, for his fans, and in front of the world. Connect with Billy: on Twitter http://twitter.com/TheBillyProcida and he's also on TikTok, Only Fans, Discord, The Champagne Room, Patreon, and find his podcast The Manwhore Podcast here https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-manwhore-podcast-a-sex-positive-quest/id864068000 Billy's Slutty Book Tree book recommendations: (affiliate) The Ethical Slut https://amzn.to/3vTvYE7 Sex with Shakespeare https://amzn.to/3zpZ7HE A Curious History of Sex https://amzn.to/3JiS0pb When Brooklyn was Queer https://amzn.to/3oKRxTd Podcast merchandise! Get shirts, tank tops, and mugs with Oh F*ck Yeah on them right here: https://www.bonfire.com/oh-fck-yeah/ All Ruan's links: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow BOOKS! All about Heterosexual couples/interactions: Get a copy of Ruan's Beach Getaway, an erotic romance MILF spicy age gap explicit tale: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway  https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 And on Apple and Kobo https://books2read.com/u/medqrV First-time swingers story Never Say, Never Swing https://books2read.com/u/4NjJPz and on Apple Books: https://books2read.com/u/mg7OR7 The Licking Sip Coffee Shop is now out! This is a naughty exhibitionistic, voyeuristic naughty tale where the baristas are topless and the steamiest stuff is not on the menu! https://books2read.com/u/bp8elJ Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

2 Aug 20221h 5min

Ep 176: Swimming Naked, Skinny Dipping & Hot Summer Sex at the Pond Erotica Story created ad hoc, ad lib, impromptu right off the top of Ruan Willow's head live as she recorded it. Phineas Larson and Star Monet are both young adults in their twenties getting their starts in their careers. Both work hard and get sweaty,  she in her garden, and him on the farm, so they both desire a swim in the pond. Life is busy, and who needs a swimsuit anyways, no one is ever at the pond so skinny dipping is in order on a hot summer day. And damn, it will feel good to glide in the cool water naked after working hard in the summer heat.  Star arrives first and she decides a little masturbation is in order before her swim, so she pleasures herself, only to find out afterward that she had a horny onlooker, who is well-meaning, but definitely saw more than Star ever intended anyone to see. Listen to this sexy steamy summer sex tale to discover what happens after the wannabe swimmers become aware of each other at the pond. Hi! I'm Ruan! Welcome to my podcast! I hope you enjoy this story! I created it off the top of my head, edited it slightly, and here it is for you to enjoy! Listen to my recent story where I also spun the tale off the top of my head of a female Domme police officer stopping a speeding man and dominating him, much to his delight, to get him out of the speeding ticket: https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/10830875-sexual-favors-to-get-out-of-a-speeding-ticket-erotica-story Podcast merchandise! Get shirts, tank tops, and mugs with Oh F*ck Yeah on them right here: https://www.bonfire.com/oh-fck-yeah/ All Ruan's links: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow BOOKS! All about Heterosexual couples/interactions: Get a copy of Ruan's Beach Getaway, an erotic romance MILF spicy age gap explicit tale:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon  for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway  https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 And on Apple and Kobo https://books2read.com/u/medqrV First-time swingers story Never Say, Never Swing https://books2read.com/u/4NjJPz and on Apple Books: https://books2read.com/u/mg7OR7 The Licking Sip Coffee Shop is now in presale! This is a naughty exhibitionistic, voyeuristic naughty tale where the baristas are topless and the steamiest stuff is not on the menu! https://books2read.com/u/bp8elJ Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for ad Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

29 Jul 202248min