134. Creating secure responses to avoidant behaviour

134. Creating secure responses to avoidant behaviour

Do you have a partner or friend that exhibits some of the signs of an avoidant attachment style? And do you find your own anxiety being triggered by their behaviour - resulting in a push-pull cycle - where both people feel frustrated and disconnected? You're certainly not alone with this. And in today's episode, I'm teaching you how to manage your OWN mind and create a secure response to avoidant behaviour. So that you can feel calm and grounded, regardless of what's going on for them - and a...

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100. But WHAT IF [insert scary thing] happens? (Facing your deepest fear)

100. But WHAT IF [insert scary thing] happens? (Facing your deepest fear)

When we're constantly spiralling in 'What if...' thoughts... - What if they break up with me? - What if they're mad at me? - What if they're lying to me? - What if they leave me? ... it's because of...

6 Sep 202429min

99. 7 symptoms of fear of rejection (how it f*cks with your relationships)

99. 7 symptoms of fear of rejection (how it f*cks with your relationships)

Do you tend to take things personally? Always interpreting things your partner or friends do as a rejection and then feeling miserable? Do you anxiously worry about the future of your relationships?...

30 Aug 202423min

98. Creating self-confidence

98. Creating self-confidence

Do you struggle feeling confident? And often find yourself feeling anxious, insecure, and filled with self-doubt? Did you know that, despite what a lot of us think, confidence isn't actually somethin...

23 Aug 202423min

97. Thoughts about how you look (the ‘good enough’ trap)

97. Thoughts about how you look (the ‘good enough’ trap)

When you look in the mirror, are you quick to berate yourself with criticism? Mentally noting all the ways you need to change or 'fix' something about how you look in order to be 'good enough'? Wh...

16 Aug 202423min

96. Getting your needs met

96. Getting your needs met

There's a lot of talk in the online space about needs and the importance of finding partners that meet our needs.But how do we actually go about asking for what we want? In this episode, I'm discussin...

9 Aug 202431min

95. How to have a difficult conversation

95. How to have a difficult conversation

Do you often avoid having the harder conversations with loved ones? Not really being truly honest about how you feel and sweeping things under the rug to avoid conflict? Or maybe you do bring up iss...

2 Aug 202423min

94. Maybe they're just not that into me?

94. Maybe they're just not that into me?

Do you ever find yourself obsessing over and trying to decipher how much someone else likes you?Whether your partner loves you as much as you love them...Or whether your friends feel as close to you a...

26 Jul 202423min

93. How to stop criticising your loved ones

93. How to stop criticising your loved ones

Do you find yourself being pretty critical of the people in your life?Your partner, your friends, your family members...Feeling frustrated and negative about the ways they show up or the things they d...

19 Jul 202425min

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