134. Creating secure responses to avoidant behaviour

134. Creating secure responses to avoidant behaviour

Do you have a partner or friend that exhibits some of the signs of an avoidant attachment style? And do you find your own anxiety being triggered by their behaviour - resulting in a push-pull cycle - where both people feel frustrated and disconnected? You're certainly not alone with this. And in today's episode, I'm teaching you how to manage your OWN mind and create a secure response to avoidant behaviour. So that you can feel calm and grounded, regardless of what's going on for them - and a...

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44. When everything sucks

44. When everything sucks

Are you going through a tough time right now? And feeling like you're struggling to deal with all the negative emotion you're experiencing? Maybe it's a break-up, some bad news, or or a situation co...

21 Jul 202323min

43. Am I justified in feeling this way?

43. Am I justified in feeling this way?

Ever feel really justified in feeling angry or hurt by something someone has said or done? Sometimes we can feel justified in thinking about things in a way that creates so much pain and suffering. ...

14 Jul 202324min

42. Lessons from 3 years sober

42. Lessons from 3 years sober

In today's episode, I'm talking about my journey being alcohol-free for 3 years and the lessons I've learnt while giving up alcohol. If you have no interest in giving up alcohol - DON'T SKIP THIS EPIS...

7 Jul 202323min

41. Why avoidant people trigger you

41. Why avoidant people trigger you

Feel like you can feel totally calm and secure when around certain people - but then that one slightly more avoidant partner or friend sends your anxiety into overdrive? You are not alone. In this e...

30 Jun 202324min

40. When to compromise

40. When to compromise

We are often told that compromising is important in any healthy relationship. But what does that really mean? Is it always true? When is it okay to not compromise and how do we make that decision?...

23 Jun 202316min

39. Regret is optional (decision making)

39. Regret is optional (decision making)

Do you find yourself thinking about things in the past and feeling a lot of regret?Or do you find yourself trying to make a decision and feeling paralysed with fear about making the 'wrong' one and re...

16 Jun 202330min

38. Your loveability (& your thoughts about you)

38. Your loveability (& your thoughts about you)

What is your relationship like with yourself? Do you find yourself loveable? Likeable? Do you not like yourself very much? In this episode - I'm going to teach you a concept taught to me by one of m...

9 Jun 202334min

37. Is this a want match?

37. Is this a want match?

When two people want the same things in a relationship - that's a want match. But often in our relationships we build so much resentment and frustration when the people in our lives don't appear to ...

2 Jun 202333min

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