134. Creating secure responses to avoidant behaviour

134. Creating secure responses to avoidant behaviour

Do you have a partner or friend that exhibits some of the signs of an avoidant attachment style? And do you find your own anxiety being triggered by their behaviour - resulting in a push-pull cycle - where both people feel frustrated and disconnected? You're certainly not alone with this. And in today's episode, I'm teaching you how to manage your OWN mind and create a secure response to avoidant behaviour. So that you can feel calm and grounded, regardless of what's going on for them - and a...

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28. The Validation Vending Machine

28. The Validation Vending Machine

Do you feel like the behaviour of the people in your life has the power to make you feel TERRIBLE about yourself or AMAZING? Do you find yourself feeling very insecure in your relationships and wish...

24 Mar 202320min

27. Stop beating up your past self

27. Stop beating up your past self

Do you ever reflect on the past things you've done and said and feel immense shame?Do you feel scared of making decisions because of how mean you're going to be to yourself if you make the 'wrong' one...

17 Mar 202317min

26. Why you don't need to 'see it coming'

26. Why you don't need to 'see it coming'

Do you constantly feel on red alert for signs something might go wrong in your relationship?Do you tell yourself its important you spot all the red flags and look out for signs your partner might be '...

10 Mar 202325min

25. Jealousy

25. Jealousy

Do you find yourself often feeling jealous in your relationships? And does it result in you showing up in ways you don't like?This episode is going to look at what jealousy is, the 3 thought errors t...

3 Mar 202320min

24. Managing your mind is for YOU not them

24. Managing your mind is for YOU not them

Do you feel a little resistant to the idea of taking responsibility for your own emotions? As if that means letting the people in your life 'off the hook'? Do you feel a little resentful that YOU'RE...

24 Feb 202322min

23. Hypocritical thinking in relationships

23. Hypocritical thinking in relationships

Do you tend to assume the worst of other people? And maybe expect them to behave in ways you aren't always perfect at doing yourself? Do you ever get called out on your double standards?Then this podc...

17 Feb 202318min

22. Valentine's Day - Expectations and being single

22. Valentine's Day - Expectations and being single

This two part episode looks into the expectations we have of our partners and how to manage our minds around them. AND how to manage our minds if we're single and having A LOT of thoughts about that a...

10 Feb 202320min

21. 7 tips for creating connections

21. 7 tips for creating connections

Looking to increase the number of friendships or relationships in your life? But feel like the mean voice in your head always stands in your way?This episode is for you.I'm going to share 7 tips for h...

3 Feb 202320min

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