Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau6 Jan 2022

138. You Get to Want What You Want in Dating & They Do Too

In this episode of the Self Love Fix podcast, I'm talking about something that could be triggering for some. The episode revolves around the idea that we're allowed to want what we do, but our dating counterpoints are allowed that same privilege.

Sometimes we have criteria for those that we date or that we want to be in a relationship with, but then when they have their own set of preferences, it becomes seemingly shallow. I'm here to tell you that those preferences say nothing about you, and they shouldn't be taken as such.

The topics I cover are:

Why People's Desires Aren't About You
How to Stop Attaching Yourself to People's Preferences
Respecting Your Partner's Desires

Gaining an understanding of this fact can really help you look for the person that desires exactly who you are and what you have to offer.

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