Navigating The Two Biggest Attachment Styles
ManTalks Podcast19 Mai 2025

Navigating The Two Biggest Attachment Styles

Talking points: psychology, attachment theory

We've had a LOT of newcomers recently, and I'm getting some great questions around what attachment theory means for men specifically. To that end, I've made you all a compilation; an episode chock-full of info on the two most common styles! One that cuts through the jargon and gives you some things you can work on literally right now.

(00:00:00) - The core of anxious attachment

(00:06:33) - What causes anxious attachment, and how it shows up in a relationship

(00:16:59) - What to do with anxiety, starting with the breath

(00:22:02) - Reclaiming your ability to ground yourself, and exposure therapy

(00:27:13) - The first, most important things to know re: avoidant attachment

(00:31:46) - How avoidant attachment shows up, and where it can come from in childhood

(00:43:54) - How it can show up in a relationship

(00:47:25) - Healing avoidant attachment: six simple tactics


For EVEN MORE info, dig into the Ultimate Guide To Attachment HERE: https://training.mantalks.com/attachment-guide


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