Why Your Voice is Your Secret Pleasure Tool

Why Your Voice is Your Secret Pleasure Tool

In this intimate episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, Dr. Emily teams up with Dr. Scott Lyons, a licensed holistic psychologist and body-based trauma expert, to explore how vocalizing pleasure can transform your intimate experiences. From a candid discussion about their couples massage experience in Vegas to practical advice on overcoming sexual silence, this episode reveals why making authentic sounds during sex creates deeper connection and more intense pleasure. We dive into the psychology behind sexual silence, examining how childhood conditioning, shame, and societal expectations keep us quiet when we should be expressing ourselves. Dr. Scott explains the nervous system science behind vocalization, including how making sounds stimulates the vagus nerve and helps regulate our bodies during intimate moments. We also tackle the difference between authentic pleasure sounds and performative moaning influenced by porn culture. This episode addresses common concerns like being too loud with roommates or kids in the house, offers practical exercises for gradually increasing your vocal expression, and explores how sound creates crucial feedback loops between partners. Whether you're naturally quiet or overly performative, you'll learn how to find your authentic voice of pleasure. Show Notes: 00:00:00 - The Vegas Massage Story: Learning from Authentic Sound 03:00:00 - Why We Stay Silent During Pleasure 06:41:00 - Men, Masturbation & the Culture of Quiet Sex 08:26:00 - Sound as Nervous System Regulation 11:07:00 - Authentic vs. Performative Vocalization 15:38:00 - The Sixth Limb: Your Voice as Extension of Your Body 18:06:00 - Shame, Control & Sexual Expression 23:10:00 - Practical Exercises: Touch for Pleasure Practice 28:14:00 - Sensory Play & Exploration 30:04:00 - Parents, Kids & Sexual Noise Concerns 33:08:00 - The 10% Challenge: Starting Small Join Dr. Emily and Dr. Scott as they share personal insights and professional expertise on breaking through sexual silence to unlock deeper pleasure and connection. This episode includes a live demonstration and practical homework to help you discover your authentic voice of pleasure. Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!:https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ Let’s get social: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ X https://twitter.com/sexwithemily Facebook https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily Threads https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily Let’s text: Sign up here https://sexwithemily.com/text

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SWE: Single for the holidays

SWE: Single for the holidays

Free Friday: Emily talks about being single over the holidays, why you should make a dating and/or relationship resolution for the new year, special tips, sexy wishes and happy holidays to all our listeners! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

23 Des 201126min

SWE: The One

SWE: The One

Emily explores the notion of ‘the one” and if it really exists. Emily thinks that there isn’t one, but a few. People come into your life for different reasons and fulfill different desires and purposes. However, the idea that there is one person out there, who will complete you and make everything better, is perhaps more pervasive than ever. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

21 Des 201137min

SWE - Orgasmic Headache

SWE - Orgasmic Headache

Emily gets a call from her friend about an orgasmic headache and Menace shares his “pre-gaming” ritual to prevent premature anything. Also, men who know how to talk to women, Jane Fonda’s secret for sex over 70, and how safe sex practices can’t be made safer with superglue. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

16 Des 201136min

Episode 356 - Friends With Benefits

Episode 356 - Friends With Benefits

Emily talks about the best way to tell someone you're not interested in dating anymore, crazy stalker ex-boyfriends, taking Viagra recreationally, sacrificial blowjobs, kegel exercises for men and women and what really are the benefits in having a “Friends With Benefits” relationship? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

13 Des 201133min

Episode 355 - Sex Geeks and Freaks

Episode 355 - Sex Geeks and Freaks

Emily goes on a date with her crush from the fifth grade in Michigan. Self-proclaimed “Sex Geek and polyamorous slut” Reid Mihalko talks about how to deal with jealousy in a polyamorous relationship. He invites Emily to instruct a kissing workshop with him, which means they have to make-out. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

12 Des 201156min

Flirt

Flirt

Emily is going on an OM-ing retreat and her dog is ruining her life, who should initiate sexting?, getting hit on by lesbians, nipple play for men, oral sex in the cockpit of a plane, how Emily gets out of traffic tickets, sleeping with your gym trainer, kegel exercises during sex, watching porn with your guy friends or your partner, cooking with semen, men not able to orgasm from sex, advice for virgins, the top ten signs she is flirting with you, tips for flirting with her and the biggest mistakes you can make when approaching a woman. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

8 Des 20111h

Episode 351 - Ginger Lovin'

Episode 351 - Ginger Lovin'

Emily wants all the foot fetish men out there to buy her expensive shoes and Menace wants to cuddle a lot during the holidays. Emily's assistant explains why “ginger” sex is better than other kinds of sex and how she randomly got in a relationship after dedicating herself to single life. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

6 Des 201130min

Episode 350 - Playing Games

Episode 350 - Playing Games

Emily does yoga acrobatics on a first date and Menace wants to have sex in his new car. Emily gives advice on how to increase and enhance the intimacy in your relationship. Also, have you ever dumped someone before the holidays so you didn’t have to buy them a present? Also, getting with the girl next door, making love vs. having sex, sex games, and what it feels like to have an orgasm. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

5 Des 201137min

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