EP#187: What It's Like in a Long Term Throuple

Jen, Scott and Jess, share candid insights into their lives as a throuple after nine months together. They discuss the evolution of their relationship, navigating distance and family disapproval, and the importance of communication and inclusivity. The trio also reflects on their adventurous intimacy, balancing different dynamics, and upcoming plans to deepen their connection. Their honest conversation highlights the joys and challenges of non-traditional relationships, emphasizing authenticity, mutual support, and the value of embracing love in all its forms.

Throuple Dynamics After Nine Months (00:01:12)

The group discusses what it’s like being in a throuple for nine months, including comfort, expectations, and initial challenges.

Family Friction and Drama (00:02:26)

Scott brings up family disapproval and drama, especially from traditional backgrounds, and how it affects their relationship.

Impact of Distance on the Relationship (00:03:23)

They talk about the challenges and benefits of living far apart, and how it shapes their connection and routines.

Balancing Time and Schedules (00:05:18)

Discussion about how limited free time and distance affect how often they see each other and the quality of their time together.

Evolving Feelings About Distance (00:07:24)

Jen shares how distance has become harder as their love deepens, and the group reflects on how their needs have changed.

Meeting in the Middle and Relationship Evolution (00:09:10)

They discuss meeting halfway, how their relationship has become more sophisticated, and the desire for more shared activities.

Family Disapproval and Navigating Relationships (00:11:06)

Each person shares their experience with family disapproval, how it impacts them, and their approach to handling it.

Relational Wiring and Sharing with Family (00:15:34)

Jen and Jess discuss being more relationally wired, how they communicate about partners with family, and the impact of distance.

Upcoming Trips and Family Events (00:18:11)

Excitement about an upcoming cruise, family events, and navigating family dynamics during group trips.

Humor, Compatibility, and Relationship Balance (00:22:15)

They reflect on humor, differences, and how each partner brings out different facets in the others.

Playful Dynamics and Partner Differences (00:23:30)

Discussion about playful teasing, differences in affection, and how each partner’s style complements the others.

Exploring Sex Life and New Experiences (00:27:58)

The group dives into how their sex life has changed, new experiences, and the evolution of intimacy over nine months.

Sexual Exploration, Toys, and Sensual Play (00:29:00)

Details about experimenting with toys, food play, and how learning from other partners has enriched their experiences.

Inclusivity and Avoiding Exclusion in Intimacy (00:34:38)

Scott emphasizes the importance of making everyone feel included during intimacy and avoiding the “accessory” feeling.

Closing Thoughts and Podcast Wrap-Up (00:36:58)

Final reflections, gratitude for the conversation, and Jen wraps up the episode with closing remarks and listener engagement.