EP. 287: The Hidden Cost of Being “The Strong One” — Why Carrying It All Is Breaking You Down

EP. 287: The Hidden Cost of Being “The Strong One” — Why Carrying It All Is Breaking You Down

This week on SAUNAIE, we close out Men’s Mental Health Month with a conversation every man needs to hear.

We’re unpacking the hidden weight of being “the strong one” — the brother, father, husband, son, or friend who carries it all but rarely asks for help.

Did you know:

  • 72% of Black men report feeling responsible for everyone’s well-being, often at the expense of their own health.

  • Men in high-responsibility emotional roles experience 25% higher rates of depression and anxiety.

  • Chronic stress from carrying too much increases your risk of heart disease by 33% and can shorten your lifespan by up to 5 years.

It’s time to let go of the guilt, set boundaries, and learn how to stop suffering in silence while showing up for yourself first.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • How the “strong one” role is glorified but dangerous

  • The mental, physical, and emotional toll it takes on men

  • 4 practical ways to break free without guilt

  • How to build real support systems and protect your peace

And yo — next week’s episode is gonna hit different.
We’re diving into financial literacy and mental health — breaking down how money stress is wrecking your mental, why we were never taught the game, and how to take control of both your finances and your peace.

Lock in. Share this with a brother who needs it.

#MensMentalHealth #SAUNAIEPodcast #ProtectYourPeace #StrongBlackMen

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EP. 273: Setting the Tone for 2024

EP. 273: Setting the Tone for 2024

[Segment 1: Reflecting on January - Setting the Tone] As we bid farewell to January, let's take a moment to reflect on the tone we've set for the year. The beginning of the year is an opportunity to set intentions & establish a foundation for success. How have your goals evolved? What challenges have you faced? Reflecting on these aspects provides valuable insights into your journey. - - According to a study by the American Psychological Association, individuals who regularly reflect on their goals are 30% more likely to achieve them. [Segment 2: Crafting Resilience - Strategies for Overcoming Setbacks] Resilience is the key to navigating the inevitable setbacks that come with entrepreneurship. February brings new challenges, but it's also a chance to refine our resilience strategies. Let's explore some actionable steps: Embracing Failure: Instead of fearing failure, view it as a stepping stone to success. - Studies from Stanford University show that entrepreneurs who embrace failure are 20% more likely to achieve long-term success. Learn & Pivot: Evaluate setbacks as opportunities to learn & pivot. The ability to adapt is crucial in the ever-changing landscape of entrepreneurship. - Research by the Harvard Business Review highlights that companies with a culture of learning are 25% more likely to succeed. [Segment 3: Fostering Growth Mindset - Cultivating Continuous Improvement] A GROWTH MINDSET is the foundation of continuous improvement. In February, let's actively cultivate a GROWTH MINDSET with these strategies: Embrace Challenges: See challenges as opportunities for growth rather than insurmountable obstacles. - According to a study in Psychological Science, individuals with a growth mindset are 15% more likely to embrace challenges & persevere. Seek Feedback: Actively seek feedback from peers, mentors, or customers. Constructive feedback is a powerful tool for improvement. - Research from the Journal of Applied Psychology suggests that feedback fosters skill development & innovation." [Segment 4: Positivity Amid Uncertainty - Nurturing Well-being] In a world of uncertainty, maintaining a positive mindset is a superpower. Let's explore ways to nurture well-being & positivity: Mindful Practices: Integrate mindfulness into your daily routine. Whether through meditation, mindful breathing, or other practices, studies in the Journal of Positive Psychology show that mindfulness reduces stress & enhances well-being. Express Gratitude: Regularly express gratitude. A study published in the Journal of Personality & Social Psychology found that practicing gratitude leads to increased happiness & life satisfaction." [Segment 5: Connecting and Collaborating - Building a Supportive Community] February is the perfect time to reevaluate & strengthen your support system. Let's discuss the importance of connecting & collaborating: Networking Opportunities: Actively seek out networking opportunities. - Whether through industry events or online platforms, connecting with like-minded individuals can provide valuable support & insights. Peer Mentorship: Consider establishing peer mentorship relationships. The support & shared experiences of fellow entrepreneurs can be invaluable. - Studies from the Academy of Management Journal suggest that peer mentoring positively impacts both personal & professional development."

24 Feb 202433min

EP: 272: Avoiding the January Blues

EP: 272: Avoiding the January Blues

Segment 1: The Power of Positivity - Real Life Statistics] "Before we delve into strategies, let's acknowledge the impact of a positive mindset. According to a recent study by the American Psychological Association, individuals with a positive outlook are 69% more likely to achieve their goals. Positive thinking not only enhances mental well-being but also contributes to better physical health. This January, let's leverage these statistics to fuel our journey toward a more positive and fulfilling life." [Segment 2: Overcoming the January Blues - Motivating Tips] "It's not uncommon to experience the 'January blues' as we transition from the holiday season to the routine of the new year. However, with the right mindset, we can turn this potential slump into an opportunity for growth. Here are some motivating tips to overcome the January blues: Set Micro-Goals: Break down your larger goals into smaller, achievable tasks. Celebrate these micro-successes to keep the momentum going. Create a Vision Board: Visualize your goals and aspirations. A study by Dominican University found that individuals who created a vision board were 67% more likely to achieve their goals. Morning Affirmations: Start your day with positive affirmations. Research from Carnegie Mellon University shows that affirmations can reduce stress and improve performance under pressure. Connect with Nature: Spend time outdoors. A study in the Journal of Environmental Psychology found that exposure to nature enhances mood and increases feelings of vitality." [Segment 3: Strategies to Maintain a Positive Mindset] "Now, let's explore specific strategies to maintain a positive mindset throughout January and beyond: Gratitude Journaling: Take a few minutes each day to jot down things you're grateful for. Studies from the University of California found that practicing gratitude enhances overall well-being. Mindful Breathing: Incorporate mindful breathing exercises into your daily routine. Research from Harvard Medical School indicates that deep breathing reduces stress and promotes relaxation. Surround Yourself with Positivity: Engage with uplifting content, podcasts, or books. Positive influences can shape your mindset. According to a study published in the Journal of Consumer Research, exposure to positive stimuli enhances positive thinking. Limit Negative Inputs: Be mindful of the information you consume. Limit exposure to negative news or social media. A study in the Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology found that reducing social media use led to significant improvements in well-being."

22 Jan 202415min

EP. 271: Creating a Mindset for 2024

EP. 271: Creating a Mindset for 2024

SAUNAIE Presents 2024 Mindset According to a recent study by the National Institute of Mental Health, 1 in 3 entrepreneurs reports experiencing symptoms of depression, anxiety, or both. The pressures of running a business, financial uncertainties, & the constant pursuit of success can take a toll on our mental well-being. Additionally, the high-stakes nature of entrepreneurship can lead to burnout, with studies showing that over 70% of entrepreneurs experience burnout at some point in their careers. it's crucial to recognize the signals that indicate our mental health may be at risk. Statistics from a recent Harvard Business Review article indicate that 50% of entrepreneurs regularly experience high levels of stress, which can be a precursor to burnout. a study published in the Journal of Applied Psychology found that entrepreneurs are 30% more likely to experience symptoms of depression than their non-entrepreneurial counterparts. Strategies for Mental Wellness Practical strategies to foster mental wellness throughout the year. These tips are designed to help you navigate the ups & downs of entrepreneurship while prioritizing your mental health." Mindful Practices: Incorporate mindfulness techniques such as meditation and deep breathing exercises into your daily routine. A study published in the Journal of Occupational Health Psychology found that regular mindfulness practice can reduce stress and improve overall mental well-being. Work-Life Balance: Establish clear boundaries between work and personal life. A survey by the Harvard Business Review found that entrepreneurs who maintained a healthy work-life balance reported higher levels of job satisfaction and overall well-being. Set realistic working hours, take breaks, and make time for activities that bring you joy outside of work. Social Connection: Entrepreneurship can be isolating, but social connections are vital for mental health. According to a study published in the Journal of Business Venturing, entrepreneurs who had a strong social support network reported lower levels of stress and higher levels of life satisfaction. Make an effort to maintain relationships with friends, family, and fellow entrepreneurs. Surrounding yourself with a supportive network can provide valuable emotional support. Professional Help: Don't hesitate to seek professional help when needed. Therapy and counseling can be powerful tools for managing stress and improving mental health. Statistics from the American Psychological Association indicate that therapy is effective for a wide range of mental health concerns, with over 80% of people who engage in therapy reporting significant improvement.

2 Jan 202422min

EP. 270: 2023 Evaluation

EP. 270: 2023 Evaluation

SAUNAIE Presents End of the Year Reflection It's been a roller coaster of a year, filled with highs, lows, & everything in between. As entrepreneurial millennials, we often find ourselves caught up in the hustle & bustle of the business world. Take a moment to reflect on your achievements, challenges, & the lessons learned throughout the year. What milestones did you reach? What setbacks did you face? Reflecting on these aspects sets the foundation for growth & future success. Let's celebrate our wins, big & small! It's easy to focus on what's next without acknowledging our accomplishments. Take pride in your achievements, no matter how minor they may seem. Recognizing & celebrating success not only boosts your confidence but also serves as a reminder of your capabilities. Share your victories with your support system; they've been there with you through thick & thin. The entrepreneurial journey can be intense, & it's crucial to prioritize your mental health. Incorporate mindfulness practices into your routine. Whether it's meditation, deep breathing exercises, or mindful walks, find what works for you. These practices can help reduce stress, improve focus, & enhance overall well-being. Remember, a healthy mind is your greatest asset in the business world. As we bid farewell to the current year, it's time to set intentions for the year ahead. What are your business goals? How do you envision your personal growth? Establishing clear intentions provides a roadmap for success & helps you stay aligned with your values. Consider creating a vision board or journaling to articulate your aspirations & keep them at the forefront of your mind. Surround yourself with a supportive network. Being an entrepreneurial millennial can be isolating at times, but having a strong support system is invaluable. Connect with like-minded individuals, join networking groups, & seek mentorship. Share your experiences and challenges; you'll find that many others are on a similar journey. Building a support system not only provides guidance but also fosters a sense of community.

2 Jan 202418min

EP. 269: What is Personal Development?

EP. 269: What is Personal Development?

S e g m e n t s: **Segment 1: The Essence of Personal Development** 1. **Defining Personal Development:**    - Let's start by defining personal development. It's a lifelong process that involves acquiring new skills, improving existing ones, & fostering personal qualities that enhance your Well-Being & Potential. 2. **The Path to Self-Discovery:**    - Personal Development is a journey of Self-Discovery. It allows you to understand your Values, Strengths, & Areas that need improvement. This self-awareness is the compass that guides your life. 3. **Unlocking Potential:**    - It's about unlocking your full potential. Through Personal Growth, you maximize your Abilities, which can have a transformative effect on your career, relationships, & overall life satisfaction. **Segment 2: The Consequences of Stagnation** 1. **Missed Opportunities:**    - When you don't focus on personal development, you risk missing opportunities for growth & advancement. Your career might plateau, & your personal life may become stagnant. 2. **Emotional Stagnation:**    - Stagnation in personal development often leads to emotional stagnation. You may find yourself stuck in negative thought patterns or lacking the tools to manage stress and challenges effectively. 3. **Diminished Resilience:**    - Personal development is key to building resilience. When you don't grow on a personal level, your ability to bounce back from setbacks weakens, making it harder to navigate life's ups & downs. 4. **Strained Relationships:**    - Neglecting personal development can strain relationships, as it might be difficult to understand & connect with others on a deeper level. **Segment 3: The Impact of Personal Growth** 1. **Enhanced Confidence:**    - Personal development boosts your self-confidence, which is a crucial asset in both personal & professional life. 2. **Improved Problem-Solving:**    - You become a better problem-solver. Personal growth equips you with the tools to face challenges head-on & find innovative solutions. 3. **Fulfillment and Happiness:**    - Most importantly, personal development leads to greater fulfillment & happiness. It's the key to leading a life that aligns with your values & aspirations.

4 Des 202324min

EP. 268: Balancing Ambition & Self-Care

EP. 268: Balancing Ambition & Self-Care

S A U N A I E Presents Balancing Self-Care & Ambition Segment 6: The Ambition-Self-Care Equation 1. **The Ambition Pull:**   - - As Millennials, We're often Driven by Ambition. We have BIG Dreams & the Determination to make them come True. - - Our Passion Fuels Our Work, but sometimes, it can become an All-Consuming Fire. 2. **The Self-Care Imperative:**  -  - On the flip side, Self-Care is imperative for our Mental & Physical Health. - - Neglecting Self-Care can lead to Burnout, Anxiety, & even Long-Term Health issues. 3. **Setting Boundaries:**   - - One way to Balance this equation is by Setting Boundaries. - - It's okay to say NO, to Allocate time for self-care, and to protect your well-being. This isn't a sign of weakness; it's a strategy for long-term success. 4. **Prioritizing Well-Being:**    - Remember that your well-being is your most valuable asset. It's the foundation upon which your entrepreneurial dreams are built. Prioritizing self-care isn't an indulgence; it's a strategic move to ensure you're fit to tackle your ambitions. 5. **Mindfulness and Presence:**    - Embrace mindfulness and being present in the moment. It's easy for our ambitions to make us live in the future, but self-care often happens in the present. Take time to savor the small moments and practice gratitude. 6. **Community and Support:**    - Surround yourself with a supportive community. Share your ambitions and struggles. Sometimes, simply talking about what's on your mind can be a form of self-care.

1 Des 202320min

EP. 267: Millennial's Success Stories

EP. 267: Millennial's Success Stories

Discover the incredible impact of personal development in the lives of millennials as we share inspiring success stories. From turning side hustles into dream businesses to overcoming entrepreneurial burnout, these stories reveal how personal development principles have transformed lives. Join us for valuable insights and actionable takeaways to empower your own journey of self-discovery and growth.

25 Okt 202321min

EP. 266: The Do's & Don'ts of Personal Development

EP. 266: The Do's & Don'ts of Personal Development

Q u o t e s: Have you told yourself how Wonderful you are today? 2nd: Humans are a work in progress for their entire lives. Take pride in every little step you're taking that moves you forward. S e g m e n t s: Let's start with the "Dos" - the Actions & Strategies that can truly propel your Personal Development journey. 1. **Set Clear Goals**    - Statistic: According to a study by Dominican University, people who write down their goals are 42% more likely to achieve them.    - Value: Setting clear, specific goals provides a roadmap for personal growth. 2. **Continuous Learning**    - Statistic: The World Economic Forum predicts that by 2025, over 50% of all employees will require significant reskilling & upskilling.    - Value: Lifelong learning ensures you stay relevant in a rapidly changing world. 3. **Embrace Failure**    - Statistic: Thomas Edison famously failed 1,000 times before inventing the light bulb.     - Value: Failure is a stepping stone to success, teaching resilience & innovation. 4. Cultivate Self-Discipline - Statistic: Research shows that Self-Discipline is a key predicator of Personal Success. - Value: Discipline helps you stick to your Goals & Maintain Consistency. 5. Networking & Mentorship - Statistic: According to a survey by Linkedin, 85% of jobs are filled through networking. - Value: Building a strong network & seeking mentorship can provide valuable guidance. **[SEGMENT 2: The Don'ts of Personal Development]** Now, let's explore the "Don'ts" - the common mistakes that can hinder your personal development journey. 1. **Procrastination**    - Statistic: A study by Piers Steel, a researcher on procrastination, found that 95% of people procrastinate to some degree.    - Value: Procrastination delays progress & keeps you from reaching your full potential. 2. **Negative Self-Talk**    - Statistic: It's estimated that 80% of our thoughts are negative.    - Value: Self-limiting beliefs can sabotage your efforts; positive self-talk is crucial for growth. 3. **Ignoring Mental Health**    - Statistic: The World Health Organization states that depression is the leading cause of disability worldwide.    - Value: Neglecting mental health can hinder personal development; if you need help ask for it. 4. **Fear of Change**    - Statistic: The American Psychological Association reports that fear of change is a common barrier to personal growth.    - Value: Embracing change is necessary for personal development; it leads to adaptability & growth. 5. **Comparison to Others**    - Statistic: Research from Social Comparison Theory shows that constant social comparison can lead to decreased self-esteem.    - Value: Focus on your own progress rather than comparing yourself to others. **[SEGMENT 3: The Value of Personal Development]** So, why invest in personal development? Let's look at some compelling reasons. 1. **Career Advancement**    - Statistic: 70% of employers believe that soft skills are just as important as technical skills.    - Value: Personal development enhances soft skills like communication & leadership. 2. **Happiness & Well-Being**    - Statistic: A study in the journal "Emotion" found a strong connection between personal development & increased life satisfaction.    - Value: Self-improvement often leads to a happier & more fulfilling life. 3. **Financial Success**    - Statistic: Research by the University of California found a positive correlation between financial success & personal development.    - Value: Skills acquired through personal development can lead to higher income & financial security. 4. **Improved Relationships**    - Statistic: A study published in the Journal of Marriage and Family found that personal growth positively impacts relationships.    - Value: Developing better interpersonal skills enhances relationships with family, friends, and colleagues.

16 Okt 202332min

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