How Differences in Attachment Affect the Wisdom of Staying Together  GUEST: Jennifer Lehr

How Differences in Attachment Affect the Wisdom of Staying Together GUEST: Jennifer Lehr

Wondering why your relationship always seems a bit off? Why you cannot get the emotional intimacy you crave?

The Attachment Style you adopted as a result of your early life experiences plays a big part in how you create and relate with others.


Knowing your Attachment Style provides you with invaluable insights into how you create relationships, what you expect from them, and where your fears about them lie.


GOOD NEWS! Just because you may have had poor models of healthy relationships in your young life doesn't mean you cannot emerge from that experience to create healthy, emotionally mature bonds now. It starts with recognizing your attachment style and how that colors your view of relationship. Then, you can work through to heal.


When you're uninformed about Attachment Styles, you can feel a little powerless. Gaining this knowledge and choosing to move in healthier, more secure, and less fearful ways of being in relationship is empowering.


Enjoy!

Big hugs,

Rhoberta


HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

  • What Attachment Theory is and how it informs relationships
  • How Attachment Theory affects your ability to understand your partner's feelings and triggers
  • Why your Attachment Style can prevent you from establishing the closeness you long for
  • What steps you can take to move towards creating a healthier, more secure Attachment Style
  • Jennifer Lehr's journey from what she calls "dismal relationship ability" to being in a happy, healthy relationship
  • Gain insights and hope for creating deeper, healthier bonds


GUEST: JENNIFER LEHR


Jennifer Lehr is a licensed marriage and family therapist, the founder of WeConcile, an online program for committed couples seeking help, as well as an educator on the process of living, self-acceptance and stepping into your magic life.


In 2009, she began writing WeConcile a revolutionary do-it-yourself online educational application that helps couples improve trust, intimacy, safety and connection through established relationship science. She created WeConcile to help couples get free from pain and disconnection, and to again find happiness in marriage. Now, Jennifer Lehr is on a mission to create a world filled with connection instead of conflict. She specializes in educating couples on the relationship skills they need to build a solid, connected and loving partnership. As a marriage and family therapist for nearly 20 years, she uses her knowledge and advanced training in many couples' modalities to help others succeed in their marriage.


GIFT FOR YOU: Not at this time.


CONNECT WITH JENNIFER:

WEBSITE: https://www.weconcile.com

PODCAST:

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/WeConcile/

YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsd-X1BvZv4l4jKkWQmsZ7Q

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/weconcile/

LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/company/weconcile/

TWITTER: https://twitter.com/we_info/

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? We can talk: Introductory session for new clients, $97


CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER! I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.


FOLLOW DR. SHALER...

WEBSITE: https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.com

PODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.com

FACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor

TWITTER: https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LINKEDIN: https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

INSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler

PINTEREST: https://www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShaler


-------------------------------------------------------------

I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!

If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,

join my Support Circle now.

Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.

WOW! Join now. Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowered Community.

----------------------------------------------------------------------

#attachementtheory #attachmentstyles #healingattachment #healingafteratoxicrerlationship #healingafteranarcissist #learningtorelate #intimacyinrelationship #improvingrelationship #knowyourattachmentstyle

#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #hijackalabuse #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #unhealthyrelationships #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest

Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/hijackals-conflict-toxic-people-narcissist.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Denne episoden er hentet fra en åpen RSS-feed og er ikke publisert av Podme. Den kan derfor inneholde annonser.

Episoder(371)

Be Positively Selfish

Be Positively Selfish

This audio was recorded in 2006, long before Hijackals became Dr. Shaler's focus. Rethinking Selfishness: "What if I told you that I now value selfishness? Would that be shocking? Not only do I value ...

22 Apr 202420min

DRAMA-DUMPING: The #1 Thing NOT TO DO When Meeting a Person for the First Time

DRAMA-DUMPING: The #1 Thing NOT TO DO When Meeting a Person for the First Time

Whether you're looking for a new friend or a potential new relationship, you don't want to be trauma dumping. When you let your whole story fly, someone else is likely to get crushed by it.Out of the ...

12 Mar 202433min

Expecting Emotional Maturity from a Narcissist? Don't Hold Your Breath!!!

Expecting Emotional Maturity from a Narcissist? Don't Hold Your Breath!!!

SOOO frustrating! You hoped for a partner, parent, sibling, or adult child with whom you could communicate, collaborate, and co-operate, but no. You live most of the time with q tiresome toddler or mi...

5 Mar 202427min

Narcissists Make OUTRAGEOUS ASKS. Learn to say NO,

Narcissists Make OUTRAGEOUS ASKS. Learn to say NO,

Narcissists ask for too much...and they expect to get it. It's essential to hear that a question is outrageous so you can respond differently. If you've been with a Hijackal for too long, you may have...

27 Feb 202443min

Standing Up to Narcissistic Intimidation -Here's How!

Standing Up to Narcissistic Intimidation -Here's How!

Being with a narcissistic person is scary, right? You are usually wrong...even when you're right!. You never know what mood they'll be in. They lie, gaslight, rage, and fall silent. They are intimidat...

20 Feb 202446min

How Being the Golden Child In the Family Hurts You

How Being the Golden Child In the Family Hurts You

Can't do anything wrong? Get away with nonsense? Get extra goodies? Attention? Time?Might sound good but it can get old fast and leave you with very poor self-esteem and a lack of identity. Have a sib...

13 Feb 202434min

It's Smart to Stop Trying to Please a Narcissist

It's Smart to Stop Trying to Please a Narcissist

Narcissists love it when you run after their approval. You hope to explain yourself and be heard; they hope to explain you away. In this episode are five iron-clad reasons to not even try to please a ...

6 Feb 202435min

STOP OVERSHARING. It's dangerous.

STOP OVERSHARING. It's dangerous.

You want someone--at least one someone--to hear you, see you, believe you. So you share. Sadly, that often turns into oversharing, leaving you a little red-faced. if you fully embarrassed a little lat...

9 Jan 202434min

Populært innen Fakta

fastlegen
dine-penger-pengeradet
relasjonspodden-med-dora-thorhallsdottir-kjersti-idem
treningspodden
foreldreradet
jakt-og-fiskepodden
mikkels-paskenotter
rss-strid-de-norske-borgerkrigene
rss-kunsten-a-leve
sinnsyn
hverdagspsyken
babyverden
gravid-uke-for-uke
tomprat-med-gunnar-tjomlid
rss-var-forste-kaffe
fryktlos
ryddepodden
dopet
rss-impressions-2
rss-sarbar-med-lotte-erik