Saying "NO" to a Narcissist & Making It STICK!
Narcissists HATE to hear "NO!" You don't want to be a pretzel or a doormat, so you NEED to say NO when you mean it. Overtime, a Hijackal® may wear you down and try to get what they want by any means. ...
22 Aug 202328min
How Narcissists Create SITUATIONSHIPS NOT RELATIONSHIPS
It's all rosy, dreamy, and forever in the beginning...until it's not! You try and try to recapture interest, regain emotional intimacy, and re-examine every inch of your mental, physical, emotional se...
15 Aug 202336min
Have a NARCISSISTIC ADULT CHILD? 21 Things NOT to Do
Having a Hijackal adult child is confusing, infuriating, disappointing, and frustrating among many other things. (And, it's worse when your child creates children!) What you DON'T do is as important a...
8 Aug 202336min
Narcissists ARE Revenge-Seekers
You may not think about it like that, AND, it's true. Narcissists ARE Revenge-Seekers. Whether the revenge is subtle or obvious, small or huge, it's still revenge. Once you see what I mean, you'll see...
1 Aug 202327min
Stuck on a Partner's POTENTIAL Instead of Their REALITY?
You can get terrible stuck--for a very long time--by buying into a partner's potential. You can see how it could be, so you hope it will be. There's the mistake. See the differences today so you can m...
25 Jul 202334min
How NOT to Confuse BEING USED with BEING LOVED
It's confusing. You see what you think are loving behaviors. Then, you start wondering, but give a narcissist the benefit of the doubt. Then, you're in a pattern where things have gone lop-sided, pear...
18 Jul 202333min
Narcissists Use INSULTS Because They Can't Use LOGIC!
Insults are a low, low form of expressing disagreement. Not strange that narcissists stoop that low, is it? Their incessant NEED to win means they will go low in hopes of winning quickly. Sad & nasty!...
11 Jul 202330min
NARCISSISTS = The Ultimate Frenemies
You want a best friend and a narcissist won't be one. You want a confidante and a narcissist uses your words against you. At best, Hijackals® are frenemies. You're unsafe around them. You feel the lac...
4 Jul 202326min
