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WELCOME TO VAULT ARCHIVES EVERY SUNDAY!! Where I share previous episodes from the vault that never made it on the show. Good or bad, you decide!On this episode (from 2019), Remi Cruz and Alisha Marie join me to discuss being single, feeling rejected, getting cheated on, and how to win a breakup even if you never actually dated.We end this episode on a hilarious note where I share fan's first date horror stories from a pop Ziplock bag to sh*tting yourself in front of your date. lol. It's gonna be a sh*t show! Pun intended.Don't forget to rate and subscribe to this podcast so you never miss an episode again!!! New episode every Tuesday, Thursday, and Sunday :)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

19 Jun 202240min

Let's talk about sex baby! Sex PARTIES, that is…Sex parties, are they a common thing now? Or are they still considered ‘don’t ask don’t tell’ events that are exclusive to a VERY select community? We think we know what these parties are all about from the outside looking in, but you’re about to find out what really goes on behind the scenes. In today's episode Violet gets the inside scoop on Hollywood’s most elite members and what they do to fulfill some of their darkest fantasies. We’re still not sure if money can buy you happiness, but we have confirmed that it definitely can buy you your own 50 Shades of Grey experience. Today’s guest Damon Lawner is the founder of world renown sex club, Snctm, a private members club hosting erotic black-tie Masquerades, dinners, and classes specializing in fetish & erotic arts. Violet and Damon dive deep into the private world of Snctm events, while also discussing celibacy, masturbation, the art of the orgasm, and how to reach your sexual nirvana. Violet makes sure to get ALL the juicy info you need to know so tune in now!THIS WEEK'S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:Modern Fertility Go to http://www.modernfertility.com/adulting for $20 off your first fertility test. Just Break Up PodcastSubscribe to https://www.JustBreakUpPod.com/ for a weekly dose of love and laughs and all the relationship advice you want to hear! What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction00:39 What is Snctm?03:38 First experiences with sex07:23 It’s a created playground to live out everything09:33 Do you find yourself to be very sexual?13:37 A lot of girls don’t orgasm through sex16:20 It’s like Cinderella’s glass slipper19:36 My kids found out about Snctm23:48 Doing some phases of celibacy25:55 “I like the person I’m slowly becoming.”29:40 Connecting with someone and giving your full self35:03 Masturbation and orgasm-drunk36:16 Your first BDSM experience?40:07 Self respect versus self-awareness47:34 We are the worst narrators of our own stories50:11 Rigorous application at Snctm55:24 The wildest parties are happening in…58:33 “I tried m*th the first time I came to the US…”01:00:33 Saying YES and NO to someone’s application01:02:28 Craziest sex stories in the club01:07:35 Sex clubs aren’t really male dominated01:10:07 Oh orgies01:14:46 “Yeah, that’s your experience.”01:18:12 Rope tying demoConnect with Damon on:InstagramSecret GardenGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

16 Jun 20221h 20min

This just in... Violetta Elaia Benson isn't perfect!We all get tired. We all make mistakes. And we all mess up. It’s normal because it is in our nature to not get things right the first try. It’s okay to not be okay when you don’t feel okay. Hello, Besties! Today, I’m sharing an acupuncture session turned therapy session where I was told holding in my emotion is stressing my body out! And speaking of stress, the interview with Bella Thorne came out last week. Before the interview, I had one of the worst days of my life, it made me breakdown afterwards. And I was being hard on myself, which I shouldn’t be doing. So, if you want to know what this is all about and how I was trying to stay alive the whole time, hit that play button! THIS WEEK'S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:ApostropheSave $15-off your first visit with an Apostrophe provider at http://Apostrophe.com/ADULTING when you use our code: ADULTING - to get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for $5.ManscapedGet 20% off and free shipping at https://www.Manscaped.com/ and use the code: ADULTINGWhat to Listen For:00:00 Introduction03:12 The acupuncture session07:51 What happened two weeks ago?10:55 Before the interview with Bella Thorne18:21 And then the camera stopped recording21:46 Programming your brain when to have a breakdown28:59 Take your mental health walks33:27 Imagine our life as a little play38:40 Setting boundaries and prioritizing yourselfGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

9 Jun 202240min

“Our society makes victims feel like villains.”Final Episode of May’s Mental Health MonthPeople deal with childhood trauma differently just as the horrible experience is different for every person, for every victim. The only consolation that victims have is a support system that is always there for them, that is present with them when their overwhelming feelings arise and when painful memories are triggered. It is in our support group that we can learn to accept what happened, live through it, and move on with life. But what if we don’t have that kind of support group?Today’s guest is actress, model, singer, and songwriter Bella Thorne. Warning: We are discussing sensitive topics and our way of dealing with these issues may not be what people might expect. Nonetheless, we get to listen to how a victim and a survivor of sexual abuse grew up to be a forward-focused person, always working hard to make a name for herself, and is now open about her experiences with dating and relationship struggles. THIS WEEK'S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:Diet Smoke Go to https://www.dietsmoke.com/ and use promo code: ADULTING for 20% off your entire order. What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:17 Something weird most people don’t know about you?04:53 How did you get into acting so young?10:17 When you’re feeling a little hateful13:05 “She must have an easy life…”17:16 Losing your father at a young age22:37 Coping with a losing a loved one27:43 We don’t get enough support from our system35:54 The long-term effects of sexual abuse41:41 Talking about your trauma 48:40 Crazy things I did with my sister54:37 Non-negotiable when it comes to dating57:23 What's the worst day you've ever been on? 01:08:25 How do you break up with someone?01:10:32 What are you currently working on?Connect with Bella on:InstagramFacebookYouTubeTwitterTikTokThe Life of a Wannabe Mogul: Mental DisarrayGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

2 Jun 20221h 4min

WELCOME TO WHAT I LEARNED THIS WEEK - 5 SIGNS YOUR BESTIE IS TOXIC AFA 5 minute bonus episode for my besties that don't do podcasts or have the time! EVERY TUESDAY!!This week I give you 5 MORE signs it's time to let go of your TOXIC friendship. A 5 minute pep talk that will OPEN YOUR EYES about your BESTIE.Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, share with your friends, and follow our new Almost Adulting youtube channel!!And tune in THIS Thursday, for a very special one hour episode with Bella Thorne.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

31 Mai 20225min

“What does worry do for you?”Episode #5 of May’s Mental Health MonthIt’s heartbreaking to learn that someone you know is battling cancer. But, there is nothing more devastating than finding out that you have it. Things begin to crumble and the future seems bleak. Uncertainties will haunt you and possibilities of the future will only bring sadness, anxiety, and depression. It’s a battle for your life, one that can make you feel like you’re on the losing end.Today’s guest is Co-CEO & Co-Founder of FabFitFun, Daniel Broukhim. Daniel bravely shares his battle against cancer, how he landed in the ER and later found out about his condition, the inner turmoil he had to go through amidst a flourishing business, and the importance of a good support system that helped him throughout his journey. Now, he is nearing his second year of being cancer-free! Visit https://fabfitfun.com/ and get $10 off your first box and use the code: ADULTINGWhat to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:31 Diagnosed with the big C16:24 “I was too weak to work, at a certain point.”18:22 How do you support a loved one with cancer?24:37 Everyday is a good day in your life28:39 Is taking psychedelics helpful?34:39 How cancer can threaten masculinity38:04 Are men at higher risk of having major depressive disorder?42:13 Consider the mental health of your support system43:58 Did you have deep regrets?45:59 How did you celebrate being cancer-free?Connect with Daniel on:LinkedInInstagramTwitterFabFitFunGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeTHIS WEEK'S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:ApostropheSave $15-off your first visit with an Apostrophe provider at https://www.apostrophe.com/pod/ADULTING/ when you use our code: ADULTUNG to get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for $5. Modern Fertility Go to http://www.modernfertility.com/adulting for $20 off your first fertility test.Hello Fresh Got to http://www.hellofresh.com/adulting16 and use our code: ADULTING16 for up to 16 free meals and 3 free gifts.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

26 Mai 20221h 1min

WELCOME TO WHAT I LEARNED THIS WEEK - 5 SIGNS YOU'RE IN A TOXIC FRIENDSHIPA 5 minute bonus episode for my besties that don't do podcasts or have the time! EVERY TUESDAY!!This week I give you pt.1 of 5 signs you're definitly in a toxic friendship. A 5 minute pep talk that will OPEN YOUR EYES.... from your big sis, aka me, Violet Benson. :)Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, share with your friends, and follow our new Almost Adulting youtube channel!! And tune in this Thursday, for a very special episode of, Life After Cancer.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

24 Mai 20225min

“Emotion knows no time.”Episode #4 of May’s Mental Health MonthMen are emotional creatures too! They can cry, they can feel pain, they can be weak, and they can become vulnerable. BUT society is telling them not to do any of this. Society is telling them to hide their emotions to stay masculine. They are being deprived of the chance to properly process their emotions.Today’s guest is Traver Boehm, the man behind the UNcivilized Men’s Movement and the author behind Today I Rise and Man UNcivilized. Traver shares his reasons for creating the UNcivilized Men’s Movement, why men are used to suppressing their emotions and the damage it causes, and how you can encourage the men in your life to get help when they need it. What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction00:52 What does it mean to be an uncivilized man?06:27 Having intimacy is an emotional nourishment07:53 What is the UNcivilized Men's Movement?10:05 Is that a real fear for men?14:21 The Marlboro Man Paradigm19:21 Men have higher suicide statistics27:45 Men struggle to navigate around their emotions33:32 One of the lies men were told35:14 The category for a ‘nice’ guy 39:08 How can you be there for your male friend?43:34 Allow other people to have their own space45:20 Can you ask your partner to go to therapy?Connect with Traver on:InstagramWebsiteBookThe UNcivilized PodcastGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeTHIS WEEK'S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:AwayStart your 100-day trial and shop the entire Away lineup of travel essentials, including their best-selling suitcases at awaytravel.com/adulting.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

19 Mai 202257min