(Rewind): How to Make Them See You as More Than Just a Hookup

“Were we even on the same date?” I’ve heard this more times than I can count when people feel frustrated that their date didn’t ask them many questions . . . or in some cases, any questions at all.   In today’s episode, I respond to a viral tiktok on this topic and talk about how to tell the difference between someone who’s self-absorbed vs. someone who is just oblivious but really is interested in learning more about you. I also give you two sample scripts you can use when you want to bring up the issue in a high-value and low-pressure way.    ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

30 Sep 202417min

It’s strange how we often feel more comfortable with the idea of going on a date with a stranger than talking on the phone.  But isn’t it a good idea? Shouldn’t we test how they are on the phone before we meet in person? In this clip, we answer a question from someone who feels that men get scared off when she suggests a phone call, and give some practical tips for how to build more comfort before the first date.   ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

27 Sep 202412min

What are some practical ways we can deal with the grief we'll face in our lives? How do we stay present and not get lost in the painful stories and traumas of the past? And how do we get over guilt and regret? I shared a clip from my talk with Grief Expert David Kessler earlier this week, and I wanted to share a part two because I know how powerful this work will be for anyone in my audience suffering from loss and dealing with heartache.  ►► Order Your Copy of David Kessler’s Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief on Amazon at. . . https://tinyurl.com/5wr8ja2a   ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

26 Sep 202447min

Have you ever suffered a loss you’ve never really moved on from? It could be someone you loved. It could be a failure, or the loss of a life you thought you would have. It could be trauma that goes back to childhood.    The good news is, you can heal. I had the enormous privilege of hosting world-renowned grief expert David Kessler at my Retreat in Florida this year. In this week’s epsiode, you’ll hear his profound advice for what it really takes to move on and truly heal from our biggest losses.   ►► Order Your Copy of David Kessler’s Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief at. . . → http://www.GriefBook.com   ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com   ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

23 Sep 202422min

In today’s new episode, I’ll share with you exactly how to do that through 13 highly practical tips to get him to take you more seriously. Some of these are subtle, but each one of these points can have an outsized impact on how your relationship moves forward. I really wanted to make this episode because the tone you set in the beginning will serve you throughout your entire relationship, and the influence you can have on being taken seriously by someone is huge. It can determine whether your relationship will be a casual one that’s on their terms, or a committed, loving one where you’re building something together. And in addition to being practical, this episode breaks down the psychology behind each of these tips and provides you with examples (and in many cases, specific texts) you can customize and make your own. ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

20 Sep 202417min

Do you find some relationships and situations in life that just drain you? Maybe there are people you're investing energy into in your dating life that make you feel burnt out, frustrated, and make you want to withdraw entirely. So if you want to spend your time in a happier, freer, more productive way that leaves you uplifted, this episode is for you. Matt gives 7 key insights from the book "Protect Your Peace" by Trent Shelton that will change your mindset and stop you surrounding yourself with toxic people that add to your stress in life. ►► Answers Tailored to You, In Real Time, When You Need Them Most. Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free at . . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

18 Sep 202433min

Why does dating feel so difficult today? It can often seem like it’s a competition to see who can be more “aloof,” who can care less, who can try the least. And when you put in actual effort, it can feel like it even turns people off!    Everyone seems to be looking for someone “rare and special,” but there’s a right way and a wrong way to approach this. In today’s episode, I explore the #1 way to approach dating, advice for texting, and small-but-effective ways to move things forward. ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

16 Sep 202420min

What can you do when you feel like you're getting excuses and feel they're pulling away in their texts? If you don't want to play games, here's a simple way you can be honest, vulnerable, but still keep your standards when you respond. ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

13 Sep 202410min