Friend Crush with Amber Akilla31 Jul 2025

hot girls don't let comparison be the thief of joy

talking through the mental blocks that can occur when we get stuck on comparing ourselves to others in a way that hinders our ability to be HOT and HAVE FUN !!!

03:33 - radical acceptance

05:11 - practicing gratitude

07:07 - set intentions

07:52 - lean into irony when being serious feels like a joke

08:37 - abundance vs delusion

09:45 - your mindset affects your decision making

11:00 - awareness + intentional action

11:28 - practice connecting with your experience of life

11:41 - you will face challenges no matter what

13:10 - rejection is protection and redirection

14:14 - nobody knows what they’re doing

15:58 - other people’s success are evidence of what is possible

18:03 - be honest with yourself about the lengths you will go

18:25 - your own story unfolds through action, not comparison

19:27 - additional thoughts

20:22 - there's more than just what you think or have been told is 'success'

21:00 - understanding your validation needs

22:28 - how my idea of success as a DJ has changed over time

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