Friend Crush with Amber Akilla16 Aug 2025

rethinking imposter syndrome

i got asked about imposter syndrome recently, there's definitely some overlap with comparing yourself to others (see previous video) but i made this video as an add on/extension. let me know your thoughts as always please!!

my skin looks so bad here but i was too lazy to put a filter on so i'm keeping it 99 !!!xx

02:30 - everyone is a newbie at some point

03:28 - confidence revised

04:10 - life is a project, performance art!

05:09 - confident people won’t judge you or put you down

05:36 - lock in on your purpose

07:10 - don’t always assume competition

08:04 - understanding your projections

08:21 - make friends, connect over common experience

09:09 - recognize the unpredictability of each person’s journey

09:40 - healthy competition

09:59 - embrace your uniqueness

10:16 - what your know vs who you know

10:50 - understanding nepotism

11:55 - build your own thing instead of feeling like you need to be allowed into someone else’s project

13:28 - redefine success

14:40 - diversify your focus and interests

15:19 - legally blonde - elle woods is an icon!

18:10 - redefine purpose

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