45) Loneliness in motherhood with Dr. Naomi
Dam Parenting21 Mai 2024

45) Loneliness in motherhood with Dr. Naomi

Motherhood can be one of the most fulfilling experiences, but it can also be incredibly isolating. No matter how much help you have—whether from family, friends, or even a partner—the truth is, you're often alone in those quiet, difficult moments. The sleepless nights, the long days filled with feeds, park visits, and the exhaustion that makes it feel like you're the only one truly carrying the weight. But who’s there for you?

In this candid episode, Maren and Eva sit down with Naomi to address the loneliness that so many mothers face but so few talk about. It's easy to feel like you "should" be enjoying every moment, creating perfect memories, and bonding with other new moms. But the reality? It can be tough. There are days when you can't shower, you're stuck on the floor with your baby, or you're simply too tired to do anything. Whether it's the rain keeping you inside or the anxiety of facing the world when you feel drained, the isolation is real.

We’re here to acknowledge this difficult experience and remind you that you're not alone in feeling this way. Naomi brings in valuable insights on self-compassion and how acknowledging these feelings can help us navigate the journey of motherhood with more empathy for ourselves. If you've ever felt like this, this episode is for you.

Key Takeaways:

  • The raw and real loneliness many mothers face during the early days of motherhood.

  • The emotional toll of sleepless nights, exhaustion, and the pressure to "enjoy" every moment.

  • Why self-compassion is a critical tool to combat feelings of isolation and burnout.

  • Naomi’s research on loneliness and self-compassion in the context of motherhood.



As long as you are self- compassionate, you will never walk alone


Self-compassion and loneliness

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