Breaking the Cycle: How to Stop Protest Behaviors from Destroying Your Marriage

Breaking the Cycle: How to Stop Protest Behaviors from Destroying Your Marriage

Learn how to break destructive protest behavior cycles before they destroy your marriage! In Part 2 of the protest behaviors series, marriage therapy expert Christa Hardin explores why these patterns escalate from mild criticism or withdrawal to explosive fights and emotional shutdown. Discover childhood origins of each Enneagram type's specific protest strategies, from Type 8s who learned vulnerability was dangerous to Type 5s who learned people drain them. Learn general and type-specific ways to create emotional safety that prevents protesting, how to respond during protest episodes to de-escalate rather than inflame, and repair strategies that actually heal after damage occurs. Includes the escalation pattern most couples miss and practical tools for building marriages where direct communication feels safer than protesting. Watch on YouTube! Get healthy together as a couple this Fall! Get early bird rates right here for your personal healing journey in the Enneagram Relationship Intensive with Christa⁠⁠⁠⁠ here!⁠⁠⁠⁠ Listen to Christa on The Allender Center Podcast here! Leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your phone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a podcast review so others can find us, too⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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How Your Fitness Level Affects Your Marriage and Your Enneagram Type

How Your Fitness Level Affects Your Marriage and Your Enneagram Type

Join Christa for a compelling conversation as we talk all things Enneagram and fitness! This week's research has shown cutting edge tips for staying as healthy as possible during COVID-19. In addition...

20 Apr 202040min

The 9 Enneagram Types in Spirituality & Marriage

The 9 Enneagram Types in Spirituality & Marriage

Tune in as Christa creatively guides you through helpful tools and tips for each Enneagram type on their spiritual journey.  Chances are, your faith has evolved over the years and that your marriage h...

13 Apr 202052min

Marriage With the 9 Types During Quarantine

Marriage With the 9 Types During Quarantine

When quarantine guarantees an unquestionably long time together with your partner, what can you do to keep things not only healthy but also safe? Join us for an important conversation about each type ...

6 Apr 202043min

Learning from The Enneagram Anxiety Triad During COVID-19

Learning from The Enneagram Anxiety Triad During COVID-19

Listen in for amazing tips on managing anxiety by Enneagram type as an individual as well as a spouse, and learning to differentiate normal anxiety from a paralyzing disorder. Some people spend their ...

30 Mar 202032min

Up Close & Personal With Christa's Husband Wes, Enneagram 1?

Up Close & Personal With Christa's Husband Wes, Enneagram 1?

Join us for this special episode as host Christa Hardin and her guest, her husband Wes, Enneagram 1, get serious as well as laugh as they contemplate their relationship and whether he's actually been ...

23 Mar 202026min

SPECIAL EPISODE: Connection During the Coronavirus

SPECIAL EPISODE: Connection During the Coronavirus

During times of local or national stress, couples often become more conflicted that ever. With the world shutdown and Coronavirus upon us, we need each other more than ever so we can stay connected an...

17 Mar 202024min

Seasons of Marriage & All 9 Enneagram Types

Seasons of Marriage & All 9 Enneagram Types

Listen to this important episode to learn what you in your Enneagram type can expect over the beginning, middle, and later stages of marriage as you make the important decision to grow love. Couples o...

16 Mar 202050min

Females and the Enneagram

Females and the Enneagram

Women are stereotyped as being more emotional than men and our surveys showed that feelings types were indeed much more prevalent with females than males. Join us as we talk about the large number of ...

9 Mar 202033min

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