Divorce and the Stories We Tell  | Ep #9

Many of us carry around painful stories about divorce and what it means about us to make that choice (or for someone else to choose it for us). Whether you are married or single, listen to uncover what stories you carry about divorce and how to let them go.

When I first got divorced, I was so embarrassed to say it out loud because I thought it meant "failure." Over time, I have changed my story and see it as success rather than failure.

In this episode you'll learn how I went from blaming him for the divorce to owning what was mine and letting the rest go - resulting in freedom from the shame, blame and guilt I felt.

More information at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/

© 2020 Andrea Giles

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