Accountability and Responsibility | Ep #67

How do we know if our spouse is taking responsibility for their infidelity? How do we know if we are really moving forward or just doing the same things we have always done? How long do we wait for something to happen before we make something happen ourselves?

These are questions I hear a lot, and ones that are important to answer. Part of re-building trust after infidelity is knowing that our partner is not only being transparent with the facts, but also holding themselves accountable for the choices they made.

Another big piece in moving forward is understanding where we are taking too much responsibility upon ourselves for the actions of others, and where we are not holding ourselves accountable for our own growth.

In this episode, you'll learn the difference between taking responsibility and passing it off to someone else, and specific markers to look for in evaluating the progress of your partner. You'll also be able to see in yourself where you are passing off responsibility to someone else, waiting for them to change so you can feel better.

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Unbecoming Who I Never Was - Releasing Old Stories and Reclaiming What's True | Ep #189

Unbecoming Who I Never Was - Releasing Old Stories and Reclaiming What's True | Ep #189

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More Than Actions - What We Really Need After Betrayal | Ep #188

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Making Room for It All - Lessons from a Wedding | Ep #187

Making Room for It All - Lessons from a Wedding | Ep #187

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25 Apr 202525min

Focusing on the Wrong Things After Infidelity | Ep #186

Focusing on the Wrong Things After Infidelity | Ep #186

In this episode we talk about how important it is to focus on personal growth after infidelity rather than fixating on the actions of the partner. We need to prioritize self-healing, understanding the...

18 Apr 202518min

Stop Learning and Start Letting In: The Power of Integration After Infidelity | Ep #185

Stop Learning and Start Letting In: The Power of Integration After Infidelity | Ep #185

In this episode, we cover the critical concept of integration after infidelity. It's so important to move beyond mere education and understanding and advocate for a deeper embodiment of the lessons le...

11 Apr 202533min

The Hidden Cost of Happy Wife, Happy Life | Ep #184

The Hidden Cost of Happy Wife, Happy Life | Ep #184

Today, let's explore the phrase 'happy wife, happy life' and its implications on relationships. We'll discuss the dangers of suppressing emotions, the cost of avoiding truth, and the importance of bui...

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Honesty - Your True North in Healing and Relationships | Ep #183

Honesty - Your True North in Healing and Relationships | Ep #183

In this episode we're delving into the importance of honesty and truth-telling in the healing process after betrayal. We'll talk about the courage required to face one's own truths and the detrimental...

28 Mar 202528min

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