The "Love Account" Principle: One of the Most Critical Actions That's Easily Forgotten as You Get Busy and Are Together For Years: Episode 201

The "Love Account" Principle: One of the Most Critical Actions That's Easily Forgotten as You Get Busy and Are Together For Years: Episode 201

Every interaction is either a deposit or withdrawal from your partner's "love account". Meaning, every little remark you make or thing you say either deposits love and connection or it takes some away. The thing is, less "love deposits" are made for couples who are together a while or find themselves in busy seasons of life.

Most couples will go through seasons like these where they need to be making more deposits but they are actually making more withdrawals unconsciously. This isn't just a relational "nice idea" because the level of your love accounts determines how on edge, reactive, and snappy you are to each other. The hardest thing about having a low account is that you are much less willing to do the thing you need, to fill it back up…

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What Really Creates Change in a Marriage (for better or worse): Episode 342

We all want some degree of change in our lives, and our relationships. So long as they are the changes we want! Change can be difficult if it brings about a lot of unknown, or if the change you desire...

7 Mai 202430min

3 Ways to Connect More as a Couple in Everyday Life, Even When Busy: Episode 341

3 Ways to Connect More as a Couple in Everyday Life, Even When Busy: Episode 341

Building connection (and closeness) with your partner is fundamental to having a happy and satisfying relationship. Yet it's the first thing that takes a back seat when you are busy, stressed, or just...

30 Apr 202419min

Marriage Trials to TRIUMPH: Our Story Overcoming the HARDEST 2 Years + How We Became STRONGER Than Ever: Episode 340

Marriage Trials to TRIUMPH: Our Story Overcoming the HARDEST 2 Years + How We Became STRONGER Than Ever: Episode 340

The last 2 years could have torn us apart and made us turn against each other. It felt like life was throwing everything at us at once, all while we had a newborn baby. In this episode, you'll hear: ...

23 Apr 202434min

Who's to Blame? Determining Your Part in Marriage Issues: Episode 339

Who's to Blame? Determining Your Part in Marriage Issues: Episode 339

Who's to blame for your frustrating problems and patterns in your relationship? It's obviously your partner, right... they're the problem. No… blaming them doesn't get you anywhere, in fact it makes t...

16 Apr 202427min

Navigating Power Struggles With Your Partner: Episode 338

Navigating Power Struggles With Your Partner: Episode 338

There are disagreements in your relationship, and then there are Power Struggles! These power struggles are more detrimental and have deeper rooted contributing factors. They keep you from being the b...

9 Apr 202432min

Issues With the In-Laws: Episode 337

Issues With the In-Laws: Episode 337

Your family is a source of support, love, and acceptance. Now there are certainly times that our perception of actions from family members make us forget those underlying intentions. Of course this ca...

2 Apr 202429min

Communicate Better, De-escalate Conflicts, Repair Faster After Arguments: Episode 336

Communicate Better, De-escalate Conflicts, Repair Faster After Arguments: Episode 336

The basis of a strong marriage is how well you handle 3 "stages" of interactions. These 3 stages are before, during and after conflicts. The before stage is all about communication and being able to p...

26 Mar 202427min

6 Keys to Become More Emotionally Intelligent Partners: Episode 335

6 Keys to Become More Emotionally Intelligent Partners: Episode 335

Emotional Intelligence (or lack thereof) can truthfully be a make it or break it factor for a marriage. It's a big part of what helps you be connected, navigate hardship and disagreements, and embrace...

19 Mar 202424min

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