The "Love Account" Principle: One of the Most Critical Actions That's Easily Forgotten as You Get Busy and Are Together For Years: Episode 201

The "Love Account" Principle: One of the Most Critical Actions That's Easily Forgotten as You Get Busy and Are Together For Years: Episode 201

Every interaction is either a deposit or withdrawal from your partner's "love account". Meaning, every little remark you make or thing you say either deposits love and connection or it takes some away. The thing is, less "love deposits" are made for couples who are together a while or find themselves in busy seasons of life.

Most couples will go through seasons like these where they need to be making more deposits but they are actually making more withdrawals unconsciously. This isn't just a relational "nice idea" because the level of your love accounts determines how on edge, reactive, and snappy you are to each other. The hardest thing about having a low account is that you are much less willing to do the thing you need, to fill it back up…

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"Just Tell Me What You Need Me To Do!" Resentment From Having to Remind or Delegate Responsibilities to Your Partner: Episode 238

"Just Tell Me What You Need Me To Do!" Resentment From Having to Remind or Delegate Responsibilities to Your Partner: Episode 238

Having frustrations and feelings of resentment over your roles and responsibilities is a common thing we hear. One parter is frustrated about not getting help, then the response they get is: "just tel...

28 Jun 202232min

3 Things to Acknowledge Your Partner For More Often (To Prevent Feeling Taken For Granted): Episode 237

3 Things to Acknowledge Your Partner For More Often (To Prevent Feeling Taken For Granted): Episode 237

You and your partner both do a lot of things for the relationship and marriage to work. A lot of these things are done each day and are very routine. But it's easy to feel taken for granted, or even t...

21 Jun 202220min

Motivational Moment: Failure is a Part of Growth: Episode 236

Motivational Moment: Failure is a Part of Growth: Episode 236

Would anyone actually raise their hand and say that they enjoyed failure? If any, it would be a small number for sure because we just don't like that feeling that comes with failing. But what if failu...

16 Jun 202210min

What Makes Positive Changes LAST or NOT: Episode 235

What Makes Positive Changes LAST or NOT: Episode 235

As you know from listening to this podcast, actually resolving conflict is the most important thing for a healthy relationship. TODAY this topic falls into the next most important thing in a relations...

14 Jun 202231min

Motivational Moment: Better Yourself, Better the Marriage: Episode 234

Motivational Moment: Better Yourself, Better the Marriage: Episode 234

​​There are going to be times that you feel ... something. That something might be what you would think of as a "negative emotion". Typically what happens however is that you point the finger at your ...

9 Jun 20227min

5 Ways to Create More Fun and Inspiration in Your Marriage and Life: Episode 233

5 Ways to Create More Fun and Inspiration in Your Marriage and Life: Episode 233

You have a lot of life to manage. You have your job, getting kids where they need to go, paying bills and managing finances, scheduling trips and events with family, and on it goes. A part of living l...

7 Jun 202223min

Motivational Moment: Be Resilient in Uncertain Times: Episode 232

Motivational Moment: Be Resilient in Uncertain Times: Episode 232

It's pretty clear that world circumstances are making things more difficult right now. For some, maybe more than ever. There are political tensions with countries, a slowing down of the job and econom...

2 Jun 20228min

Repairing Resentments- Big or Small, They Need to be Dealt With: Episode 231

Repairing Resentments- Big or Small, They Need to be Dealt With: Episode 231

You probably don't actively think "I have some resentment building up toward my partner". Resentment is a little like putting small amounts of sand into a backpack over time. You might not notice the ...

31 Mai 202233min

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